I cant get enough of you
Hearing your voice makes my day
Not hearing you will make my day blue
I promise you that I will always stay
Im stuck to you like if you were glue
Ill stay by us side even if I had to pay
You got no clue
You got no clue how much I love you
Im like a stray without you
So now I will pray
Today and everyday
So that everything will always be okay
Cuz you make my life complete
I dont even want to keep my love discrete
you are the reason I can stand on my 2 feet
without you my hearth wont even have a beat
Your love is so sweet
It almost feels like a treat
Now let me wrap you in my sheets
To protect you those mean streets
you are mine
I dont even need a receipt
Cuz I will never give you back
But I will always have ur back
And that is a fact
I am not trying to act
My love for you is so much it has to be stacked
My love is so strong it can never be cracked
Not even if there was a big impact
My love will always still be intact
LOVE POEM..... is it good????
ok iam going to just give a bit of feed back when it comes to writting poem its not something u do right off the bat most people they will tell u that a poem randomly comes and goes it could take up to a month just to write one poem
i can tell u sat there in one sitting iam not saying its bad i am just saying allow ur feeling and emotions to write it not ur mind
ur mind will only give u a certain extent for example did u find ur self sitting trying to find words to rhyme with with word like pure ramdom examle u say act u then u kinda go threw the alphabet by going hmm act mact no tact no shack no fact ohh there one it works but doenst bring out the best honestly allow every part of u to bring out the best it may take a day a week a month or a year but when it comes to poetry it is never predictable
it was a good poem it had strong and weak points
just work on
and all poems dont have to rhyme
Reply:Your love poem sounds very interesting. While I was reading
it, it sounded more like a rap song. It sounded really good to
rap to. Congradulations!!!!!!!!!
Reply:its kinda cheesyt.
Reply:it is a bit rhymy and a bit too long
overall i give it a B-
Reply:there's something wrong......... grammar?
it's like a narrative type........ it lacks some poetic phrases......
because...... i can't feel anything at all... while reading it....
Reply:you are trying to hard. relax %26amp; look it over. make a few changes. sorry:(
Reply:Keep practicing. I think you could do better.
Reply:YES!!! I like it. Just to let you know... poems don't have to rhyme.
Reply:it was ok but it didnt standout to me i couldnt feel you emotion cause i was stuck on your choice of words i think u need to dig just a lil deeper...but overrall good and keep trying♥
Reply:From the bottom of ur heart baby... u did good..
Like it cuz u r uneat about ur fellings.
Reply:Your love poem is o.k it's kind of boring and long but if I made one it won't be as good
Reply:If this is how you feel, this is how you feel! But I think you tried too hard to rhyme %26amp; lost your real feelings in the effort it took to find words that rhyme! You should search deeper %26amp; think about what your most intimate feelings are, then write. There are different types of poetry...every single line, doesn't have to rhyme, so just take a little time, And I bet you'll be just fine!
Reply:its okay...the part at the end about being intact is a little cheesy though.
Reply:It's your poem, your expression, and your creation.
How did your poem make you feel?
Perhaps you could read it for your writing group. See what they think.
Lila Griffin
Reply:Depending on your age
Reply:well.....its not bad
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Quick real-love question!?
So I am having quite the problem. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. The 1st 3 mths were OUT OF THIS WORLD. I am so scraed it was just infatuation. For the 1st 3 months I have never been so happy in my life. He brings out the best in me, I LOVE doing nice things for him, I love living with him, he is caring, genuine, trustworthy, %26amp; VERY attractive. But the problem is I am questioning my love for him CONSTANTLY. This has been going on for the past 2 mths and I dont think that I would be putting up with this anxiety about our relationship if I really didnt love him? I feel like I am analyzing every move he makes and I make myself think that I get annoyed with him. His voice, his actions and his emotions. To this day, I love sharing all my stories with him and enjoy spending nights alone with him. I have never trusted anyone before in my life and finally I trust him which makes me think that I dont care about him. I think before I used to think I loved them cause I didnt trust them and was jealous of them therefore now that I trust him I feel as though I dont love him. How do I know if I love him or not? This is my 1st non-dramatic relationship and I feel secure but I have this nagging doubt in my mind that its not going to work out for whatever reason but I only want him. I dont want anyone else to touch me. Why am I having these thoughts? I want to know that I am going to be with him forever!
Quick real-love question!?
I think you said it yourself, you are analyzing every move, trying to find an answer. Give yourself a break, and just take it day to day. If you love him today, and he treats you well today, and you are happy with him today, don't worry about tomorrow. NOW, if you had been with him three years and had this problem, I would say, well, I think by now you should know if you really love him or not, but 5 months is still early on in a relationship, so just give it some time! Good Luck.
Reply:If you have doubts then some thing is not right. Project your life ahead a year or so, how do you feel when you think about the future with the same person. The longer you are with the same person the herder it gets, you have to learn to over look things. You have been in the relationship for a short time and you have doubts already. You sound like you might be an insecure person, and do not trust yourself. Only you can know what is good for you. Good luck
Quick real-love question!?
I think you said it yourself, you are analyzing every move, trying to find an answer. Give yourself a break, and just take it day to day. If you love him today, and he treats you well today, and you are happy with him today, don't worry about tomorrow. NOW, if you had been with him three years and had this problem, I would say, well, I think by now you should know if you really love him or not, but 5 months is still early on in a relationship, so just give it some time! Good Luck.
Reply:If you have doubts then some thing is not right. Project your life ahead a year or so, how do you feel when you think about the future with the same person. The longer you are with the same person the herder it gets, you have to learn to over look things. You have been in the relationship for a short time and you have doubts already. You sound like you might be an insecure person, and do not trust yourself. Only you can know what is good for you. Good luck
So when you say you "love" me, what meaning should I attach to that word?
Are you speaking of the love you have for God, spouse, nature, your car, sleeping in, a good joke, chocolate ... ?
Is it fine to say a word as meaningless as "love", and then let the listener insert whatever definition he or she prefers? Con artists do it all the time: leaving it to the victim to make assumptions about what was communicated when in fact nothing was intended.
In a world where Selfless Love is in such short supply, is it fair to throw the word "love" around without making very clear what kind of "love" is being given?
Aren't there enough people hungry for Love that using the word in a cavalier way can only aggravate the problem?
What happens when you speak of Love for someone, intending it to be no more than the love for chocolate, but the individual takes it to mean the deep and abiding love one has for a spouse?
Are we so intent to present ourselves as "loving" human beings we no longer care what someone thinks when we say we "love" them?
So when you say you "love" me, what meaning should I attach to that word?
simply that I care
thats it .. short and sweet
I love you .... I care
after all your posts today about this subject
I have just figured myself out
thank you Orion xx
Reply:Love like this; to the world you might be one person but to one person you might be the world.
Reply:You, specifically?
I am quite fond of you.
I accept you wholeheartedly as you are, and would seek to change nothing.
If/when either of us are no longer participants in this medium through which we only occasionally interact, and on a limited basis at that, I will still remember you and appreciate the positive impact you have had on my life.
I can't say I feel the same way about chocolate. And I "love" chocolate. So what does that tell you?
Reply:When we love someone that means we hold their welfare above our own. You are correct. It is in short supply.
I recently had a phone conversation with a friend of the family who is going through a divorce. They told me on the phone that their separated spouse was not giving them enough money to provide entertainment for the children I.E. going to the movies or out to eat. So they were going to try to have his paycheck garnished. Her exact words were "I love **** and I have forgiven him BUT, we need to go out and do stuff." Truly this is not love. It was said without reservation. So I have to agree with you.
Reply:The parable of the Good Samaritan says loving your neighbor is showing mercy on him.
But I would define it as grace, mercy, and compassion unto others.
Reply:good, you say love good
Reply:Because it takes too long to say "The divine in me recognizes the divine in you and I respect you as a fellow human being." It's much easier to say "love ya man."
Reply:"Love one another as I have loved you." - Jesus Christ.
That's the only 'type' of love to give - this one and the same 'love', for family, friends, strangers, etc.
We all try, but we all fall short...but we still keep trying.
Reply:I am quite cautious in my use of the word "love". I will only say "I love you" to my partner, my family and my very close friends. That way, there is no danger of the meaning being misconstrued. In my opinion, saying "i love you" is the most meaningful thing a person can do, therefore, it shouldn't be used as a flippant or throwaway remark.
Reply:me too
Reply:Thank you so much for asking this question. LOVE is a misused word. As you stated it is used loosely. I LOVE ICE CREAM%26lt; I LOVE A SUNSET. It is used to manipulate situations to go your way, but to me the true meaning of love is not ever having to say the word, but others feel it. I am not sure if I am making sense, but I hope that I am. The word does not ever have to be uttered to be felt.
Reply:The "love" that has no feelings of "lust".
Reply:It is an espression that tells that you are very attached to something. The level of attachment differs from object to object. The term "love" is often regarded almost as an independant living thing, from which there is no escape, however, that is only an excuse for following ones own desire.
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Is it fine to say a word as meaningless as "love", and then let the listener insert whatever definition he or she prefers? Con artists do it all the time: leaving it to the victim to make assumptions about what was communicated when in fact nothing was intended.
In a world where Selfless Love is in such short supply, is it fair to throw the word "love" around without making very clear what kind of "love" is being given?
Aren't there enough people hungry for Love that using the word in a cavalier way can only aggravate the problem?
What happens when you speak of Love for someone, intending it to be no more than the love for chocolate, but the individual takes it to mean the deep and abiding love one has for a spouse?
Are we so intent to present ourselves as "loving" human beings we no longer care what someone thinks when we say we "love" them?
So when you say you "love" me, what meaning should I attach to that word?
simply that I care
thats it .. short and sweet
I love you .... I care
after all your posts today about this subject
I have just figured myself out
thank you Orion xx
Reply:Love like this; to the world you might be one person but to one person you might be the world.
Reply:You, specifically?
I am quite fond of you.
I accept you wholeheartedly as you are, and would seek to change nothing.
If/when either of us are no longer participants in this medium through which we only occasionally interact, and on a limited basis at that, I will still remember you and appreciate the positive impact you have had on my life.
I can't say I feel the same way about chocolate. And I "love" chocolate. So what does that tell you?
Reply:When we love someone that means we hold their welfare above our own. You are correct. It is in short supply.
I recently had a phone conversation with a friend of the family who is going through a divorce. They told me on the phone that their separated spouse was not giving them enough money to provide entertainment for the children I.E. going to the movies or out to eat. So they were going to try to have his paycheck garnished. Her exact words were "I love **** and I have forgiven him BUT, we need to go out and do stuff." Truly this is not love. It was said without reservation. So I have to agree with you.
Reply:The parable of the Good Samaritan says loving your neighbor is showing mercy on him.
But I would define it as grace, mercy, and compassion unto others.
Reply:good, you say love good
Reply:Because it takes too long to say "The divine in me recognizes the divine in you and I respect you as a fellow human being." It's much easier to say "love ya man."
Reply:"Love one another as I have loved you." - Jesus Christ.
That's the only 'type' of love to give - this one and the same 'love', for family, friends, strangers, etc.
We all try, but we all fall short...but we still keep trying.
Reply:I am quite cautious in my use of the word "love". I will only say "I love you" to my partner, my family and my very close friends. That way, there is no danger of the meaning being misconstrued. In my opinion, saying "i love you" is the most meaningful thing a person can do, therefore, it shouldn't be used as a flippant or throwaway remark.
Reply:me too
Reply:Thank you so much for asking this question. LOVE is a misused word. As you stated it is used loosely. I LOVE ICE CREAM%26lt; I LOVE A SUNSET. It is used to manipulate situations to go your way, but to me the true meaning of love is not ever having to say the word, but others feel it. I am not sure if I am making sense, but I hope that I am. The word does not ever have to be uttered to be felt.
Reply:The "love" that has no feelings of "lust".
Reply:It is an espression that tells that you are very attached to something. The level of attachment differs from object to object. The term "love" is often regarded almost as an independant living thing, from which there is no escape, however, that is only an excuse for following ones own desire.
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What is unconditional love? Does bible-god ever show unconditional love?
There is always some string attached to bible-god's "unconditional" love : worship me, believe in me, follow me, obey me, be true to me, or else watch out. Unconditional love is to love someone who does not love you and to do your best to ensure that they are happy even if it makes you unhappy. If means to love them no matter what they do to you. Many people in the world have shown this kind of love. But bible-god sadly has never ONCE shown this love. Instead he wants to throw you in hell for not loving him.
What is unconditional love? Does bible-god ever show unconditional love?
There is no "unconditional love" in the bible anywhere.
God's "love" is bartered, it is not offered freely or unconditionally.
And that pattern was established in Genesis and goes all the way through Revelations.
The biblical God is one sick puppy.
Reply:Thanks We agree.
How anyone who has ever read the bible can claim God loves unconditionally is beyond me. God demands humans love him (it?) unconditionally, and, in return, sends Satan down to tempt %26amp; harass them even if they do so (Job). Report It
Reply:Jesus suffered and died on a tree for us sinners and I dont know of anyone else who has shown Unconditional love like that. He was spit on and beaten beyond recognition and the thief on the cross looked at Jesus and immediatly recieved that unconditional love When our Lord said "today you will be with me in paradise"
Reply:I believe unconditional love came from God when he sent his only son, Jesus, to this sinful world to die on the cross for you and me. What parent has ever shown greater love for their relatives or anyone that they would sacrifice their child for to save so many. Jesus came to save not to jugde, that is what God will do on jugdement day, and that is why Jesus came down to help us find the right way. If you believe in God you don't have to worry about going to hell. We will never be as perfect as Jesus was here on earth when he spent 33 years without even 1 sin but we can strive for that perfection. I don't mean like be all prideful but can you honestly go without even 1 day of sin? Perfecting your life now by learning from yours and others mistakes. And he doesn't want to throw you in hell, everytime you sin Jesus cries, it hurts him so much that you would choose that path instead of Heaven. It's your choice, all God wants from you is your repentance for your sins all the devil wants is for you to sell your soul to him by just doing the same sins or even worse.
And who are the many people in this world that have shown unconditional love???? I really can't think of anyone except for maybe Mother Theresa, but even then her love was nothing compared to our God's love.
For people to love unconditionaly is really hard. If people where to love that way then you wouldn't be unhappy, because if you made another person happy you would be happy too.
And why would you jugde unconditional love? Has there not been anything that God has helped you with in your life? God gives everyone a chance to find his love. I see God's blessings everywhere in my life. You would too if you were a believer of God.
Reply:I don't think unconditional love means doing what you can to make another person happy even if it causes you to be unhappy. I think unconditional love means that you accept someone just as they are - without any conditions. God does love us just as we are - without conditions. It is your decision whether you accept that love or not. It sounds to me like God is calling you and you are fighting it or else why are you so angry? Don't take anyone's word for it, but read the Bible yourself after asking God to show you what He wants you to know and He will do it. May God bless you and show you the way.
Reply:WATCH THE MOVIE THE PASSION............THAT MY SON IS UNCONTIDIONAL LOVE......THE TORTURE AND THE PAIN HE WENT THROUGH FOR U THAT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR U AND EVERYONE!!! YOU HAVE A CHOICE IN LIFE WE ALL DO EITHER U BELIEVE OR U DON'T NO ONE CAN MAKE THAT CHOICE FOR U BUT U,,,, AND THAT IS WHAT GOD GAVE US WAS CHOICES WE CHOOSE OUR OWN PATH IN THIS WORLD HE DOESN'T BECAUSE HE LOVES US THAT MUCH TO LET US LIVE OUR LIFE THAT HE GAVE US THE WAY WE CHOOSE HE MAY NOT BE HAPPY WITH OUR CHOICES BUT THAT IS LOVE unconditional LOVE....
Reply:unconditional love is when u sacrafice ur happiness for someone elses. when u r willing to let go of the one u love cuz u feel its the best thing to do. God is not a vengeful God he does love u just have to believe, most people fail to see love when its right in front of him. i understand what u r saying though. its hard to find unconditional love. people change but life goes on!
Reply:He died for us. It's up to us to accept that. Sounds unconditional to me
Reply:unconditional love . isnt it enought that jesus die for us ?
Reply:yes it does
Reply:He makes the rain fall on the just as well as the unjust.
Think about this. As a parent, do you love your children? Are you pleased with them when they behave and are obedient? Are you angry with them when they act up or try to rebel? If you love your children regardless of what they do, that is unconditional love.
That is much the same way God loves us.
Jesus said that there is no greater love than for a man to lay his life down for his friends.
Read John 3:16.
I could go on and on but I'll close with this. God said that He will NEVER leave nor forsake us. That is true unconditional love.
Reply:There is unconditional love. Many (most) parents instinctively know and feel it. Your description of it is more or less fine.
The "bible-god" you refer to does not profess or offer any such thing.
I read some answers wherein the claim that "he died" is proof of his unconditional love. Really? We mere mortals who love know that death isn't some transient state that you come back from after a weekend in a tomb. So to use the words of another skeptic, if the gospels are true, then the news of his death are greatly exaggerated. (My insurance company for wouldn't give my wife a penny on my policy if I showed up for dinner 3 days after my "death.")
One mother who answered even compared god's love for us with her love for her child - in that she loved her child "no matter what," but would allow him to suffer the consequences of his own actions. So I'm thinking that for that mom it would be "just" if her son suffered the torments of hell, forever, without any hope of anything except burning pain, for having, say, coveted his neighbor's butt, or taking the Lord's name in vain. I just hope that kid keeps his hands out of the cookie jar.
Reply:God never asked you to worship him when he died on the cross for your sins. That is totally unconditional love.
After you are saved, you worship him... that is your method of repayment.
Reply:He does not want to throw anyone in hell that is their choice to make. I love my sons unconditionally and no matter what the do I will still love them. That doesn't mean I won't let them make their own choices and mistakes nor does it mean I will cushion those mistakes or take responsibility for them. Love means giving one the choice and abiding by that choice.
Reply:Think of it like this, you are a parent and you love your child, no matter what, but there are times you do need to correct them, and as a parent you desire your child to love you back, by spending time with you and by respecting the rules you have established for their protection. God doesn't send any one to Hell, we chose to go there of our own free will, like a rebellious child who chooses to live a life outside of their parents protection, by using drug or drinking and than getting into a car impaired and then dying in a fatal car cash. Can you really blame that on the Parent? No, God is loving and kind and will allow us to chose the path we will go down all the time giving us an opportunity to turn to Him. His Love is Unconditional because He will not force His will on you.
Reply:as you state, unconditional love is to love even if you don't like what they are doing, etc. have you actually read the bible or is this a concept given to you by someone else. in the bible there are plenty of examples of God's unconditional love. the most important is Him giving His Son to die on the cross for our sins. and His Son (1/3 of the God-head) asking God to forgive them for they know not what they do, when He was hanging on the cross. after all the sins that mankind has committed against God, He still loves us and accepts His Son's sacrifice for our sins so we can go to heaven. everyone on this earth sins everyday, and would be just to be sent to hell, but His unconditional love is why we have a hope of going to heaven.
Reply:He shows it all of the time. You are not looking. Your eyes are closed and your heart and mind are closed to His love. Get a way from that Koran, and into a KJV, study it by letting the scriptures explain themselves. Stop judging God, and start listening to Him.
Reply:God is Love. He created the world. He sent his Son so all could have eternal life. His son died for your sins. Would you ever send you son to a place that did not deserve forgiveness, to forgive them, with his life. Have you ever forgiven someone who did something real bad to you with out wanting to get them back. Now if you did something to someone that was real bad, and they forgave you, would you think that person was pretty cool, or would you think sucker. answer that question and it will show what kind of person you are.
Reply:You never saw the Passion of The Christ, did you?
After being beaten to a pulp, His beard pulled out, thorns pressed into His scalp, whipped to shreds, then nailed to a cross while they mocked Him, spat on Him, and called Him names....
THEN
He asked his Father, "Father forgive them for they don't know what they're doing"
By YOUR definition that's unconditional.
Do you realize He had TWELVE LEGIONS of angels poised and ready to destroy the earth? Twelve legions. Do you realize one angel killed 185,000 men single-handedly in one evening? One word from Christ and we would have been toast.
But no. His Father sent Him as our propitiation and He accomplished that task.
Reply:No Gods show unconditional love because they are all created by religions to further their cause and belief.
Reply:You need to read son.
Reply:Any "real" love is unconditional. Feelings don't rely on conditions to exist, whether it be love or any other emotion. God's love is, of course, the greatest example of this. His love is unconditional. What we allow ourselves to receive from Him in this life and the next is completely up to us.
You can fall head over heels in love with someone, but whether or not you have a relationship or marry them is not strictly up to you.
Reply:Interesting how ppl answers. They ingore the Question and give their own opinions and claiming to have the truth.
They like to use many terms that they don't even understand or contradicts one antoehr.
If we look at the properties of GOD that Christians give to GOD its
simpy amasing that they assign contradicted characteristics.
He loves every1 and kills every during Great Flood. He is all pwoerfull but the feeling of death ( the true one ) is unknown to GOD. He gave us morality but he is the one who invent hate, racism, love, sex and so on.
He had to have all those feelings to the full exten him self to be all knowing and there are many things GOD can't do.
In other words unconditional to Christian means "local" only to thier own primitive minds. But they would not use that word in any other situation.
Therefore Christianity and unconditional stupidity do exist.
What is unconditional love? Does bible-god ever show unconditional love?
There is no "unconditional love" in the bible anywhere.
God's "love" is bartered, it is not offered freely or unconditionally.
And that pattern was established in Genesis and goes all the way through Revelations.
The biblical God is one sick puppy.
Reply:Thanks We agree.
How anyone who has ever read the bible can claim God loves unconditionally is beyond me. God demands humans love him (it?) unconditionally, and, in return, sends Satan down to tempt %26amp; harass them even if they do so (Job). Report It
Reply:Jesus suffered and died on a tree for us sinners and I dont know of anyone else who has shown Unconditional love like that. He was spit on and beaten beyond recognition and the thief on the cross looked at Jesus and immediatly recieved that unconditional love When our Lord said "today you will be with me in paradise"
Reply:I believe unconditional love came from God when he sent his only son, Jesus, to this sinful world to die on the cross for you and me. What parent has ever shown greater love for their relatives or anyone that they would sacrifice their child for to save so many. Jesus came to save not to jugde, that is what God will do on jugdement day, and that is why Jesus came down to help us find the right way. If you believe in God you don't have to worry about going to hell. We will never be as perfect as Jesus was here on earth when he spent 33 years without even 1 sin but we can strive for that perfection. I don't mean like be all prideful but can you honestly go without even 1 day of sin? Perfecting your life now by learning from yours and others mistakes. And he doesn't want to throw you in hell, everytime you sin Jesus cries, it hurts him so much that you would choose that path instead of Heaven. It's your choice, all God wants from you is your repentance for your sins all the devil wants is for you to sell your soul to him by just doing the same sins or even worse.
And who are the many people in this world that have shown unconditional love???? I really can't think of anyone except for maybe Mother Theresa, but even then her love was nothing compared to our God's love.
For people to love unconditionaly is really hard. If people where to love that way then you wouldn't be unhappy, because if you made another person happy you would be happy too.
And why would you jugde unconditional love? Has there not been anything that God has helped you with in your life? God gives everyone a chance to find his love. I see God's blessings everywhere in my life. You would too if you were a believer of God.
Reply:I don't think unconditional love means doing what you can to make another person happy even if it causes you to be unhappy. I think unconditional love means that you accept someone just as they are - without any conditions. God does love us just as we are - without conditions. It is your decision whether you accept that love or not. It sounds to me like God is calling you and you are fighting it or else why are you so angry? Don't take anyone's word for it, but read the Bible yourself after asking God to show you what He wants you to know and He will do it. May God bless you and show you the way.
Reply:WATCH THE MOVIE THE PASSION............THAT MY SON IS UNCONTIDIONAL LOVE......THE TORTURE AND THE PAIN HE WENT THROUGH FOR U THAT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR U AND EVERYONE!!! YOU HAVE A CHOICE IN LIFE WE ALL DO EITHER U BELIEVE OR U DON'T NO ONE CAN MAKE THAT CHOICE FOR U BUT U,,,, AND THAT IS WHAT GOD GAVE US WAS CHOICES WE CHOOSE OUR OWN PATH IN THIS WORLD HE DOESN'T BECAUSE HE LOVES US THAT MUCH TO LET US LIVE OUR LIFE THAT HE GAVE US THE WAY WE CHOOSE HE MAY NOT BE HAPPY WITH OUR CHOICES BUT THAT IS LOVE unconditional LOVE....
Reply:unconditional love is when u sacrafice ur happiness for someone elses. when u r willing to let go of the one u love cuz u feel its the best thing to do. God is not a vengeful God he does love u just have to believe, most people fail to see love when its right in front of him. i understand what u r saying though. its hard to find unconditional love. people change but life goes on!
Reply:He died for us. It's up to us to accept that. Sounds unconditional to me
Reply:unconditional love . isnt it enought that jesus die for us ?
Reply:yes it does
Reply:He makes the rain fall on the just as well as the unjust.
Think about this. As a parent, do you love your children? Are you pleased with them when they behave and are obedient? Are you angry with them when they act up or try to rebel? If you love your children regardless of what they do, that is unconditional love.
That is much the same way God loves us.
Jesus said that there is no greater love than for a man to lay his life down for his friends.
Read John 3:16.
I could go on and on but I'll close with this. God said that He will NEVER leave nor forsake us. That is true unconditional love.
Reply:There is unconditional love. Many (most) parents instinctively know and feel it. Your description of it is more or less fine.
The "bible-god" you refer to does not profess or offer any such thing.
I read some answers wherein the claim that "he died" is proof of his unconditional love. Really? We mere mortals who love know that death isn't some transient state that you come back from after a weekend in a tomb. So to use the words of another skeptic, if the gospels are true, then the news of his death are greatly exaggerated. (My insurance company for wouldn't give my wife a penny on my policy if I showed up for dinner 3 days after my "death.")
One mother who answered even compared god's love for us with her love for her child - in that she loved her child "no matter what," but would allow him to suffer the consequences of his own actions. So I'm thinking that for that mom it would be "just" if her son suffered the torments of hell, forever, without any hope of anything except burning pain, for having, say, coveted his neighbor's butt, or taking the Lord's name in vain. I just hope that kid keeps his hands out of the cookie jar.
Reply:God never asked you to worship him when he died on the cross for your sins. That is totally unconditional love.
After you are saved, you worship him... that is your method of repayment.
Reply:He does not want to throw anyone in hell that is their choice to make. I love my sons unconditionally and no matter what the do I will still love them. That doesn't mean I won't let them make their own choices and mistakes nor does it mean I will cushion those mistakes or take responsibility for them. Love means giving one the choice and abiding by that choice.
Reply:Think of it like this, you are a parent and you love your child, no matter what, but there are times you do need to correct them, and as a parent you desire your child to love you back, by spending time with you and by respecting the rules you have established for their protection. God doesn't send any one to Hell, we chose to go there of our own free will, like a rebellious child who chooses to live a life outside of their parents protection, by using drug or drinking and than getting into a car impaired and then dying in a fatal car cash. Can you really blame that on the Parent? No, God is loving and kind and will allow us to chose the path we will go down all the time giving us an opportunity to turn to Him. His Love is Unconditional because He will not force His will on you.
Reply:as you state, unconditional love is to love even if you don't like what they are doing, etc. have you actually read the bible or is this a concept given to you by someone else. in the bible there are plenty of examples of God's unconditional love. the most important is Him giving His Son to die on the cross for our sins. and His Son (1/3 of the God-head) asking God to forgive them for they know not what they do, when He was hanging on the cross. after all the sins that mankind has committed against God, He still loves us and accepts His Son's sacrifice for our sins so we can go to heaven. everyone on this earth sins everyday, and would be just to be sent to hell, but His unconditional love is why we have a hope of going to heaven.
Reply:He shows it all of the time. You are not looking. Your eyes are closed and your heart and mind are closed to His love. Get a way from that Koran, and into a KJV, study it by letting the scriptures explain themselves. Stop judging God, and start listening to Him.
Reply:God is Love. He created the world. He sent his Son so all could have eternal life. His son died for your sins. Would you ever send you son to a place that did not deserve forgiveness, to forgive them, with his life. Have you ever forgiven someone who did something real bad to you with out wanting to get them back. Now if you did something to someone that was real bad, and they forgave you, would you think that person was pretty cool, or would you think sucker. answer that question and it will show what kind of person you are.
Reply:You never saw the Passion of The Christ, did you?
After being beaten to a pulp, His beard pulled out, thorns pressed into His scalp, whipped to shreds, then nailed to a cross while they mocked Him, spat on Him, and called Him names....
THEN
He asked his Father, "Father forgive them for they don't know what they're doing"
By YOUR definition that's unconditional.
Do you realize He had TWELVE LEGIONS of angels poised and ready to destroy the earth? Twelve legions. Do you realize one angel killed 185,000 men single-handedly in one evening? One word from Christ and we would have been toast.
But no. His Father sent Him as our propitiation and He accomplished that task.
Reply:No Gods show unconditional love because they are all created by religions to further their cause and belief.
Reply:You need to read son.
Reply:Any "real" love is unconditional. Feelings don't rely on conditions to exist, whether it be love or any other emotion. God's love is, of course, the greatest example of this. His love is unconditional. What we allow ourselves to receive from Him in this life and the next is completely up to us.
You can fall head over heels in love with someone, but whether or not you have a relationship or marry them is not strictly up to you.
Reply:Interesting how ppl answers. They ingore the Question and give their own opinions and claiming to have the truth.
They like to use many terms that they don't even understand or contradicts one antoehr.
If we look at the properties of GOD that Christians give to GOD its
simpy amasing that they assign contradicted characteristics.
He loves every1 and kills every during Great Flood. He is all pwoerfull but the feeling of death ( the true one ) is unknown to GOD. He gave us morality but he is the one who invent hate, racism, love, sex and so on.
He had to have all those feelings to the full exten him self to be all knowing and there are many things GOD can't do.
In other words unconditional to Christian means "local" only to thier own primitive minds. But they would not use that word in any other situation.
Therefore Christianity and unconditional stupidity do exist.
I love my best friend -im gay?
I think i'm in love with my best friend, i have dated guys and i dont love them the same way i love her. I love everything about her and cant picture my life withouther, i love when she hugs me and everything. She doesnt know because she is straight, and i cant tell her because i dont wanna lost her for ever and i want her to be happy because i love her so much. I dont know what to do. When the day comes when she gets married to a guy im going to be so heart broken because ive loved her for soo long, and im so depressed and i dont know what to do. =(
could someone give me some good advice id really appriciate it
I love my best friend -im gay?
i think the best thing to do is to confront ur best friend. i mean if shes really ur best friend, then she'll understand u no matter what, and she'll acceptyou for who u are, not for what u choose to be. The longer u keep this inside of u, the harder it will be for u to tell her, and like u said, the day she gets married will be awfully heartbreaking to u. Tell her and see how it goes, she should back u up. Good Luck!
Reply:It sounds like you are gay, with luck you'll meet someone suitable for you soon though, I do think a lot of people fall in love with same-sex friends though and find someone else to return thier feelings. Other then that time will tell
could someone give me some good advice id really appriciate it
I love my best friend -im gay?
i think the best thing to do is to confront ur best friend. i mean if shes really ur best friend, then she'll understand u no matter what, and she'll acceptyou for who u are, not for what u choose to be. The longer u keep this inside of u, the harder it will be for u to tell her, and like u said, the day she gets married will be awfully heartbreaking to u. Tell her and see how it goes, she should back u up. Good Luck!
Reply:It sounds like you are gay, with luck you'll meet someone suitable for you soon though, I do think a lot of people fall in love with same-sex friends though and find someone else to return thier feelings. Other then that time will tell
He says he loves me, and i believe him, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?
im 15, kevin is 16. hes a TOTAL player. hes also amazingly drop dead gorgeous.
he said this:
i love you so much that the word love has become in love with its self. i think you are the most beautifulest girl in the world and if any guy cant except that then they dont no the meaning of love. when i look at you my heart goes crazy and if any other guy does not feel the same then they are real messed up in the head. i will never stop loving what i see in your eyes.
i love you so much that me hearing about other guys makes my heart ake but i no when you want a real man you will come running to me.
were not together, but i love him. i cant get enough of this guy!
everytime i start forgetting him and getting ineterested in some new guy i see him and all my new feelings erase!
after comparing him 2 every guy ive ever met or been with, theres no comparison.
if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me? and its NOT because hes busy or cant do it.
He says he loves me, and i believe him, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?
there absolutely no question about it, you and he, are in love with the same guy !!!! Not only are you being a total "sucker" but make sure there's no target or kick me sign on your back!
Not only does his poetic manner stink, but it makes no sense, but i'm not surprised, with an ego that size, where could there be room to retain any knowledge.
Can't you tell, he's giving you lines and that your only one of many girls, he's saying the same lines too? He can't contact you because he's busy with other's and your not #1. He's jerking the strings he knows he has you on. That why he shows up now and then when it suits him.
We're the ones who see through this guy, so why are you telling us "its Not because he's busy or can't do it". Your asking us for answers that you already know! If his actions, don't match his behaviour, then it doesn't matter who he is, or how good looking he is, your being played like a cheap guitar. Is it worth the looks, to be treated like some idiot. Get rid of him. Find yourself a real man.
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Reply:something is wrong here,i,m not sure what.i don,t believe he loves anyone.sounds like a line to me,lots of lines really.he would contact you if it was true.
Reply:It doesn't sound like you love him. It seems as though you "love" him only on a superficial level, that you "love" only his body.
It also doesn't sound like he loves you. You said yourself that he's a player, so why would you believe when he tells you that you're the one he wants? If he wanted to be with you, he'd BE with you.
"Love" is a two-way street; why does HE have to make the first move? You said "if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me," the same goes for you. If you love him so much and find him so irresistable, then why haven't you made an effort to form a relationship with him?
What exactly DO you love about him, besides his "drop dead gorgeous" body?
Reply:dude you keep bringing up the looks. enough already! he might be good looking and saying all these nice things, but wouldn't you think if he was so in love that he could not wait to be around you and call you and meet with you. he says one thing and does another, i'd be careful if i were you
Reply:first off, if you have never dated him or are not with him now then you dont love him. You simply think you do. I have been dating my fiance for over 2 years and i didnt know i loved her for a while. I didnt even kiss her for two months after we started dating. So i know you cant love him. If hes a player like you say then he will probably play you. Players dont change for anyone. You will know that you love somebody after you have dated them for OVER 6 months at least, had those moments that you will never forget, had that dinner that made you BOTH cry. THAT is when you love somebody! so if he is who you say he is then be very careful! I have seen many people get thier hearts broken cause they say they love somebody only to get shitted in the long run.
he said this:
i love you so much that the word love has become in love with its self. i think you are the most beautifulest girl in the world and if any guy cant except that then they dont no the meaning of love. when i look at you my heart goes crazy and if any other guy does not feel the same then they are real messed up in the head. i will never stop loving what i see in your eyes.
i love you so much that me hearing about other guys makes my heart ake but i no when you want a real man you will come running to me.
were not together, but i love him. i cant get enough of this guy!
everytime i start forgetting him and getting ineterested in some new guy i see him and all my new feelings erase!
after comparing him 2 every guy ive ever met or been with, theres no comparison.
if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me? and its NOT because hes busy or cant do it.
He says he loves me, and i believe him, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?
there absolutely no question about it, you and he, are in love with the same guy !!!! Not only are you being a total "sucker" but make sure there's no target or kick me sign on your back!
Not only does his poetic manner stink, but it makes no sense, but i'm not surprised, with an ego that size, where could there be room to retain any knowledge.
Can't you tell, he's giving you lines and that your only one of many girls, he's saying the same lines too? He can't contact you because he's busy with other's and your not #1. He's jerking the strings he knows he has you on. That why he shows up now and then when it suits him.
We're the ones who see through this guy, so why are you telling us "its Not because he's busy or can't do it". Your asking us for answers that you already know! If his actions, don't match his behaviour, then it doesn't matter who he is, or how good looking he is, your being played like a cheap guitar. Is it worth the looks, to be treated like some idiot. Get rid of him. Find yourself a real man.
Reply:Good advice! Report It
Reply:something is wrong here,i,m not sure what.i don,t believe he loves anyone.sounds like a line to me,lots of lines really.he would contact you if it was true.
Reply:It doesn't sound like you love him. It seems as though you "love" him only on a superficial level, that you "love" only his body.
It also doesn't sound like he loves you. You said yourself that he's a player, so why would you believe when he tells you that you're the one he wants? If he wanted to be with you, he'd BE with you.
"Love" is a two-way street; why does HE have to make the first move? You said "if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me," the same goes for you. If you love him so much and find him so irresistable, then why haven't you made an effort to form a relationship with him?
What exactly DO you love about him, besides his "drop dead gorgeous" body?
Reply:dude you keep bringing up the looks. enough already! he might be good looking and saying all these nice things, but wouldn't you think if he was so in love that he could not wait to be around you and call you and meet with you. he says one thing and does another, i'd be careful if i were you
Reply:first off, if you have never dated him or are not with him now then you dont love him. You simply think you do. I have been dating my fiance for over 2 years and i didnt know i loved her for a while. I didnt even kiss her for two months after we started dating. So i know you cant love him. If hes a player like you say then he will probably play you. Players dont change for anyone. You will know that you love somebody after you have dated them for OVER 6 months at least, had those moments that you will never forget, had that dinner that made you BOTH cry. THAT is when you love somebody! so if he is who you say he is then be very careful! I have seen many people get thier hearts broken cause they say they love somebody only to get shitted in the long run.
I LOVE YOU! JESUS LOVES YOU! Do YOU love Jesus!?
I'm sorry for the IMPOSTER that has been asking questions in my name. I do forgive this impersonator.
I got a lovely email from someone on this site telling me that I should take this opportunity and allow Christ to speak to me through the experience of being the victim of an impersonator.
I know how it feels to have someone say vicious things with MY name on them! Things I would NEVER say! I fear I have offended many and set back the work of Christ in this place by proclaiming my beliefs in an offensive way. My SINCEREST APOLOGIES!
I LOVE YOU ALL! It's time I spent more time LOVING others into the KINGDOM and less time speaking for the GOD of MOSES and JESUS.
CHRISTIANS: Will you HELP ME to keep my questions and answers IN LOVE?
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL! Don't forsake JESUS because of the words that I HAVE SAID.
Dearest Love,
Mrs. Paige
I LOVE YOU! JESUS LOVES YOU! Do YOU love Jesus!?
Yes! God Bless!
Reply:Say no to jesus http://www.saynotojesus.tk Report It
Reply:I don't like you, I don't like jesus, hisssssss! Report It
Reply:If you're so into Jesus/God, then why do your questions, especially this one, seem to really be all about YOU? Report It
Reply:Oh,you're so full of it.I was kind of starting to believe you until this one.No nightmares for me!
Reply:Yeah, you sure do show how loving you are. Shouldn't you be in the toolshed having sex with your husband?
Reply:Hahahahaha, I didn't know Christians lied so much
Reply:Bless you!
Reply:I love jesus just as much as I love other literary characters like Scout Finch, Holly Golightly and The Cat in the Hat.
Reply:i love u too , but im an atheist but still i do respect christianity
Reply:STUPID *****! You'll ROT IN HELL for FORGIVING THESE HEATHENS! GOD WILL SMITE YOU!
Reply:Sorry but no, I don't love jesus nor do I hate him.
I no longer believe that an individual named jesus walked the earth so I can have no feelings of any kind toward him.
Reply:Nice try, Nazi. Won't work.
Reply:You're crazy.
Reply:No, I don't. Why would I love a bloke who lived two thousand years ago?
Reply:You're not fooling anyone, you're still a racist.
Reply:I love neither Jesus nor you.
I'm quite neutral to the both of you in fact.
Reply:You need a long rest. Do you really think your ranting here changes anyone's thinking? Even if Jesus really existed, your senseless bleating would neither help nor hurt his cause.
And, why did you delete your raving sermonette about praying for god to kill terrorists? Is it possible that even YOU recognized the insanity there?
Really, think about signing yourself in somewhere. There are medications that could help.
Reply:You are annoying, You are not going to convert anyone by going JESUS JESUS JESUS LOVE LOVE LOVE.
if you want to convert someone try using facts, they converted me.
facts converted St. Thomas as well.
Reply:Jesus called on me and told me that your avatar looks like you have spinach in your teeth or a little mustache. You should fix it- he said it would look better.
Reply:"facts converted St. Thomas as well. "
Faith is what it is about. Yes, seeing made Thomas believe, but Jesus said, "Blessed are they who do not see yet believe!!"
gumps
I got a lovely email from someone on this site telling me that I should take this opportunity and allow Christ to speak to me through the experience of being the victim of an impersonator.
I know how it feels to have someone say vicious things with MY name on them! Things I would NEVER say! I fear I have offended many and set back the work of Christ in this place by proclaiming my beliefs in an offensive way. My SINCEREST APOLOGIES!
I LOVE YOU ALL! It's time I spent more time LOVING others into the KINGDOM and less time speaking for the GOD of MOSES and JESUS.
CHRISTIANS: Will you HELP ME to keep my questions and answers IN LOVE?
JESUS LOVES YOU ALL! Don't forsake JESUS because of the words that I HAVE SAID.
Dearest Love,
Mrs. Paige
I LOVE YOU! JESUS LOVES YOU! Do YOU love Jesus!?
Yes! God Bless!
Reply:Say no to jesus http://www.saynotojesus.tk Report It
Reply:I don't like you, I don't like jesus, hisssssss! Report It
Reply:If you're so into Jesus/God, then why do your questions, especially this one, seem to really be all about YOU? Report It
Reply:Oh,you're so full of it.I was kind of starting to believe you until this one.No nightmares for me!
Reply:Yeah, you sure do show how loving you are. Shouldn't you be in the toolshed having sex with your husband?
Reply:Hahahahaha, I didn't know Christians lied so much
Reply:Bless you!
Reply:I love jesus just as much as I love other literary characters like Scout Finch, Holly Golightly and The Cat in the Hat.
Reply:i love u too , but im an atheist but still i do respect christianity
Reply:STUPID *****! You'll ROT IN HELL for FORGIVING THESE HEATHENS! GOD WILL SMITE YOU!
Reply:Sorry but no, I don't love jesus nor do I hate him.
I no longer believe that an individual named jesus walked the earth so I can have no feelings of any kind toward him.
Reply:Nice try, Nazi. Won't work.
Reply:You're crazy.
Reply:No, I don't. Why would I love a bloke who lived two thousand years ago?
Reply:You're not fooling anyone, you're still a racist.
Reply:I love neither Jesus nor you.
I'm quite neutral to the both of you in fact.
Reply:You need a long rest. Do you really think your ranting here changes anyone's thinking? Even if Jesus really existed, your senseless bleating would neither help nor hurt his cause.
And, why did you delete your raving sermonette about praying for god to kill terrorists? Is it possible that even YOU recognized the insanity there?
Really, think about signing yourself in somewhere. There are medications that could help.
Reply:You are annoying, You are not going to convert anyone by going JESUS JESUS JESUS LOVE LOVE LOVE.
if you want to convert someone try using facts, they converted me.
facts converted St. Thomas as well.
Reply:Jesus called on me and told me that your avatar looks like you have spinach in your teeth or a little mustache. You should fix it- he said it would look better.
Reply:"facts converted St. Thomas as well. "
Faith is what it is about. Yes, seeing made Thomas believe, but Jesus said, "Blessed are they who do not see yet believe!!"
gumps
Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me
Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me? I've had bad relationships before, i've always been dumped, and all those times I was really in love, or so I thought, and I just got used up, my last ex did the same to me, I cried for her, and I swore I would never cry for someone else. I've me this perfect girl, and I was really in love with her, it's really strange, I barely felt that butterfly feeling for her, now when I say "love you" to her, I mean it, but I feel empty, is it just me? When I start kissing her, I kiss her like no tomorrow and after I feel much closer to her, really love her, but when I'm not with her, like right now, I doubt myself, did my heart just become cold hearted, did I love so much that now my heart doesn't really love like before? I mean I'm truly faithful to her, I have no eyes for another, but what is the deal with me?? plz, help!! Sometime I love her alot, It feels bad!!?? :-(
Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me
Does your girl give you a beer bath? If no, she ain't perfect!
Reply:I wonder why as well.. i started with this guy and it was really sweet. But when i am not with him i am like a single person and enjoy as much..
I assume this is a form of independency reaction. U know urself that u really love her and i am sure that u are mature enough.. no need to tell everything and anything. Just use the heart to love and cherish her with u are with him
Good luck
Reply:i think its the response you have to being hurt all those times
Reply:Dear Josue_1987:
Try NOT to over-analyze it!
(That's in the "girly-girl" job description!)
Here's the deal.
Our brains are NOT fully developed
until we reach the age of 25 yrs. + !!
(This is a PROVEN Neurological FACT!)
Usually, We lack the capacity for proper
decision making skills until then.
LOVE? Most have NO CLUE what
this powerful word really means!
Most continually "RAPE" the Divinity
of this word! It's gotta be the most
ABUSED word in our language!
What is it to immature little boys %26amp;
girls? Lust %26amp; mere Infatuation!
Our Emotions are NOT firmly established
until After we gain MUCHO Experience.
Time affords us the opportunity to
become the best person we can be.
(%26amp; to THINK Properly!)
"Work" on yourself *Josue_1987!
Get to REALLY KNOW *YOU!
Procure a higher Ed. Degree~
%26amp; have a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!
This will sustain a profitable life 4 U!
Date MANY %26amp; Gain More Experience!
LOVE %26amp; Women will FIND YOU!
(%26amp; you will NOT be CRYING~ either, bro!)
Good Luck!
Happy Trails!
Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me
Does your girl give you a beer bath? If no, she ain't perfect!
Reply:I wonder why as well.. i started with this guy and it was really sweet. But when i am not with him i am like a single person and enjoy as much..
I assume this is a form of independency reaction. U know urself that u really love her and i am sure that u are mature enough.. no need to tell everything and anything. Just use the heart to love and cherish her with u are with him
Good luck
Reply:i think its the response you have to being hurt all those times
Reply:Dear Josue_1987:
Try NOT to over-analyze it!
(That's in the "girly-girl" job description!)
Here's the deal.
Our brains are NOT fully developed
until we reach the age of 25 yrs. + !!
(This is a PROVEN Neurological FACT!)
Usually, We lack the capacity for proper
decision making skills until then.
LOVE? Most have NO CLUE what
this powerful word really means!
Most continually "RAPE" the Divinity
of this word! It's gotta be the most
ABUSED word in our language!
What is it to immature little boys %26amp;
girls? Lust %26amp; mere Infatuation!
Our Emotions are NOT firmly established
until After we gain MUCHO Experience.
Time affords us the opportunity to
become the best person we can be.
(%26amp; to THINK Properly!)
"Work" on yourself *Josue_1987!
Get to REALLY KNOW *YOU!
Procure a higher Ed. Degree~
%26amp; have a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!
This will sustain a profitable life 4 U!
Date MANY %26amp; Gain More Experience!
LOVE %26amp; Women will FIND YOU!
(%26amp; you will NOT be CRYING~ either, bro!)
Good Luck!
Happy Trails!
Love Lust & Marriage?
LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room.
LUST- when your tongues meet across a crowded room.
MARRIAGE - When you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room.
LOVE - When intercourse is called "making love."
LUST - When intercourse is called "screwing."
MARRIAGE - When intercourse is a town in Pennsylvania. There really is one.
LOVE - When you argue over how many children to have.
LUST - When you argue over who gets the wet spot?
MARRIAGE - When you argue over whose idea it was to have kids.
LOVE - When you share everything you own.
LUST - When you steal everything they own.
MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything.
LOVE - When it doesn't matter if you don't climax.
LUST - When the relationship is over if you don't climax.
MARRIAGE - When . . . Uh . . . what's a climax?
Love Lust %26amp; Marriage?
lol very true and funny
Reply:hahhaaha! this is hella funny
Reply:Very funny !!!!!!!!!!!!1
Reply:Super.
Reply:Love still exist in marriage isn't it? :D
Reply:Haha. I've seen this before. And speaking as a married woman, I am on point with a few of them. Scary.
Reply:LOL
Apple, I am afraid many times, love is replaced by the habit.
Reply:haha thats really funny xD
LUST- when your tongues meet across a crowded room.
MARRIAGE - When you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room.
LOVE - When intercourse is called "making love."
LUST - When intercourse is called "screwing."
MARRIAGE - When intercourse is a town in Pennsylvania. There really is one.
LOVE - When you argue over how many children to have.
LUST - When you argue over who gets the wet spot?
MARRIAGE - When you argue over whose idea it was to have kids.
LOVE - When you share everything you own.
LUST - When you steal everything they own.
MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything.
LOVE - When it doesn't matter if you don't climax.
LUST - When the relationship is over if you don't climax.
MARRIAGE - When . . . Uh . . . what's a climax?
Love Lust %26amp; Marriage?
lol very true and funny
Reply:hahhaaha! this is hella funny
Reply:Very funny !!!!!!!!!!!!1
Reply:Super.
Reply:Love still exist in marriage isn't it? :D
Reply:Haha. I've seen this before. And speaking as a married woman, I am on point with a few of them. Scary.
Reply:LOL
Apple, I am afraid many times, love is replaced by the habit.
Reply:haha thats really funny xD
Love,Who can tell the differance?
Love is never ending,you can never get enough.
Love can come in many ways,except for the way you want.
Love is never selfish,but always blown out of proportion.
Love is what you have for your child,your mother,But hard to find truely in a mate.
That love is what I'm after,but never believe it will come.
But I found the love I need,residing in Gods son.
Love,Who can tell the differance?
only time can tell true love
Reply:that's what we call the unconditional love that only God can give.
1 Corinthians 13 :4 -13
Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud,
doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;
doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will be done away with. Where there are various languages, they will cease. Where there is knowledge, it will be done away with.
For we know in part, and we prophesy in part;
but when that which is complete has come, then that which is partial will be done away with.
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child. Now that I have become a man, I have put away childish things.
For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, even as I was also fully known.
But now faith, hope, and love remain-these three. The greatest of these is love
Reply:beautiful. i feel the same way. can i copy this and use it for my self
Reply:Hmm, love is the happiness of others in expense of self...
Love can come in many ways,except for the way you want.
Love is never selfish,but always blown out of proportion.
Love is what you have for your child,your mother,But hard to find truely in a mate.
That love is what I'm after,but never believe it will come.
But I found the love I need,residing in Gods son.
Love,Who can tell the differance?
only time can tell true love
Reply:that's what we call the unconditional love that only God can give.
1 Corinthians 13 :4 -13
Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud,
doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil;
doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will be done away with. Where there are various languages, they will cease. Where there is knowledge, it will be done away with.
For we know in part, and we prophesy in part;
but when that which is complete has come, then that which is partial will be done away with.
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt as a child, I thought as a child. Now that I have become a man, I have put away childish things.
For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, even as I was also fully known.
But now faith, hope, and love remain-these three. The greatest of these is love
Reply:beautiful. i feel the same way. can i copy this and use it for my self
Reply:Hmm, love is the happiness of others in expense of self...
Doesn't believe in love?
I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now. We live together and are pretty happy together. Its kinda the opposite attracts kind of thing. I'm 21 and he's 24. The problem is he was hurt really bad by a ex girlfriend and no longer belives in love. I on the other hand Love Love. I believe thats love makes life so much better. Its not that I fall in love alot of strive for love but when I do love someone Its a big deal to me. I love him but he doesn't believe in love anymore. I know I can't force him to change his mind or anything because that will only push him away but I want him to know that love is still real. What should I do or is our realtionship worth pursuing?
Doesn't believe in love?
If he doesn't believe in love then you are in a one sided relationship. You have to ask yourself if you are receiving as much as you are giving. If you are not getting your needs met then it is time to cut your losses and move on
Reply:Give him time...I'm sure somewhere deep down, he does believe or at least hope that love is real.
After someone has been hurt, they want to detach themselves from the thing that caused the original injury.
If you love him, be patient. Just show him how much you love him and how great it can be to put down his guard, open his heart, and give love another try.
Putting yourself out on the ledge and hoping no one pushes you over is HARD! That's what love can be like sometimes. Hopefully, one day someone comes along and helps you off the ledge or at least chills out there with you. That's when you know!
Good luck with your guy and don't worry, he'll remember.
Reply:I don't believe in love anymore either, so I'm going to tell you what people tell me: he just needs time to work through the pain. If you can't be supportive and give him time, then you need to get away before he hurts you and makes you all bitter and cynical too. Only you can decide if you still want to try and have a relationship with him, but until the pain goes away for him, it will not be easy. Good luck!
Reply:I have sypmathy for you. You have a need to feel loved. You want the person you are with to love you the way you love them. I have sypmathy for your boyfriend. He was hurt. More than likely he is too afraid to love again. He probably thinks that if he opens his heart up to you, he'll be hurt again, and he doesnt want to risk the chance. You need to talk to him. Tell him that you are not his ex, and that you are not going to hurt him. Tell him that the things that his ex did/said has nothign to do you with you two. Make sure he knows that you would never hurt him (intentionally) and that you love him. And above all, support him. Make sure he knows that you care for him. That he is (one of or is ) the most imporant person in your life. If you just talk to him, and get him to open up to you about his pain and hurting, and other things, he will soon begin to heal. Things like this take time. And do not get mad at him. Just be there for him.
Reply:I don't buy it. That is the stupidest thing I have heard. IF he has been in love before then really he can't say that he doesn't believe in it. I think he's either still missing his ex, seeing someone else, is not ready for a serious relationship or is just really stupid. These are the things that I could think of that may be his problem. I say lose him, only because he couldn't come up with a better lie. Once a cheater. ALWAYS a cheater. OR MAYBE... he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him. But he could later in the relationship. If you are willing to stick around for a cheater to make up his mind then I say go for it. If not. Find someone worth your time, energy and love.
Reply:How can someone who has already invested the amount of time that you have continue to invest in someone who readily admits he doesn't believe in love? It seems to me that would be painful to hear. By not believing in love, how can he love you back? I cna understand you wanting to be able to prove to him that it is real and does exist, however if he isn't open to it, you are only opening yourself up for more heartache.
Reply:Ask him does the feeling he have for you is simply a relationship with nothing to it or an emotiom,a deep emotion that makes him what to see you everyday that everytime he sees you it makes him smile or happy.... Love is a feeling that each relatiuonship possessess without love there is no raletionship and if doesnt believe on that feeling then what do your being togather means? just for nothing, you being togather for 10 monthes is useless and have no value to him he making you as an idiot...A girl fallingn in love to a man that don't love her, its a waste of time...If you want to help him to believe in that love....Show him what love is--care,affection, patient, understanding and supportive...Andkost of all pray to God,nothing is impossible to Him....
Reply:I would be insulted and wouldn't have taken the step of living together if he said he didn't believe in love. Why should his ex still control the way he thinks? What does she have to do with you? You are a different person with different feelings and different priorities. I really don't know what to tell you, I just know if it were me, I wouldn't waste my time loving someone that is too stubborn to love me back.
Reply:tell him that u would never do anything to hurt him.
Reply:Well obviously he is still hurting and going through a phase right now. It will take alot of time for him to realize that there is love out there for him. love is the most beautiful and rare thing anybody may come across in life but sometimes you have to endure a little pain just to reach it. Eventually he will wake up and sorry to say this but it may not be with you but he will believe in love again.
toothache
Doesn't believe in love?
If he doesn't believe in love then you are in a one sided relationship. You have to ask yourself if you are receiving as much as you are giving. If you are not getting your needs met then it is time to cut your losses and move on
Reply:Give him time...I'm sure somewhere deep down, he does believe or at least hope that love is real.
After someone has been hurt, they want to detach themselves from the thing that caused the original injury.
If you love him, be patient. Just show him how much you love him and how great it can be to put down his guard, open his heart, and give love another try.
Putting yourself out on the ledge and hoping no one pushes you over is HARD! That's what love can be like sometimes. Hopefully, one day someone comes along and helps you off the ledge or at least chills out there with you. That's when you know!
Good luck with your guy and don't worry, he'll remember.
Reply:I don't believe in love anymore either, so I'm going to tell you what people tell me: he just needs time to work through the pain. If you can't be supportive and give him time, then you need to get away before he hurts you and makes you all bitter and cynical too. Only you can decide if you still want to try and have a relationship with him, but until the pain goes away for him, it will not be easy. Good luck!
Reply:I have sypmathy for you. You have a need to feel loved. You want the person you are with to love you the way you love them. I have sypmathy for your boyfriend. He was hurt. More than likely he is too afraid to love again. He probably thinks that if he opens his heart up to you, he'll be hurt again, and he doesnt want to risk the chance. You need to talk to him. Tell him that you are not his ex, and that you are not going to hurt him. Tell him that the things that his ex did/said has nothign to do you with you two. Make sure he knows that you would never hurt him (intentionally) and that you love him. And above all, support him. Make sure he knows that you care for him. That he is (one of or is ) the most imporant person in your life. If you just talk to him, and get him to open up to you about his pain and hurting, and other things, he will soon begin to heal. Things like this take time. And do not get mad at him. Just be there for him.
Reply:I don't buy it. That is the stupidest thing I have heard. IF he has been in love before then really he can't say that he doesn't believe in it. I think he's either still missing his ex, seeing someone else, is not ready for a serious relationship or is just really stupid. These are the things that I could think of that may be his problem. I say lose him, only because he couldn't come up with a better lie. Once a cheater. ALWAYS a cheater. OR MAYBE... he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him. But he could later in the relationship. If you are willing to stick around for a cheater to make up his mind then I say go for it. If not. Find someone worth your time, energy and love.
Reply:How can someone who has already invested the amount of time that you have continue to invest in someone who readily admits he doesn't believe in love? It seems to me that would be painful to hear. By not believing in love, how can he love you back? I cna understand you wanting to be able to prove to him that it is real and does exist, however if he isn't open to it, you are only opening yourself up for more heartache.
Reply:Ask him does the feeling he have for you is simply a relationship with nothing to it or an emotiom,a deep emotion that makes him what to see you everyday that everytime he sees you it makes him smile or happy.... Love is a feeling that each relatiuonship possessess without love there is no raletionship and if doesnt believe on that feeling then what do your being togather means? just for nothing, you being togather for 10 monthes is useless and have no value to him he making you as an idiot...A girl fallingn in love to a man that don't love her, its a waste of time...If you want to help him to believe in that love....Show him what love is--care,affection, patient, understanding and supportive...Andkost of all pray to God,nothing is impossible to Him....
Reply:I would be insulted and wouldn't have taken the step of living together if he said he didn't believe in love. Why should his ex still control the way he thinks? What does she have to do with you? You are a different person with different feelings and different priorities. I really don't know what to tell you, I just know if it were me, I wouldn't waste my time loving someone that is too stubborn to love me back.
Reply:tell him that u would never do anything to hurt him.
Reply:Well obviously he is still hurting and going through a phase right now. It will take alot of time for him to realize that there is love out there for him. love is the most beautiful and rare thing anybody may come across in life but sometimes you have to endure a little pain just to reach it. Eventually he will wake up and sorry to say this but it may not be with you but he will believe in love again.
toothache
What kind of love are you in???
There is secret love, fake love, passionate love, fun love, young love, romantic love, short lasting love, and long lasting love. what kind of love are you in?
What kind of love are you in???
self love
Reply:Ummmm. Right now I think I am in a long lasting romantic AND long lasting love.
Reply:i havent found one yet, if i do. i prefer a long lasting love.
Reply:Oh my gosh, Im so in love with my husband its unreal, been married over 9 yrs and it hasnt faded at all....
Lets see, we have the passion that is for sure...OMG! LOL! We have fun love, romantic love, and long lasting love...
He is my soul mate...my dream..
Reply:Social Security love...getting a little but not enough to get by on...............
Reply:short lasting love definitely. me %26amp; my bf have fun 2getha but i dont think it will last 4eva.
Reply:All kinds of love all rolled into one....or true love! We have a great time together, we laugh together, we've cried together. We have the greatest romantic life, and it is full of passion. He is everything i've ever wanted and I make it a point every single day to make sure he knows how much i love him! And he does the same thing for me. We are friends, lovers, and companions. I have never loved anyone as much as i love him, and cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Reply:Probably a mixture of fun, young, romantic and long lasting. We have been married for 2 and 1/2 years with a baby and we still have lots of fun. Love is what you make it. Relationships of all kinds, need work but as long as both parties are going to keep working at it, you will be happy.
Reply:Been in love once, it was great but ended on a bad note! Next time it will be safe love!
Reply:I am in the over 40 and know what I want kind of love. I finally found the right one and this is better than I could have ever imagined.
Reply:secret love
Reply:I just prefer to call it: true love
Reply:I am in a long lasting love. I am 26 years old and I have been in continuous love with my husband for 12 years. We met in 1995, we married in 2002 and we have a strong healthy relationship.
What kind of love are you in???
self love
Reply:Ummmm. Right now I think I am in a long lasting romantic AND long lasting love.
Reply:i havent found one yet, if i do. i prefer a long lasting love.
Reply:Oh my gosh, Im so in love with my husband its unreal, been married over 9 yrs and it hasnt faded at all....
Lets see, we have the passion that is for sure...OMG! LOL! We have fun love, romantic love, and long lasting love...
He is my soul mate...my dream..
Reply:Social Security love...getting a little but not enough to get by on...............
Reply:short lasting love definitely. me %26amp; my bf have fun 2getha but i dont think it will last 4eva.
Reply:All kinds of love all rolled into one....or true love! We have a great time together, we laugh together, we've cried together. We have the greatest romantic life, and it is full of passion. He is everything i've ever wanted and I make it a point every single day to make sure he knows how much i love him! And he does the same thing for me. We are friends, lovers, and companions. I have never loved anyone as much as i love him, and cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Reply:Probably a mixture of fun, young, romantic and long lasting. We have been married for 2 and 1/2 years with a baby and we still have lots of fun. Love is what you make it. Relationships of all kinds, need work but as long as both parties are going to keep working at it, you will be happy.
Reply:Been in love once, it was great but ended on a bad note! Next time it will be safe love!
Reply:I am in the over 40 and know what I want kind of love. I finally found the right one and this is better than I could have ever imagined.
Reply:secret love
Reply:I just prefer to call it: true love
Reply:I am in a long lasting love. I am 26 years old and I have been in continuous love with my husband for 12 years. We met in 1995, we married in 2002 and we have a strong healthy relationship.
Love Is More of an Action not a Feeling?
Do you think perhaps that love is a verb not a state of being? A lot of people say love comes and goes in a marriage, but is that just the passion of the relationship? Perhaps that feeling of love is connected with our actions?
I ask this because I was told an interesting story the other day.....
A women goes to her friend the who happens to be a lawyer. She tells him she wants to get a divorce but she wants to hurt her husband as much as possible before she does. The man tells here ok here's what you do. Go back to your house and act like you love him. Make him his favorite dinners, get him a beer without asking, give him random kisses, and tell him you love him everyday. Do that for about a month and then just randomly tell him you want a divorce. It'll crush him. The woman agrees and they go their seperate ways.
Three months goes by and the lawyer gets no word. He gives the woman a call and asks her about the divorce. She asks "What divorce? I love him!"
truth?
Love Is More of an Action not a Feeling?
Yes! "Agape" it is a selfless love that ACTS and seeks not its own in return.
There are three other kinds of love:
"Storge" --- An affectionate kind of love. A love often times taken for granted as is common among family members. A mother and son for example.
" Philia" -- A friendship kind of love
"Eros" ---which is a romantic sort of love intense fatuation that may or may not include physical relations.
**************************************...
Billy Graham said:
"enuine love is not (or should not be) based on feelings...The question is are you willing to love…"
C. S. Lewis:
"love, in the Christian sense, does not mean an emotion. It is a state not of the feelings but of the will…"
Amy Carmichael writes:
"Lord, give me love, then I have all,
For love casts out tormenting fear,
And love sounds forth a trumpet call
To valiant hope, sweet and clear.
The birds of joy sing in my tree,
Love of my heart, when I have Thee."
Reply:Yes true. love is a decision.
Reply:Yeah I believe love is an act of choice. You can either love or not. Interestingly enough though the feeling is that we desire to have someone love us. So a choice causes a feeling in the other person which often promotes them make a similar choice. It's the cycle of a healthy loving relationship; but it also works in the opposite direction. Sometimes a failing marriage only needs one of the two partners to make a decision to love the other.
Reply:Love is not an emotion because Love does not come and go. Love is always there, it is just us who turn away (from God and man). Love is not a chemical reaction for it is a quality. There is no measurment to love. If one is saying love is merely biological, it would mean love is quantifiable. So, to risk receiving absurd answers, I ask what is the amount of chemicals needed for love to be in our bodies? A gallon? A liter?
The person who answered the question that love is a decision is correct. For love is eternal and always present because the Eternal One decided on us (creation) and that decision has never been revoked. The clearest demonstration of love being a decision is in Christ Jesus. He prayed in the garden, "Father, take this cup (His eminent suffering) away from me, but not as I will, but as You will." So, in fact His humanity was afraid to die so horribly, His humanity asked to be saved from it, but His humanity "decided" to carry on with the salvific mission of the Father no matter His emotions and no amount of endorphins or adrenalin from His fears would change His "decision". So, once again love is not an emotion nor a chemical reaction.
Motherhood is another fine example, a mother is awakened at 3 a.m. by her newborn child. The child needs a diaper change. The mother is upset and tired because peaceful sleep has been broken, but despite her fatigue and emotions she "decides" to change the child's diapers. So, once again love is not an emotion nor a chemical reaction.
May the Lord bless and keep you. May He let the light of His face shine upon you.
God's and your beast of burden
Fr. john
Reply:nope, love is a feeling and a result of chemical interactions within the brain. It's a lovely feeling though.
I ask this because I was told an interesting story the other day.....
A women goes to her friend the who happens to be a lawyer. She tells him she wants to get a divorce but she wants to hurt her husband as much as possible before she does. The man tells here ok here's what you do. Go back to your house and act like you love him. Make him his favorite dinners, get him a beer without asking, give him random kisses, and tell him you love him everyday. Do that for about a month and then just randomly tell him you want a divorce. It'll crush him. The woman agrees and they go their seperate ways.
Three months goes by and the lawyer gets no word. He gives the woman a call and asks her about the divorce. She asks "What divorce? I love him!"
truth?
Love Is More of an Action not a Feeling?
Yes! "Agape" it is a selfless love that ACTS and seeks not its own in return.
There are three other kinds of love:
"Storge" --- An affectionate kind of love. A love often times taken for granted as is common among family members. A mother and son for example.
" Philia" -- A friendship kind of love
"Eros" ---which is a romantic sort of love intense fatuation that may or may not include physical relations.
**************************************...
Billy Graham said:
"enuine love is not (or should not be) based on feelings...The question is are you willing to love…"
C. S. Lewis:
"love, in the Christian sense, does not mean an emotion. It is a state not of the feelings but of the will…"
Amy Carmichael writes:
"Lord, give me love, then I have all,
For love casts out tormenting fear,
And love sounds forth a trumpet call
To valiant hope, sweet and clear.
The birds of joy sing in my tree,
Love of my heart, when I have Thee."
Reply:Yes true. love is a decision.
Reply:Yeah I believe love is an act of choice. You can either love or not. Interestingly enough though the feeling is that we desire to have someone love us. So a choice causes a feeling in the other person which often promotes them make a similar choice. It's the cycle of a healthy loving relationship; but it also works in the opposite direction. Sometimes a failing marriage only needs one of the two partners to make a decision to love the other.
Reply:Love is not an emotion because Love does not come and go. Love is always there, it is just us who turn away (from God and man). Love is not a chemical reaction for it is a quality. There is no measurment to love. If one is saying love is merely biological, it would mean love is quantifiable. So, to risk receiving absurd answers, I ask what is the amount of chemicals needed for love to be in our bodies? A gallon? A liter?
The person who answered the question that love is a decision is correct. For love is eternal and always present because the Eternal One decided on us (creation) and that decision has never been revoked. The clearest demonstration of love being a decision is in Christ Jesus. He prayed in the garden, "Father, take this cup (His eminent suffering) away from me, but not as I will, but as You will." So, in fact His humanity was afraid to die so horribly, His humanity asked to be saved from it, but His humanity "decided" to carry on with the salvific mission of the Father no matter His emotions and no amount of endorphins or adrenalin from His fears would change His "decision". So, once again love is not an emotion nor a chemical reaction.
Motherhood is another fine example, a mother is awakened at 3 a.m. by her newborn child. The child needs a diaper change. The mother is upset and tired because peaceful sleep has been broken, but despite her fatigue and emotions she "decides" to change the child's diapers. So, once again love is not an emotion nor a chemical reaction.
May the Lord bless and keep you. May He let the light of His face shine upon you.
God's and your beast of burden
Fr. john
Reply:nope, love is a feeling and a result of chemical interactions within the brain. It's a lovely feeling though.
Does love really conquer all?
I'm sure many of you consider love to be one of the most important factors of life. But should there be any restrictions to love? Should two people who love each other dearly be barred from a relationship solely by their nationality, religion, age, gender, and/or status?
Supposing I loved someone who wasn't Muslim (which I happen to be), who wasn't Albanian (which I happen to be), who wasn't an adult (I have feelings toward a teenager)? Do relationships between different groups really work out? Or are people only supposed to love/marry those who belong in the same category? Does it make sense that I should be denied someone who I feel is right for me just because she happens to be 'different'?
I strongly believe in the statement "love is love period". Does anyone here, other than gays, agree with that statement?
Does love really conquer all?
"two people, if they agree to see the world the same and share a life, make a reality. absolutley. its not a question of perception, it goes beyond god or the devil. if the sky twisted itself apart and chaos and discordia were imminent, i would seek u out and watch the world burn. and be content. thats what i was explaining to someone today."
my best friend was explaining his opinion on true love to me and this is how he explained it to his girlfriend.
Does it make sense that I should be denied someone who I feel is right for me just because she happens to be 'different'? no. if i spent my life with people exactly like me, i never would have learned anything. you NEED to spend time with people different than you, and its VERY likely you will fall in love with one of them.
Reply:absolutely!!!
if your willing to work at it any relationship can work!
Good Luck!!!
Reply:according to Lionel Ritchie, yes love does conquer all.
Reply:i got the same question too, for my old boy friend who said he loved me but rip my heart out like he is not a human being for all the diferences like you said, if you love her would it be matter if the girl that you sadi you care so much is diferent from you, would what someone think more matter than what you feel
would you led anyone be the decicion maker for your thing
if you love her and know that you can't be with her because all this diferences why would you hurt her by saying you love her and the end you leave her like she was nothing to you and maybe you don't know it , maybe she wasn't as lucky as i am
who survive from god mercy from doing a very stupid think like ending her life cos you give a deep feeling that there is no otehr that could love her like you do and tell her that you would rather die if you could not be with her and she feel so guilty if se move on with her live and rather be suffering for your own happyness
do you realy love her that much that you will give you will sacrivice your life for the one you said you love or its just another sweet word you tell
think about it
and what are you doing with a teen ager, can't you find your own age .
love is not just a word you said but its the air that you breath,
Reply:well, interesting question. I think love can conquer anything, but, you have to be willing to let it ruin other parts of your life. Just because it conquers all doesn't mean it can stop others from not feeling that way. it gets hard but if it is real love, you will survive. As long as she has those feelings for you. I hope you are not like 40 something though, cuz if you are she is pretty much going to be dating her dad. think about that, just in case.
Reply:love is love period....... your right go to your teen and kiss her not everyone is going to be the same and perents or people in your family cant see that because there not you only you kmow how you feel and nothing elce matters. and im not gay im a straight female:)
Reply:Love is Love, but in life there is a cost for everything. So if you understand cost and what you are inviting as a life debt and . . . you are ok with it . Then nothing else matters; unless it is illegal.
God loves everyone and religion ruins that message.
Supposing I loved someone who wasn't Muslim (which I happen to be), who wasn't Albanian (which I happen to be), who wasn't an adult (I have feelings toward a teenager)? Do relationships between different groups really work out? Or are people only supposed to love/marry those who belong in the same category? Does it make sense that I should be denied someone who I feel is right for me just because she happens to be 'different'?
I strongly believe in the statement "love is love period". Does anyone here, other than gays, agree with that statement?
Does love really conquer all?
"two people, if they agree to see the world the same and share a life, make a reality. absolutley. its not a question of perception, it goes beyond god or the devil. if the sky twisted itself apart and chaos and discordia were imminent, i would seek u out and watch the world burn. and be content. thats what i was explaining to someone today."
my best friend was explaining his opinion on true love to me and this is how he explained it to his girlfriend.
Does it make sense that I should be denied someone who I feel is right for me just because she happens to be 'different'? no. if i spent my life with people exactly like me, i never would have learned anything. you NEED to spend time with people different than you, and its VERY likely you will fall in love with one of them.
Reply:absolutely!!!
if your willing to work at it any relationship can work!
Good Luck!!!
Reply:according to Lionel Ritchie, yes love does conquer all.
Reply:i got the same question too, for my old boy friend who said he loved me but rip my heart out like he is not a human being for all the diferences like you said, if you love her would it be matter if the girl that you sadi you care so much is diferent from you, would what someone think more matter than what you feel
would you led anyone be the decicion maker for your thing
if you love her and know that you can't be with her because all this diferences why would you hurt her by saying you love her and the end you leave her like she was nothing to you and maybe you don't know it , maybe she wasn't as lucky as i am
who survive from god mercy from doing a very stupid think like ending her life cos you give a deep feeling that there is no otehr that could love her like you do and tell her that you would rather die if you could not be with her and she feel so guilty if se move on with her live and rather be suffering for your own happyness
do you realy love her that much that you will give you will sacrivice your life for the one you said you love or its just another sweet word you tell
think about it
and what are you doing with a teen ager, can't you find your own age .
love is not just a word you said but its the air that you breath,
Reply:well, interesting question. I think love can conquer anything, but, you have to be willing to let it ruin other parts of your life. Just because it conquers all doesn't mean it can stop others from not feeling that way. it gets hard but if it is real love, you will survive. As long as she has those feelings for you. I hope you are not like 40 something though, cuz if you are she is pretty much going to be dating her dad. think about that, just in case.
Reply:love is love period....... your right go to your teen and kiss her not everyone is going to be the same and perents or people in your family cant see that because there not you only you kmow how you feel and nothing elce matters. and im not gay im a straight female:)
Reply:Love is Love, but in life there is a cost for everything. So if you understand cost and what you are inviting as a life debt and . . . you are ok with it . Then nothing else matters; unless it is illegal.
God loves everyone and religion ruins that message.
Is that love? do i continue on like this? plz helpp?
hi plz i need some help, i loved that girl i meet 2 month ago, i'm cray over her, i can't stop missing her, and she has the same feeling on her side, but the problem is that she has a boyfriend, and she can't leave him, because she has a serious relationship with him( she had sex with him) and she do love him too thy are now 2 years together...i asked why does she loves me? if she have a bf and she tells me because im different and that she feels secure and happy when she's with me, and that im sweet with her, and she just love the way i am and love me........we have kissed each other many times...and two days ago she asks me to leave her because she feels she is unfaithful to her boyfriend......so i respected her and agreed and she called me 2nit telling me that she missed me and she do love me..........what do i do? i am confused...i do love that girl...but i don't knw if what is happening between us is called " love"....she's driving me crazy.....
Is that love? do i continue on like this? plz helpp?
smarten up she doesn't love you.
Reply:Leave her. Once you will find other. You will be then able to forget her.
Reply:Wow thats deep. Maybe you should talk to her about it.
Reply:she is toying with your emotions. dont let her anymore. when u find the right person, you will know when you actually love them, but that couldnt have been love, that was a mind game. good luck hun, and happy holidays. :D
Reply:go find another
Reply:If she really loved you she'd leave the other guy for you. She just wants attention.
Reply:Tell her to be realistic...she is playing you and her boyfriend...she does not know what she wants. Untill she does let her go
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Is that love? do i continue on like this? plz helpp?
smarten up she doesn't love you.
Reply:Leave her. Once you will find other. You will be then able to forget her.
Reply:Wow thats deep. Maybe you should talk to her about it.
Reply:she is toying with your emotions. dont let her anymore. when u find the right person, you will know when you actually love them, but that couldnt have been love, that was a mind game. good luck hun, and happy holidays. :D
Reply:go find another
Reply:If she really loved you she'd leave the other guy for you. She just wants attention.
Reply:Tell her to be realistic...she is playing you and her boyfriend...she does not know what she wants. Untill she does let her go
cavities
Question About Love?
I was just curious about everyone's opinion on what love is, how people act when they are in love, and how many people out there feel that they are in a truly loving relationship.
Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.
What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?
You get to talk about yourself in this one!
Question About Love?
I think u are exactly right....love is doing things for ur partner before yourself and never letting anything split u up.......I love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot of sh*t! Like one time I thought I was pregnant with my exs baby......the guy I'm with now chose to stay with me and said he'd be there for me and my baby.(luckly it was a false alarm).....and my parents recently tried to split us up and we said no that we would find a way to be together.....there's a lot more but I don't feel like typing it
Reply:Beleive me on this one, love is not a decision. I promise that to you. How do I know this? Well because I have dated women before that on paper are perfect and sound perfect and everything. They also liked me a lot and told me they liked me a lot, so when I wasn't falling in love with them I was wondering why? I tried to fall in love with them, I decided I wanted to fall in love with them, but at the end of the day, I just couldn't. The best way to describe it was they had X, Y but no Z....love is X, Y and Z....The X is everything is perfect on paper, the Y is you two click and connect well, the Z is something you CAN'T decide and it is called a deep down feeling. The other best way to describe it is you have soulmates, a lot of soulmates, but only one true soulmate who you agreed to be together with for a long time. Some understand that as well...hope this helps, best of luck!
Reply:I Think Love Is More Than A Felling. Or A Decision You Cant Choose The Person You Truly fall In Love With. It Just Happens I Think Thats Why You Always See One Person Inlove With A person More Then The Other. Love Is The Most Special Thing In Life.
Reply:You have some great ideas. Love is the act of.
Reply:well i agree that would be if i believed in love i just think its a bunch of ****
Reply:it just happens natural
a natural feeling i guess
i mean it depends no??
Reply:Love is hard to define what may mean love to you may not be love to some body there is what people call,text book love that is love that we usually see in movies and novels ,but when it come to the real issues of life u may found this things cant be trusted because what I may feel or think about you you might not be feeling the same way for me .I believe love is about sharing and faith and trust .even though the bible ask us not to trust man ,I think we some time have to.
Reply:In my opinion, LOVE is classified into number of Divisions.
They are
1. A LOVE between Parents towards their Children:
This type of LOVE can be found in each and every parent.
They give what ever their child asked.
And finally, this LOVE remains till their Death.
2. A LOVE between Two Friends :
This type of LOVe can be found when YOU are in school, college, office etc..... One help other in many ways. It cannot be expressed in terms of words.
Few examples are:
i) one express his happiness or sadness to other....
ii) one asks help only when he is DEAREST and Nearest one...
3. A LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL:
This type LOVE can be mostly found when you are in teenage.
This is a toughest one which I doesn't wanna talk......
Reply:I guess I don't know what love really is since I have 30 ex-girlfriends, 6 ex-fiances, and 1 ex-wife. I think I'm better off being single!!!
Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.
What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?
You get to talk about yourself in this one!
Question About Love?
I think u are exactly right....love is doing things for ur partner before yourself and never letting anything split u up.......I love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot of sh*t! Like one time I thought I was pregnant with my exs baby......the guy I'm with now chose to stay with me and said he'd be there for me and my baby.(luckly it was a false alarm).....and my parents recently tried to split us up and we said no that we would find a way to be together.....there's a lot more but I don't feel like typing it
Reply:Beleive me on this one, love is not a decision. I promise that to you. How do I know this? Well because I have dated women before that on paper are perfect and sound perfect and everything. They also liked me a lot and told me they liked me a lot, so when I wasn't falling in love with them I was wondering why? I tried to fall in love with them, I decided I wanted to fall in love with them, but at the end of the day, I just couldn't. The best way to describe it was they had X, Y but no Z....love is X, Y and Z....The X is everything is perfect on paper, the Y is you two click and connect well, the Z is something you CAN'T decide and it is called a deep down feeling. The other best way to describe it is you have soulmates, a lot of soulmates, but only one true soulmate who you agreed to be together with for a long time. Some understand that as well...hope this helps, best of luck!
Reply:I Think Love Is More Than A Felling. Or A Decision You Cant Choose The Person You Truly fall In Love With. It Just Happens I Think Thats Why You Always See One Person Inlove With A person More Then The Other. Love Is The Most Special Thing In Life.
Reply:You have some great ideas. Love is the act of.
Reply:well i agree that would be if i believed in love i just think its a bunch of ****
Reply:it just happens natural
a natural feeling i guess
i mean it depends no??
Reply:Love is hard to define what may mean love to you may not be love to some body there is what people call,text book love that is love that we usually see in movies and novels ,but when it come to the real issues of life u may found this things cant be trusted because what I may feel or think about you you might not be feeling the same way for me .I believe love is about sharing and faith and trust .even though the bible ask us not to trust man ,I think we some time have to.
Reply:In my opinion, LOVE is classified into number of Divisions.
They are
1. A LOVE between Parents towards their Children:
This type of LOVE can be found in each and every parent.
They give what ever their child asked.
And finally, this LOVE remains till their Death.
2. A LOVE between Two Friends :
This type of LOVe can be found when YOU are in school, college, office etc..... One help other in many ways. It cannot be expressed in terms of words.
Few examples are:
i) one express his happiness or sadness to other....
ii) one asks help only when he is DEAREST and Nearest one...
3. A LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL:
This type LOVE can be mostly found when you are in teenage.
This is a toughest one which I doesn't wanna talk......
Reply:I guess I don't know what love really is since I have 30 ex-girlfriends, 6 ex-fiances, and 1 ex-wife. I think I'm better off being single!!!
Question About Love?
I was just curious about everyone's opinion on what love is, how people act when they are in love, and how many people out there feel that they are in a truly loving relationship.
Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.
What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?
You get to talk about yourself in this one!
Question About Love?
I think u are exactly right....love is doing things for ur partner before yourself and never letting anything split u up.......I love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot of sh*t! Like one time I thought I was pregnant with my exs baby......the guy I'm with now chose to stay with me and said he'd be there for me and my baby.(luckly it was a false alarm).....and my parents recently tried to split us up and we said no that we would find a way to be together.....there's a lot more but I don't feel like typing it
Reply:Beleive me on this one, love is not a decision. I promise that to you. How do I know this? Well because I have dated women before that on paper are perfect and sound perfect and everything. They also liked me a lot and told me they liked me a lot, so when I wasn't falling in love with them I was wondering why? I tried to fall in love with them, I decided I wanted to fall in love with them, but at the end of the day, I just couldn't. The best way to describe it was they had X, Y but no Z....love is X, Y and Z....The X is everything is perfect on paper, the Y is you two click and connect well, the Z is something you CAN'T decide and it is called a deep down feeling. The other best way to describe it is you have soulmates, a lot of soulmates, but only one true soulmate who you agreed to be together with for a long time. Some understand that as well...hope this helps, best of luck!
Reply:I Think Love Is More Than A Felling. Or A Decision You Cant Choose The Person You Truly fall In Love With. It Just Happens I Think Thats Why You Always See One Person Inlove With A person More Then The Other. Love Is The Most Special Thing In Life.
Reply:You have some great ideas. Love is the act of.
Reply:well i agree that would be if i believed in love i just think its a bunch of ****
Reply:it just happens natural
a natural feeling i guess
i mean it depends no??
Reply:Love is hard to define what may mean love to you may not be love to some body there is what people call,text book love that is love that we usually see in movies and novels ,but when it come to the real issues of life u may found this things cant be trusted because what I may feel or think about you you might not be feeling the same way for me .I believe love is about sharing and faith and trust .even though the bible ask us not to trust man ,I think we some time have to.
Reply:In my opinion, LOVE is classified into number of Divisions.
They are
1. A LOVE between Parents towards their Children:
This type of LOVE can be found in each and every parent.
They give what ever their child asked.
And finally, this LOVE remains till their Death.
2. A LOVE between Two Friends :
This type of LOVe can be found when YOU are in school, college, office etc..... One help other in many ways. It cannot be expressed in terms of words.
Few examples are:
i) one express his happiness or sadness to other....
ii) one asks help only when he is DEAREST and Nearest one...
3. A LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL:
This type LOVE can be mostly found when you are in teenage.
This is a toughest one which I doesn't wanna talk......
Reply:I guess I don't know what love really is since I have 30 ex-girlfriends, 6 ex-fiances, and 1 ex-wife. I think I'm better off being single!!!
Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.
What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?
You get to talk about yourself in this one!
Question About Love?
I think u are exactly right....love is doing things for ur partner before yourself and never letting anything split u up.......I love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot of sh*t! Like one time I thought I was pregnant with my exs baby......the guy I'm with now chose to stay with me and said he'd be there for me and my baby.(luckly it was a false alarm).....and my parents recently tried to split us up and we said no that we would find a way to be together.....there's a lot more but I don't feel like typing it
Reply:Beleive me on this one, love is not a decision. I promise that to you. How do I know this? Well because I have dated women before that on paper are perfect and sound perfect and everything. They also liked me a lot and told me they liked me a lot, so when I wasn't falling in love with them I was wondering why? I tried to fall in love with them, I decided I wanted to fall in love with them, but at the end of the day, I just couldn't. The best way to describe it was they had X, Y but no Z....love is X, Y and Z....The X is everything is perfect on paper, the Y is you two click and connect well, the Z is something you CAN'T decide and it is called a deep down feeling. The other best way to describe it is you have soulmates, a lot of soulmates, but only one true soulmate who you agreed to be together with for a long time. Some understand that as well...hope this helps, best of luck!
Reply:I Think Love Is More Than A Felling. Or A Decision You Cant Choose The Person You Truly fall In Love With. It Just Happens I Think Thats Why You Always See One Person Inlove With A person More Then The Other. Love Is The Most Special Thing In Life.
Reply:You have some great ideas. Love is the act of.
Reply:well i agree that would be if i believed in love i just think its a bunch of ****
Reply:it just happens natural
a natural feeling i guess
i mean it depends no??
Reply:Love is hard to define what may mean love to you may not be love to some body there is what people call,text book love that is love that we usually see in movies and novels ,but when it come to the real issues of life u may found this things cant be trusted because what I may feel or think about you you might not be feeling the same way for me .I believe love is about sharing and faith and trust .even though the bible ask us not to trust man ,I think we some time have to.
Reply:In my opinion, LOVE is classified into number of Divisions.
They are
1. A LOVE between Parents towards their Children:
This type of LOVE can be found in each and every parent.
They give what ever their child asked.
And finally, this LOVE remains till their Death.
2. A LOVE between Two Friends :
This type of LOVe can be found when YOU are in school, college, office etc..... One help other in many ways. It cannot be expressed in terms of words.
Few examples are:
i) one express his happiness or sadness to other....
ii) one asks help only when he is DEAREST and Nearest one...
3. A LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL:
This type LOVE can be mostly found when you are in teenage.
This is a toughest one which I doesn't wanna talk......
Reply:I guess I don't know what love really is since I have 30 ex-girlfriends, 6 ex-fiances, and 1 ex-wife. I think I'm better off being single!!!
Love songs?
What are some good love songs?
Not break-up songs, or sad love songs.
But love songs like "I'm madly in love with you" songs.
Maybe some lesbian love songs
any love songs are fine.
Love songs?
Not Gonna Get Us by T.A.T.U.
Only You by Jill Scott
Love Me by National Product
Wanna Love You by Robin Thicke
Lost Without You by Robin Thicke
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defo the best i wanna be top answer and you know it
If You're Not the One - Daniel Bedingfield Report It
Reply:"Ribbon In The Sky" by Stevie Wonder
Not break-up songs, or sad love songs.
But love songs like "I'm madly in love with you" songs.
Maybe some lesbian love songs
any love songs are fine.
Love songs?
Not Gonna Get Us by T.A.T.U.
Only You by Jill Scott
Love Me by National Product
Wanna Love You by Robin Thicke
Lost Without You by Robin Thicke
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defo the best i wanna be top answer and you know it
If You're Not the One - Daniel Bedingfield Report It
Reply:"Ribbon In The Sky" by Stevie Wonder
I love him.. What do I do?
My best friend and the man I love is going to iraq in October. I want to tell him how I feel, but I know he has a girlfriend. They arent serious and I know she is not going to wait for him to get back, and she will not be faithful to him. I love him with my whole heart and I know that sometimes you have to let go of someone if you really love them, but should I tell him I love him before he goes to Iraq? I already told him that I would be here when he gets back, and that I will send him letters and care packages... Im just so confused and so scared. I know he loves me cause he has told me that he loves me, but because he is with this other girl I dont know what bounderies there are when it comes to talking about different things. Im scared for him, and I want to tell him what I am feeling... he is my best friend and I have always been able to talk to him about anything... would I be wrong to tell him that I love him?
I love him.. What do I do?
Don't panic...
You can tell him you love him...
And do you want to know the best news...?
Write him daily.
Talk about what you do, what you learn, what you see, and how you feel about things.
Keep the letters going.
Those mean so much to us when we are away...we long for letters...especially through the times when we can't write back.
Send packages when you can...they are so appreciated...
And when he does come home...he will be so appreciative of the love and support you sent everyday.
If she bails on him like you say she will...
trust me...
He won't forget what you meant to him while he was out there in the dust.
The woman that wrote me every day was my lifesaver...and if she wasn't already married...I would have been more than happy to thank her in so many ways for never giving up and always writing.
If it's meant to be - you will be there for him.
Reply:then tell him, that you love him
Coming from a guy who has seen my fair share of let downs, this may be the best thing...HOWEVER....this may be a bad thing...he may take it bad, or the current girlfriend might get weirded out....who knows...just do what your heart tells you...it will never leave you astray
Reply:Just saying I love you is enough. Trust me, men and women alike just want to hear it from you.
And it wouldnt be wrong if you mean it when you say it
Reply:Ok so i see you dont love him as a good friend only.. You seem to really love this guy.. and since you know that his relationship is not serious and that the girl wont wait for him and all.. then i think you should let him know.. You never know whats gonna happen and maybe u guys end up together after he returns.. but do tell him because maybe u will regret later if you dont..
Good luck =)
Reply:Well dear the best thing is to be cool just relax coz the moment you will tell him that you love him its like giving him a go ahead.be strong cont being good to him and be a good friend things will work by themselves.cheerz
Reply:Stay his best friend for now. he doesn't need extra baggage right now. When he gets back maybe he will be on the same page as you. There are many kinds of love and as long as he has another girlfriend you are professing different kinds to each other.
Reply:If he tells you he loves you but he is with another girl, the love he feels may be more brotherly than what you are feeling. Since he is in the turmoil and uncertainty of going to a war zone, this may not be the best time to try to take your relationship to a different level. Going to war will also change him. Continue to be his friend and support him, then see where he is at when he returns. There is no guarantee this man will ever love you the way you want, but if he is your friend, let him know you have his back. Do not burden him with a sense of responsibility for your feelings. He needs to concentrate on the mission ahead. In the meantime, do not put your whole life on hold and blind yourself to other potential relationships.
Reply:wow
this is tough since he is going to iraq
i wouldnt tell him before he left unless he told me first, though
but
one question
if he says he loves you than why is he still with his girlfriend?
continue to send him care packages and letters
be there for him as much as you can
because war is hard and can change people in many ways
but little things like letters and packages can let him know that you are thinking about him and care for him
so
if he says he loves you in the same way as you feel - than go ahead and tell him
but if its only as a friend than i would wait because i wouldnt want him to have to worry about all of the relationship drama while he is off protecting his country
but do whatever you feel is best
best of luck!!!
Reply:i think u should tell him in case u don't get another chance to....at least he will know
Reply:Actually its not wrong to tell him that you love him, for nobody knows what will happen for tomorrow, it's not to late to tell him that you love him, if he really loves you then he will find a way for his love to be with you, remember that in love there are no boundaries in it, for love always finds a way in order to be given to the person you love. You don't need to be afraid, and as you tell it, his your bestfriend, right? So no worries he will understand you no matter what your going to say, that's what bestfriends are for, right?
hope this helps,,,.......
Reply:i think u should tell him that you love him with your feeling.whatever u feel about him.because i dont think that people understand that without say feelings
Reply:u should tell
Reply:You lost him yourself. You could have told him the first time he was single. On the other hand, the fact that he now has a girl friend simply proves that he wasn't for you if at all he knew all along that you love him. He could have approached you if you were in his mind then. I would suggest he is just being friendly if he behaves all that positively towards you this time around. Otherwise let him go and he might be back for you if there is indeed anything in his mind for you!
Reply:go girl,just tell him what you feel coz he's you're bestfriend right?and you will tell him anything.just give time to talk to him about his girlfriend.if he loves you too he will leave that girl for you if not maybe there's something wrong with that guy.huh?love is a sacrifice but if it's time to let go of the fight..let go and find someone else that will fight for you too!
orthodontists
I love him.. What do I do?
Don't panic...
You can tell him you love him...
And do you want to know the best news...?
Write him daily.
Talk about what you do, what you learn, what you see, and how you feel about things.
Keep the letters going.
Those mean so much to us when we are away...we long for letters...especially through the times when we can't write back.
Send packages when you can...they are so appreciated...
And when he does come home...he will be so appreciative of the love and support you sent everyday.
If she bails on him like you say she will...
trust me...
He won't forget what you meant to him while he was out there in the dust.
The woman that wrote me every day was my lifesaver...and if she wasn't already married...I would have been more than happy to thank her in so many ways for never giving up and always writing.
If it's meant to be - you will be there for him.
Reply:then tell him, that you love him
Coming from a guy who has seen my fair share of let downs, this may be the best thing...HOWEVER....this may be a bad thing...he may take it bad, or the current girlfriend might get weirded out....who knows...just do what your heart tells you...it will never leave you astray
Reply:Just saying I love you is enough. Trust me, men and women alike just want to hear it from you.
And it wouldnt be wrong if you mean it when you say it
Reply:Ok so i see you dont love him as a good friend only.. You seem to really love this guy.. and since you know that his relationship is not serious and that the girl wont wait for him and all.. then i think you should let him know.. You never know whats gonna happen and maybe u guys end up together after he returns.. but do tell him because maybe u will regret later if you dont..
Good luck =)
Reply:Well dear the best thing is to be cool just relax coz the moment you will tell him that you love him its like giving him a go ahead.be strong cont being good to him and be a good friend things will work by themselves.cheerz
Reply:Stay his best friend for now. he doesn't need extra baggage right now. When he gets back maybe he will be on the same page as you. There are many kinds of love and as long as he has another girlfriend you are professing different kinds to each other.
Reply:If he tells you he loves you but he is with another girl, the love he feels may be more brotherly than what you are feeling. Since he is in the turmoil and uncertainty of going to a war zone, this may not be the best time to try to take your relationship to a different level. Going to war will also change him. Continue to be his friend and support him, then see where he is at when he returns. There is no guarantee this man will ever love you the way you want, but if he is your friend, let him know you have his back. Do not burden him with a sense of responsibility for your feelings. He needs to concentrate on the mission ahead. In the meantime, do not put your whole life on hold and blind yourself to other potential relationships.
Reply:wow
this is tough since he is going to iraq
i wouldnt tell him before he left unless he told me first, though
but
one question
if he says he loves you than why is he still with his girlfriend?
continue to send him care packages and letters
be there for him as much as you can
because war is hard and can change people in many ways
but little things like letters and packages can let him know that you are thinking about him and care for him
so
if he says he loves you in the same way as you feel - than go ahead and tell him
but if its only as a friend than i would wait because i wouldnt want him to have to worry about all of the relationship drama while he is off protecting his country
but do whatever you feel is best
best of luck!!!
Reply:i think u should tell him in case u don't get another chance to....at least he will know
Reply:Actually its not wrong to tell him that you love him, for nobody knows what will happen for tomorrow, it's not to late to tell him that you love him, if he really loves you then he will find a way for his love to be with you, remember that in love there are no boundaries in it, for love always finds a way in order to be given to the person you love. You don't need to be afraid, and as you tell it, his your bestfriend, right? So no worries he will understand you no matter what your going to say, that's what bestfriends are for, right?
hope this helps,,,.......
Reply:i think u should tell him that you love him with your feeling.whatever u feel about him.because i dont think that people understand that without say feelings
Reply:u should tell
Reply:You lost him yourself. You could have told him the first time he was single. On the other hand, the fact that he now has a girl friend simply proves that he wasn't for you if at all he knew all along that you love him. He could have approached you if you were in his mind then. I would suggest he is just being friendly if he behaves all that positively towards you this time around. Otherwise let him go and he might be back for you if there is indeed anything in his mind for you!
Reply:go girl,just tell him what you feel coz he's you're bestfriend right?and you will tell him anything.just give time to talk to him about his girlfriend.if he loves you too he will leave that girl for you if not maybe there's something wrong with that guy.huh?love is a sacrifice but if it's time to let go of the fight..let go and find someone else that will fight for you too!
orthodontists
Does he still love them the way I think he does? For ages 30 and over?
I have been dating an older gentlemen for about 8 months now. There's a nine year difference in our ages. He has been married and divorced twice. He says that he loves me but he also love both of his ex-wives. I became upset when he told me that. He tried to reassure me that he is in love with me and does not love them the same way he loves me. He says I am overreacting and being insecure about the whole thing. I say love is love no way around it there is no difference in being in love and loving someone. If there is a difference I would like to know what the diffference is. I am beginning to think that perhaps he may decide to go back to one of them. I really don't know if I am blowing this out of apportion and overreacting. I need some solid advice from someone mature enough to understand where I am is coming from?
Does he still love them the way I think he does? For ages 30 and over?
HEY!!!! Take a deep breath! relax a little. I know what he said really hurt, and it is something that he maybe should not have said.... but yes, there are different levels of love. Let's look at some examples of love in a more innocent way.... you can love the following without being in love with it/them.... your best friend, your parents or family, pets, and in this case..... ex-wives. If he has any feeling at all, of course he will still care about them.... afterall, he felt strong enough to get married to them in the first place. However, somewhere along the way, they discovered that it wasn't right. That is why both women are ex's. You are the one he is "IN-LOVE" with now. That's important because we want to separate the two.... love and in-love. When you love something, you care about it more than just liking something. When you are in-love with someone, they are the world to you.
Without writing a whole novel here, I would say that you should tone it down a little... ask him to really think about what he is saying before saying anything about his ex-wives. But don't worry too much about this. Hope this helped.
Reply:If he said he loves his ex-wives leave him. Usually people say they can't stand to see their ex or if they talk about them, nothing is said that's good.
Reply:I'm not sure how I'd feel about this. On one hand it's reassuring to know he still cares for them even though the marriages ended, it's much better than bitterness or residual resentment. I guess it comes down to how secure you feel in the current relationship. He obviously felt secure enough to be able to share his feelings with you, which is a good thing. I wonder if he means he loves the life he had with them whilst married, after all it can't have been all bad. There is definately a difference between loving someone and being in love. You can love someone and not want to be with them, but being in love is that more exciting wanting to be someone to share life and experiences, mixed with lust. I think what is of more concern is his relationship track record and why his two marriages failed. I think he just needs to reassure you that he's accepted those relationships are over and he wouldn't want to try to ressurect either of them, for what it's worth I don't think that's what he meant.
Reply:Your spouse or ex spouse is not a child, and the love you have for a spouse is replaceable. The love of your child IS NOT!!!
The love he has for the ex's has changed from the passionate love to the common love that exists between people that have shared something.
You will however be ex No 3 if you dont curb that jealous streak that you have going on.
Reply:well as an expert i have an ex and my love has 3 of them
yes you are way out of line there will always be love between ex's if it was a mutual break up and they are still friends and there is no animosity between them
i love my ex we had almost 20 yrs together and we have a son together we had some very good times and he will always have a place in my life he is part of me and what makes me me we had life experiences together that has made me who i am right this second.
it sounds like you have not lived as many yrs and have experiences like he has and your age is comming out.
it all comes down to trust and who is he with now
Reply:being IN love and loving someone are two completly different things. For example, I love a lot of people, but I'm not IN love with them, I'm seceretly IN love with the guy I'm dating, but that's a whole other story.
I understand where you're coming from, I can see how you would think that if he says that he "loves" his ex-wives then he would go back to one of them
I dont think that you have anything to worry about, you just need to realise that he's IN love with you, but cares about his ex-wives as he cares about his friends and family.
I think you need to take a deep breath and trust the man.
Good Luck
Reply:It sounds as if he means he loves them as friends. He probably put alot of his heart and soul into the marriages. Because of that, even those negative things can happen to cause him to divorce, it's still hard not to say he loves them. Remember he's 9 years older than you, and has been around the block more than you. It sounds as if this situation may not be good for you because why did he get married both times? What caused their divorces? Those are questions you have to answer. Is he worthy of a third marriage with you? If I were a lady, I wouldn't have a relationship with him. You can be friends, but I'd be skeptical, too. I have a lady friend who is a very good friend of mine. She's been married 3 times. She has a wandering eye. She's very pretty, intelligent, has a good job, two great kids, but she knows we won't even discuss marriage. We're just friends and that's where it lies. Maybe you should think like that. Is it in your best interests to be his 3rd wife?
Reply:This man has two previous marriages, he has shared a part of his life with his ex-wives. He can't change his past, it is a fact.
As for the chapter "love", i think there is a difference between how we love our boyfriend/ husband/ lover, how we love our friends or family. If he says he loves both of his ex-wives you should not worry. You should worry if he said that he loves ONE of his ex-wives.
On the other hand, you should be glad that he shares his thoughts and feelings with you ;) So that you can have a kind of control... Would it be better not knowing anything?! Think of that.
Reply:If he honestly loves you He wont go anywhere....In my opinion you may want to consider asking him what he wants....DO NOT ALLOW THIS MAN TO STRING YOU ALONG! If he can't make a decision based on what you have and what he's ALREADY had...then he's not worth your time
Reply:I smell a rat,sorry, maybe i'm insecure.
Reply:Love comes in many different shapes and sizes... The love for a girlfriend/wife is not the same as the love for a child, friend or animal...
He loves you in a very intimate way... He probably loves his ex-wives as friends...
If you can't get your head round that, then you are very childish and need to tell him you are incapable of getting over your own insecurity...
Reply:personally i would not stand for such as i am such a paranoid freak. U love and u love me. having to compete for the attention of your man with women that you dont even know their characters is so unfair to you. Aks him to explain to you what the difference is.
Otherwise check this website:
www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com
I got a beautiful peace that says" He loves u but he is not in Love with U"
I could send it to you if u keep in touch.
Good luck
Reply:He is bad news, move on. I once knew a guy that married and divorced twice, and had three families. (i.e. the two wives and his then present girlfriend.) He had a nervous breakdown and skipped town on all three. :(
Good Luck !!
Reply:If you have more than one child, do you stop loving child number one when child number two is born? No, you don't divide your love, you multiply it, It grows, Humans have an infinite ability to love, and hate....
Reply:well i have been on the other side meaning i was the wife and lots of times men just like to hold on to the past and the girlfriend so take it slow and don't jump in to quick because he has to be extremely clear what he wants and needs to close the door on his past with the x (but not with his children) because he will bring you down with him i hope he does not love them the same way but wen you look at his past alreary 2x wives hum lot of baggage there and an older man be carefull he seems like he is running the show and always has at least with his girls in french there is a saying jamais 2 sans 3 means he did twice divorce he can do it 3 times ,he should go in for counseling to find out where the probleme is he seems to have a pattern good luck lorie
Reply:he had 2 wives ,so he loved them and still love them,but the meaning is different .lt is not that passion between a man and a woman anymore.You are his passion now and maybe he is trying to make you understand it.He is not lying to you,but telling you his feelings .So,there is no need to be upset about that.Try to understand him.You have a lot to learn...love is love,but there are a lot of ways to love.lt just is life.
Reply:I;m 20 yrs older than my wife---yes i think you may be jumping to conclusions-----there are different ways you can love different people---i love my wife---i love my daughter--i love my pet cat--i love my trucks-------give him a chance----the love he feels for you -i believe--is truely a different love than he has for his exs
Reply:Do you know why the break ups happened?
It's a tricky one you have to be sure you want to take on THIS much baggage. If you can talk to the ex's it could help. I can understand why you would worry but be realistic. Is he always on the phone to them? Always going round more than you'd expect? How long since they split up? Trust your instinct but don't overreact.
Does he still love them the way I think he does? For ages 30 and over?
HEY!!!! Take a deep breath! relax a little. I know what he said really hurt, and it is something that he maybe should not have said.... but yes, there are different levels of love. Let's look at some examples of love in a more innocent way.... you can love the following without being in love with it/them.... your best friend, your parents or family, pets, and in this case..... ex-wives. If he has any feeling at all, of course he will still care about them.... afterall, he felt strong enough to get married to them in the first place. However, somewhere along the way, they discovered that it wasn't right. That is why both women are ex's. You are the one he is "IN-LOVE" with now. That's important because we want to separate the two.... love and in-love. When you love something, you care about it more than just liking something. When you are in-love with someone, they are the world to you.
Without writing a whole novel here, I would say that you should tone it down a little... ask him to really think about what he is saying before saying anything about his ex-wives. But don't worry too much about this. Hope this helped.
Reply:If he said he loves his ex-wives leave him. Usually people say they can't stand to see their ex or if they talk about them, nothing is said that's good.
Reply:I'm not sure how I'd feel about this. On one hand it's reassuring to know he still cares for them even though the marriages ended, it's much better than bitterness or residual resentment. I guess it comes down to how secure you feel in the current relationship. He obviously felt secure enough to be able to share his feelings with you, which is a good thing. I wonder if he means he loves the life he had with them whilst married, after all it can't have been all bad. There is definately a difference between loving someone and being in love. You can love someone and not want to be with them, but being in love is that more exciting wanting to be someone to share life and experiences, mixed with lust. I think what is of more concern is his relationship track record and why his two marriages failed. I think he just needs to reassure you that he's accepted those relationships are over and he wouldn't want to try to ressurect either of them, for what it's worth I don't think that's what he meant.
Reply:Your spouse or ex spouse is not a child, and the love you have for a spouse is replaceable. The love of your child IS NOT!!!
The love he has for the ex's has changed from the passionate love to the common love that exists between people that have shared something.
You will however be ex No 3 if you dont curb that jealous streak that you have going on.
Reply:well as an expert i have an ex and my love has 3 of them
yes you are way out of line there will always be love between ex's if it was a mutual break up and they are still friends and there is no animosity between them
i love my ex we had almost 20 yrs together and we have a son together we had some very good times and he will always have a place in my life he is part of me and what makes me me we had life experiences together that has made me who i am right this second.
it sounds like you have not lived as many yrs and have experiences like he has and your age is comming out.
it all comes down to trust and who is he with now
Reply:being IN love and loving someone are two completly different things. For example, I love a lot of people, but I'm not IN love with them, I'm seceretly IN love with the guy I'm dating, but that's a whole other story.
I understand where you're coming from, I can see how you would think that if he says that he "loves" his ex-wives then he would go back to one of them
I dont think that you have anything to worry about, you just need to realise that he's IN love with you, but cares about his ex-wives as he cares about his friends and family.
I think you need to take a deep breath and trust the man.
Good Luck
Reply:It sounds as if he means he loves them as friends. He probably put alot of his heart and soul into the marriages. Because of that, even those negative things can happen to cause him to divorce, it's still hard not to say he loves them. Remember he's 9 years older than you, and has been around the block more than you. It sounds as if this situation may not be good for you because why did he get married both times? What caused their divorces? Those are questions you have to answer. Is he worthy of a third marriage with you? If I were a lady, I wouldn't have a relationship with him. You can be friends, but I'd be skeptical, too. I have a lady friend who is a very good friend of mine. She's been married 3 times. She has a wandering eye. She's very pretty, intelligent, has a good job, two great kids, but she knows we won't even discuss marriage. We're just friends and that's where it lies. Maybe you should think like that. Is it in your best interests to be his 3rd wife?
Reply:This man has two previous marriages, he has shared a part of his life with his ex-wives. He can't change his past, it is a fact.
As for the chapter "love", i think there is a difference between how we love our boyfriend/ husband/ lover, how we love our friends or family. If he says he loves both of his ex-wives you should not worry. You should worry if he said that he loves ONE of his ex-wives.
On the other hand, you should be glad that he shares his thoughts and feelings with you ;) So that you can have a kind of control... Would it be better not knowing anything?! Think of that.
Reply:If he honestly loves you He wont go anywhere....In my opinion you may want to consider asking him what he wants....DO NOT ALLOW THIS MAN TO STRING YOU ALONG! If he can't make a decision based on what you have and what he's ALREADY had...then he's not worth your time
Reply:I smell a rat,sorry, maybe i'm insecure.
Reply:Love comes in many different shapes and sizes... The love for a girlfriend/wife is not the same as the love for a child, friend or animal...
He loves you in a very intimate way... He probably loves his ex-wives as friends...
If you can't get your head round that, then you are very childish and need to tell him you are incapable of getting over your own insecurity...
Reply:personally i would not stand for such as i am such a paranoid freak. U love and u love me. having to compete for the attention of your man with women that you dont even know their characters is so unfair to you. Aks him to explain to you what the difference is.
Otherwise check this website:
www.CatchHimAndKeepHim.com
I got a beautiful peace that says" He loves u but he is not in Love with U"
I could send it to you if u keep in touch.
Good luck
Reply:He is bad news, move on. I once knew a guy that married and divorced twice, and had three families. (i.e. the two wives and his then present girlfriend.) He had a nervous breakdown and skipped town on all three. :(
Good Luck !!
Reply:If you have more than one child, do you stop loving child number one when child number two is born? No, you don't divide your love, you multiply it, It grows, Humans have an infinite ability to love, and hate....
Reply:well i have been on the other side meaning i was the wife and lots of times men just like to hold on to the past and the girlfriend so take it slow and don't jump in to quick because he has to be extremely clear what he wants and needs to close the door on his past with the x (but not with his children) because he will bring you down with him i hope he does not love them the same way but wen you look at his past alreary 2x wives hum lot of baggage there and an older man be carefull he seems like he is running the show and always has at least with his girls in french there is a saying jamais 2 sans 3 means he did twice divorce he can do it 3 times ,he should go in for counseling to find out where the probleme is he seems to have a pattern good luck lorie
Reply:he had 2 wives ,so he loved them and still love them,but the meaning is different .lt is not that passion between a man and a woman anymore.You are his passion now and maybe he is trying to make you understand it.He is not lying to you,but telling you his feelings .So,there is no need to be upset about that.Try to understand him.You have a lot to learn...love is love,but there are a lot of ways to love.lt just is life.
Reply:I;m 20 yrs older than my wife---yes i think you may be jumping to conclusions-----there are different ways you can love different people---i love my wife---i love my daughter--i love my pet cat--i love my trucks-------give him a chance----the love he feels for you -i believe--is truely a different love than he has for his exs
Reply:Do you know why the break ups happened?
It's a tricky one you have to be sure you want to take on THIS much baggage. If you can talk to the ex's it could help. I can understand why you would worry but be realistic. Is he always on the phone to them? Always going round more than you'd expect? How long since they split up? Trust your instinct but don't overreact.
Does love last, and yes how do i tell if it is that kind of love?
Guess i just realized, im afraid to be with people who love me, cause im afraid theyr love may disppear in any second, whitout no reason whatsoever. This is because as a child i heard a lot from a person that love is not everlastying, and if a person tells another that ill love u forever, thats a ly, cuse love may end at any moment. It always seemed stupid to me, but somehow i fear this might happen, cause i cant find a reason for it not to happen. So what im asking for, is that reason that makes love last.... If u know it, pls answer this question. If u want to ironize or mock me, pls dont answer.
Does love last, and yes how do i tell if it is that kind of love?
This is a great question and no it's not silly, I totally feel the same way. Like all of a sudden love will end. I know my love for someone wont end however I always feel that theirs will. There's only one way to get through it and that is like the person said above me; Take a chance. I finally after a really long decided to open myself up to it and it will be 2 years in November and still seems to be going strong. I still think to myself everyday when he'll stop loving me but I know I can't think like that because I need to cherish the love we have now and not dwell on what might happen tomorrow because your only live your life half full and not to the fullest.
Good luck and remember take the chance and also know true love never ends... you may realize later that the relationship didn't work because you and your partner were not able to put more into it than just that "the LOVE" Sometime love is not all you need and thats the stuff that can end all of a sudden but its not the love. Because even if you seperate your still gonna love them and their still gonna love you too.
Reply:Love?
Everlasting?
When you meet the right person at first there is a connection.
Then you need to learn to give, take, compromise .....
This is a lot of work. Love is something that takes years to build. Respect, family, holidays .,....... It can happen
Find the person you can connect with and make it work, and make a future!
Good Luck!
Reply:The only way to find true love is to know and love yourself. If you don't truly love yourself, you'll spend all your life trying to fit into someone elses mold of what love is. That kind of love will never be right for you because it's coming from them. True love, the kind that never ends, must always begin in your own heart. Love that starts there is never wrong and therefore never ends
This is not to say that the people you decide to love will always be there. But the love you have for those people will always continue. I know it sounds selfish for me to say you must love yourself first and best. It's not. If you try it any other way, you're ripping off those people,but, more importantly, you're ripping yourself off. You'll be denying yourself the most beautiful of Gods gifts.
Reply:Yes it does, I didnt fall in love with my husband (boyfriend at the time) until 6 months after we were dating so we've been in love for almost 6 years now. You never stop loving them if its true love, you would jump out infront of a car and risk your life for them, you look at them and think they are the most incredible thing on the planet and would do anything as long as she is happy..love it not selfish.
Reply:Love takes effort to make it last. You only get out of something what you put into it.
The rewards outweigh the risks when it comes to love. Take a chance. You might get burned, but you might not either.
Reply:Hi Julia,
How are you doing today?
Love is one of the most confusing and wonderful parts of life.
But take heart, do not live in the fear that all the people who love you will at some point of time abandon you.
Love can never disappear, and you need to learn how relationships are built and nurtured over time, because nothing can happen overnight.
Who is this person you have mentioned , who told you that love is not everlasting...was it your friend? Anyway who ever it was , has portrayed a hazy picture to you about love.
Let us put it this way,
There sure is no guarantee in life, but the way we live it, the maturity we show in overcoming obstacles through its course and our honest thoughts go a long way in defining the kind of life we will live.
I read somewhere that
"People who are insecure for whatever reason will either subconsciously or consciously overcompensate in another way. They act as if they are greater than they are, for example, more intelligent or more broad-minded. It should not be necessary for them to appear different from who they really are, but nevertheless, they cannot help it. Any person who experiences insecurity usually offsets it in some way; perhaps he will not seem to tire as fast as others, may appear more serious, or not laugh or relate as much as others. But when a person does not seem open, others usually detect such behavior as arrogance or pride. In reality, it may be a mask for insecurity."
So Julia, know that this kind of feeling within you is not healthy in any way.
Coming to the second part of your question as to what actually makes love last,
*For one, the reason you love someone goes a long way in deciding its validity. Do not get into a relationship just for the sake of it, or for the wrong reasons altogether.
*Basic values like transparency, kindness, care and being true understanding goes a long way in building a lasting relationship
*One of the most important thing you need to realize is that, life is not a bed of roses. In an unpretentious relationship you will come across a lot of instances ,situations that can be very demanding, it can test your patience to its limit. These are the times which could leave an indelible imprint in both your lives, because one day you look back, these will be the first things that crop up , and if have handled them with grace aeons ago, you will be strengthened by the very realization of it.
Above all believe that As long as God is in Heaven , all goes right on Earth.
Knowing you are loved gives you insurance. But insecurity can seep in once you believe nobody loves you. You may feel that you are misunderstood. You might think that you do not live up to the standard or that you are inferior-so many unfounded fears can float through your mind. But in reality, it is not so. These fabrications which your mind creates unceasingly are enough to make you doubt and this gives way to the chill of fear that pervades throughout your entire body. But if you chip away the wall of fear that surrounds your heart, the heart of God will melt away with His love the lock that keeps it prisoner. When you allow God to dwell within you, your fears should disappear.
I hope this helped.
Take care.
Reply:Does your heart race when you are near this person. Do your palms sweat and you feel like you are floating when you are around him or her?
This won't last.
Is this person's bad side tolerable to you? Do you have no desire to try to change this person? Do you have a similar or complimentary outlook on life?
This kind of love should last.
However, there are no guarantees. Living requires taking risks. Many people who live in California are afraid of earthquakes, but that doesn't prevent over population in the state.
Quoting my favorite line in the movie Moonstuck, "Get over it!"
Does love last, and yes how do i tell if it is that kind of love?
This is a great question and no it's not silly, I totally feel the same way. Like all of a sudden love will end. I know my love for someone wont end however I always feel that theirs will. There's only one way to get through it and that is like the person said above me; Take a chance. I finally after a really long decided to open myself up to it and it will be 2 years in November and still seems to be going strong. I still think to myself everyday when he'll stop loving me but I know I can't think like that because I need to cherish the love we have now and not dwell on what might happen tomorrow because your only live your life half full and not to the fullest.
Good luck and remember take the chance and also know true love never ends... you may realize later that the relationship didn't work because you and your partner were not able to put more into it than just that "the LOVE" Sometime love is not all you need and thats the stuff that can end all of a sudden but its not the love. Because even if you seperate your still gonna love them and their still gonna love you too.
Reply:Love?
Everlasting?
When you meet the right person at first there is a connection.
Then you need to learn to give, take, compromise .....
This is a lot of work. Love is something that takes years to build. Respect, family, holidays .,....... It can happen
Find the person you can connect with and make it work, and make a future!
Good Luck!
Reply:The only way to find true love is to know and love yourself. If you don't truly love yourself, you'll spend all your life trying to fit into someone elses mold of what love is. That kind of love will never be right for you because it's coming from them. True love, the kind that never ends, must always begin in your own heart. Love that starts there is never wrong and therefore never ends
This is not to say that the people you decide to love will always be there. But the love you have for those people will always continue. I know it sounds selfish for me to say you must love yourself first and best. It's not. If you try it any other way, you're ripping off those people,but, more importantly, you're ripping yourself off. You'll be denying yourself the most beautiful of Gods gifts.
Reply:Yes it does, I didnt fall in love with my husband (boyfriend at the time) until 6 months after we were dating so we've been in love for almost 6 years now. You never stop loving them if its true love, you would jump out infront of a car and risk your life for them, you look at them and think they are the most incredible thing on the planet and would do anything as long as she is happy..love it not selfish.
Reply:Love takes effort to make it last. You only get out of something what you put into it.
The rewards outweigh the risks when it comes to love. Take a chance. You might get burned, but you might not either.
Reply:Hi Julia,
How are you doing today?
Love is one of the most confusing and wonderful parts of life.
But take heart, do not live in the fear that all the people who love you will at some point of time abandon you.
Love can never disappear, and you need to learn how relationships are built and nurtured over time, because nothing can happen overnight.
Who is this person you have mentioned , who told you that love is not everlasting...was it your friend? Anyway who ever it was , has portrayed a hazy picture to you about love.
Let us put it this way,
There sure is no guarantee in life, but the way we live it, the maturity we show in overcoming obstacles through its course and our honest thoughts go a long way in defining the kind of life we will live.
I read somewhere that
"People who are insecure for whatever reason will either subconsciously or consciously overcompensate in another way. They act as if they are greater than they are, for example, more intelligent or more broad-minded. It should not be necessary for them to appear different from who they really are, but nevertheless, they cannot help it. Any person who experiences insecurity usually offsets it in some way; perhaps he will not seem to tire as fast as others, may appear more serious, or not laugh or relate as much as others. But when a person does not seem open, others usually detect such behavior as arrogance or pride. In reality, it may be a mask for insecurity."
So Julia, know that this kind of feeling within you is not healthy in any way.
Coming to the second part of your question as to what actually makes love last,
*For one, the reason you love someone goes a long way in deciding its validity. Do not get into a relationship just for the sake of it, or for the wrong reasons altogether.
*Basic values like transparency, kindness, care and being true understanding goes a long way in building a lasting relationship
*One of the most important thing you need to realize is that, life is not a bed of roses. In an unpretentious relationship you will come across a lot of instances ,situations that can be very demanding, it can test your patience to its limit. These are the times which could leave an indelible imprint in both your lives, because one day you look back, these will be the first things that crop up , and if have handled them with grace aeons ago, you will be strengthened by the very realization of it.
Above all believe that As long as God is in Heaven , all goes right on Earth.
Knowing you are loved gives you insurance. But insecurity can seep in once you believe nobody loves you. You may feel that you are misunderstood. You might think that you do not live up to the standard or that you are inferior-so many unfounded fears can float through your mind. But in reality, it is not so. These fabrications which your mind creates unceasingly are enough to make you doubt and this gives way to the chill of fear that pervades throughout your entire body. But if you chip away the wall of fear that surrounds your heart, the heart of God will melt away with His love the lock that keeps it prisoner. When you allow God to dwell within you, your fears should disappear.
I hope this helped.
Take care.
Reply:Does your heart race when you are near this person. Do your palms sweat and you feel like you are floating when you are around him or her?
This won't last.
Is this person's bad side tolerable to you? Do you have no desire to try to change this person? Do you have a similar or complimentary outlook on life?
This kind of love should last.
However, there are no guarantees. Living requires taking risks. Many people who live in California are afraid of earthquakes, but that doesn't prevent over population in the state.
Quoting my favorite line in the movie Moonstuck, "Get over it!"
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