Why do love have to hurt wheather it is good love are bad love?

to lose a love ,a love to leave you, to fine a true love, to love and can,t stop the love all hurts a good an bad so is love hurt

Why do love have to hurt wheather it is good love are bad love?
It is not a question of good love or bad love. The question is - whether you really love or not?





Note down that you don't love. It hurts and the very idea that you don't love hurts... but this is my understanding -- that rarely, out of one hundred people, do one or two persons love. Ninety-eight think they love and suffer! Their suffering is fictitious -- in the first place they don't love!





Those two persons who really love, their suffering is not suffering -- their suffering is a sacrifice. And when I use the word 'sacrifice', I mean its original meaning -- it is sacred. They are happy doing it -- they are not unhappy. They will be unhappy if this situation of sacrifice is taken away from them. No, they are happy. They are called forth... they are ready. They are ready to stake their whole life for it.





Ninety-eight percent of people don't love but they go on thinking they love. They go on creating problems and it is difficult to sort them out because from the very foundation things are missing. You go on creating a structure and the foundation is not there so the building is never made. Or even if you sometimes succeed in making it, it is very dangerous to live in it.





That's why when two persons think that they love each other, but actually they are not, they are getting into hell. They have created a building of love which is very dangerous -- it can collapse any moment. It is ready to collapse! Once they are in it, it will collapse. It is going to kill them'
Reply:simple reason GOD didnt want everything to be so ezy
Reply:Love doesn't hurt fi it hurts is not love.
Reply:well bad love sucks because people can make it bad love, me and my bf get along perfectly so we have aton of fun together on msn and at school so its always fun
Reply:Love hurts because people make it hurt. It all has to do with who you fall in love with. Sometimes that hurt is a really good hurt.

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Anyone in love with weed?

Im writing a paper on the relationship between Love and drugs. I am trying to say that someone can be in love with a drug just as they can be in love with a person


my idea is that avid cannabis smokers LOVE weed. i want to know if you can be in love with weed. please give me some insight





how is the feeling of getting stoned similar to love?





does being high make you love life?





does it make you feel like a better lover?





any help would be great. im just brainstorming at the moment. im going to include things such as how obsession, need, dependence ect. are both aspects of being in love and doing drugs. thanks!

Anyone in love with weed?
I love weed, but I am not IN love with it. The feeling is nothing similar to love. Weed just makes you feel numb most of the time, or numb and giggly. It's never like an overjoyous occassion. Being high does help me enjoy my life a little more. And you feel like a better love because you lose some of your inhibitions and you feel a little freer.





Edit: I have never heard of a correllation between marijuana and the emotion love. The only connection that I can logically make is that when someone smokes marijuana it creates a chemical reaction that mimics being in love. But in my experience, the actual feeling of being high is just blah, it's relaxing, and not really exciting like love. I would be interested in your sources?
Reply:um... no... i enjoy smoking it but i'm not in love with it. also, most people who smoke weed are not addicted to it, only some who become psychologically addicted. but the majority are not, so there is no issue for most people with need and dependence.
Reply:I dont think people love it...they become dependant on it. Besides compairing human love to substance love just isn't the same type of love anyways.





ok so i didn't answer your questions but you get the gist of it
Reply:it makes you way happy and it makes u feel like theres no popularity. a "nerd" can walk up to a "cheer leader" and tell her shes beautiful with out caring what he just did..
Reply:I really think that someone could but they also call that an addiction, depends on who you ask.
Reply:There is no corollary between liking drugs and love.
Reply:when i saw ur question i thought whoa does she do drugs


but thank god u dont


i dont and i hope i never will


drugs are bad news
Reply:No, no and no. So sad.
Reply:Whew! I'm glad your not one of them! I was thinking "How pathetic!"
Reply:lol. that is a one way relationship my friend.
Reply:duh
Reply:are u a weed smugglar !
Reply:nope..I don't know why anyone would be. All you do is laugh at everyone for no reason %26amp; look like a fool then when your finish with that you eat yourself half to death then crash out for a few hours. YUCK!


I can almost see how people would feel like a better lover though because you get really really well...you want it bad ..when you get high. So I don't think it makes you better really, it just makes you want it more therefore it feels extra good so you think your the bomb..lol


As for love I wouldn't say it's similar at all...none


And as for making your life better,no. I think most people smoke it just to escape from reality because they can't for what ever reason handle daily issues on their own. I know one thing when you get caught with it %26amp; end up in jail your not "loving your life" then huh? LOL





OK ....I am adding this to say if your trying to "prove" links between love %26amp; pot it's not going to happen...you can prove lust %26amp; being outright horny %26amp; addiction is linked with pot smoking but not love....sorry
Reply:the pot smokers obsession over marijuana is similar to a person's general appreciation for nature itself. The marijuana bud is a unqiue cosmitc design, it's smell dictates it's potency, and its high is a euphoric one leaving it's user with a notion of mystique and intrigue every time one encounters it's heavenly presence.





One cannot equate love for cannabis to that of a significant other because it is two different things. It's like saying what would be more desirable, a kiss from your lover or a cool breeze on a hot summer day. Both are pleasures of different magnitudes. Same applies for those who show distinct appreciation for cannabis. It is a love in the form of appreciation of nature rather than the love of acceptance of another. The addiction part plays a role when one cannot differentiate between the two or chooses one to replace the other.





When one is educated about the wonders of cannabis and uses it as a supplemental herbal remedy which it is intended for. The user is enlightened and believes his/her existence is a fulfilling one.

Lost love <3 Help Im Heart Broken :'( :'( Teenage love <3?

What do i do,Ok.Heres my story. Um well we were fine at first.We went out for about a month and then we didnt see each other for like 3 weeks. He was a really lovely guy.Omg he did the most sweetest things made me a song and so on. But the point is it got to my birthday and we broke up the next day. I said to him on msn, We had nothing to talk about i thought i didnt love him anymore so i said to him "I think the love we had for each other has gone" And he replied to me saying " Same.Do u want to just end it then" I had no choice but to say Yeah ..If i'd said no that would of been awkward. And then so we broke up.I thought id done the right thing But now its been about too weeks and im lost heart broken, I didnt reliesed i loved him this much,Hes on my mind 24/7. I saw him the other day and he was with all his mates i looked like a prat. But i love him so much i just want him to say that he loves me! :(:( I really do Arhhh i really love him, I want to be in his arms.

Lost love %26lt;3 Help Im Heart Broken :'( :'( Teenage love %26lt;3?
Awww...poor you. I know its awful to be in love with someone and not know how to let them know. You say you dont want to look a fool by telling him, but whats the alternative? Sleepless nights or relentless self torture over what if? I think you need to make a stand and tell him...why not? If he says he doesnt feel the same, you can move on and know that you at least you fought for him. You never know, he may be feeling exactly the same way and he is feeling the same way, that by saying something will make him look like a fool..





If this isnt the answer and there is no way that you are going to tell him how you are feeling then you maybe need to focus on getting over him....or think of some cunning plan to get him back....good luck hun.
Reply:aw, i'm so sorry! sounds like a crappy situation.


Are you wanting to date him again? give him some hints that you still like him...if you don't want to just straight out tell him. Maybe talk to him at a party....then you'll have to really lean into him to have to hear him. Maybe look up at him...stare at his lips...try to give him a sign that you still like him
Reply:Ah teenage love! I don't miss those days at all, honestly! But I really think you should say, Well i think I made a mistake, maybe we should give it another go-round? The worst he can do is say no, and then you can really know its over %26amp; move on. 2 weeks isn't a very long time to heal heartbreak, give it more time.
Reply:Get a mutual fried to subtely ask him how he feels about you ad how he feels about the break up. If he regrets it maybe you could get this fried to persuade him to talk to you. Or you could start talkig to him on msn about random things not the actual break up and then maybe it'll lead to him telling you how he feels. If he doesn't then you'll just have to suck it up and take it after all you can't cange the way efeels. and i'm sure there'll be a guy out there whose just as good.
Reply:first you have to figure out whether you actually still love him or you just miss being with someone


cos quite often its the latter go out and find someone new that should get your mind off him if not then you really need to tell him its not fair on him or you if you dont he needs to know where he stands

Am in love with my best friend girl.?

Hello everyone, pls kindly help me out with this dire state i got myself into. i have a very good friend who trust and love me so much,and i love and trust him so much also, but my problem started when he reconciled with his ex-girl, this girl prefers my company than is boyfriend, she walked up to me some day and told me she is in love with me. that she can not resist me. at first i was scared and thought it was a setup, later she insisted. cried all night, and even call me on phone in an ungodly hour, I fell for her and make love to her,ever since then we have been together secretly. the truth is that we so much love ourselves,but i cant say if this love is real or not. she loves me more than the way she loves my friend. and am scared because i know some day my good friend will get to find out about this and it will end our long term friendship.





Pls all i need is a candid advice from all walks of life. i dont want to get trapped in this web, do i continue or do i quite?

Am in love with my best friend girl.?
if she reconciled with him, that means that she prefers him - not you. She made her choice - or she is just playing games with you.





Now that she has made her choice, you should leave her alone and find someone else. Don't allow her to seduce you if she wants a secret relationship.





People have been killed by their friend for getting mixed up like you are. Don't let it go further.
Reply:This is a true fix you find yourself in, with no good ending. You have to decide which you value the most: Your long-term friendship with your friend, or your shorter-term and seemingly shallow relationship with his "girl-friend". Please be aware that if you go with your friend you will (and should) tell him about your problem with the girl, without having to go into detail, and that you value his friendship over hers. If, on the other hand, you decide to go with the shallow, back-stabbing, duplicious girl, then expect two things to happen: first you lose your old friend, second the girl finds some one else she likes better and you find yourself out in the cold without your friend.
Reply:hi, I think you may have two good friends, one in a weird romantic situation and one being thankfully unaware. leave it at tat dont escalate. stay cool and ride it out, see what they do first . Be flattered than she is involving you in her love life.


try to be a peicemaker.

Love or im in love? come on girls.....?

sometimes i say to my self that guys are all the same, but now im spekaing about the guys that know what they want.... i hope all of you are happy, but my guestion is why some girls they expect from their bf to tell them i love you? why they dont unterstand that love comes with time??you cant play like that with love.... i seem nay girls they say i love my bf but the true is that they just in love with them.... they mix tihngs up i think

Love or im in love? come on girls.....?
I know you're frustrated and your inspiration for this question was the other girl asking how can she make her bf say "I love you" to her.. but at the end of the day there's nothing any of us can do to make these ppl realize. I quite often feel like going up to these girls (and even guys in some cases) and slapping them or shaking them or something.. idk.. just anything to make them wake up and get a grip.


You're right that they mix their feelings up..true love takes time to develop.. it doesn't happen overnight. I guess those girls (and guys) who do ask those kinds of questions.. are still young and immature and obviously they have never experienced real love. If they had.. then they would understand and they wouldn't be asking their silly questions.
Reply:i think you know the answer ........because you say it ...........they don't know what they want
Reply:I think what you're trying to say is that they are in love with the idea of being in love.


I'm in love with my boyfriend. That means I adore him above all others and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for him. His happiness, health and well being is all that matters to me and in turn he is the same way about me. That is being in love,


Most of the time, people use the word love loosely and it has minimal meaning, there's no real emotion there. It just sounds good.


When you truly love someone you feel it in your soul and words can't come close to describing how you feel about them.
Reply:When a woman says'i love you',means she's in love with herself...,,,c'mon....the truth is painful,huh?
Reply:you shouldnt say it if u dont mean it
Reply:Love is something your going to know, like you said, not just a word. I think your so right, its something your going to feel and not something to just rush the i love you word.

bad breath

True Love?

True Love is you accepting my children as your own


True Love is waking in the middle of the night, to walk our youngest son back to his bed after a nightmare


True Love is you telling our daughter how proud you are of her accomplishment, even though its not the degree we thought she should pursue


True Love is watching you play one on one with our oldest son, making certain he is prepared for the high school team





True Love





As I am guided through another day


I listen to my heart and pray


I pray that you remain strong and glee


Until my love brings you back to me


I pray that you handle my heart with care


For only the insincere have ever dwelled there


I pray that you follow the voice of my heart


Hear the mingling of two souls that will never part


I pray we are together once again


Finally sharing true love...now let us begin

True Love?
Pretty good poem, needs a little work. glee doesn't sound right to me.For only the insincere have ever dwelled there...Take out For and Ever. I hope the top is just your opinion of what true love is because if you try to add that to your poem, it sounds like a statement. The bottom stanza is good except for the couple of changes I made. My next poem will be out (published) in the fall of this year.
Reply:Really liked it, ill have 2 read again after a Cup of T
Reply:all that is nice but, true love is unconditional.

Love = Perfection?

People seem to think love is perfection, but it’s not true. Love is work, dedication, and takes your all at first. You’ve got to solve each other’s problems, work as a team, trust each other, and pick each other up when you fall. And you will fall. Hard. Every true relationship falls down. At the lowest point in the deepest hole you’ve ever fallen in, you know deep down that now, you have no worries— everything will be okay. He will come and pick you up. Love is blind, but it sees in ways we cannot. Love is strong, but at first, it’s fragile; a thin, glistening strand of gossamer moonlight stretched between two people. And if one of them jerks too hard, the gossamer breaks. Love is constant, but it changes people in ways nothing else can. Love is mysterious, working in its strange ways so that we can never follow it until the gossamer strand has become strong, unbreakable. Then, it becomes clear.

Love = Perfection?
WOW !!!





Are you a poet or some kind of writer? That was beautiful and I agree 99%.





The 1% that I don't agree in is your first statement.


Love is perfection when you have the right mate.





If you ain't done it yet you should consider publishing that. I'm gonna remember this question for a long time.
Reply:I agree with the most part you said, except "true love only gives you one chance. "