Love triangle?

Here's the deal: My best friend [male/K] for 6 years has stood by my side through thick and thin, loved me at my worst and respected me at my best. He has been in love with me since he met me. Never talked bad about a boyfriend, never jealous or angry. Continually stood next to me, offered me a hand and told me no matter what he'd be by my side loving me. Through a recent bad trauma, I almost lost him. I realized how much he mean't to be and that the love I feel for him is the real deal, I think he's the one. No. I know he is. However, shortly after realizing this, I met his ex girlfriend who is deathly in love with him still. We became close, extremely fast. She knows things about me, only K does. She is truely my best female friend, and the best a girl can ask for. It would kill her, and obviously our friendship if I went with K, but it will kill K if I step away from him for her. Horrible love triangle-what do I do? I can't choose who mean's the most to me, its hurts too much.

Love triangle?
Well, I would say hoes before bros but, in this case, Weigh it out. Its really hard being with an ex gf as your best friend. Think this way, if you know hes the one, then what are you stressing about? Hes gonna be the one you want forever, not your friend, Hes the one youll spend your life with, hes the one who will kiss you and hug you. Honestly the answer is clear, its Him choose him, You can talk to him about everything as much as you can talk to her about you. But Yes true we all need our "girl friends" that just means find another. Or if she is close to you as she says shell understand and if she doesnt then, she wasnt as good as you thought. Hope this helped
Reply:Personally, that girl had her chance with "K" and it didn't work out. I say it is your turn. If it doesn't work out she can try for "K" again. I bet you that "K" has loved you longer and he probably wants to be with you. Ask "K" how he would feel if you two went out and your friend remained a friend. Talk to your friend about how she would feel if you and "K" went out. Talk to both of them together. If neither of them like the idea then don't do anything. Best of luck!
Reply:this is very hard situation, i was in a similar triangle....i became best friends with this girl very soon after meeting her, then i met her guy friend, and i started to fall for him, but later she tells me that she has liked him forever. then he tells me that he has feelings for me, not my friend. so i didnt know if i should go for him, or let him go bc my friend liked him first, i thought that the best idea was to go the classical way--chicks before *****. i let the guy go, telling him i couldnt hurt my friend, but then she moved away and me ad that guy went out....
Reply:if they both love you as much as they say. they will understand you have to do what makes you happy. it may hurt at 1st but they will get over it. Good luck love.
Reply:well i suggest that you should think about it. you'll find out what you think is best for you.
Reply:Lol this reminds me of the X-Men! You can do what the girl did on that and just not date the big hairy one, and instead pick the one that shoots red stuff out of his eyes.





Plus you have keep in mind that the hairy one has blades on his hands and that could hurt if you two start to get physical.