Question About Love?

I was just curious about everyone's opinion on what love is, how people act when they are in love, and how many people out there feel that they are in a truly loving relationship.





Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.





What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?





You get to talk about yourself in this one!

Question About Love?
I think u are exactly right....love is doing things for ur partner before yourself and never letting anything split u up.......I love my boyfriend and we have been through a lot of sh*t! Like one time I thought I was pregnant with my exs baby......the guy I'm with now chose to stay with me and said he'd be there for me and my baby.(luckly it was a false alarm).....and my parents recently tried to split us up and we said no that we would find a way to be together.....there's a lot more but I don't feel like typing it
Reply:Beleive me on this one, love is not a decision. I promise that to you. How do I know this? Well because I have dated women before that on paper are perfect and sound perfect and everything. They also liked me a lot and told me they liked me a lot, so when I wasn't falling in love with them I was wondering why? I tried to fall in love with them, I decided I wanted to fall in love with them, but at the end of the day, I just couldn't. The best way to describe it was they had X, Y but no Z....love is X, Y and Z....The X is everything is perfect on paper, the Y is you two click and connect well, the Z is something you CAN'T decide and it is called a deep down feeling. The other best way to describe it is you have soulmates, a lot of soulmates, but only one true soulmate who you agreed to be together with for a long time. Some understand that as well...hope this helps, best of luck!
Reply:I Think Love Is More Than A Felling. Or A Decision You Cant Choose The Person You Truly fall In Love With. It Just Happens I Think Thats Why You Always See One Person Inlove With A person More Then The Other. Love Is The Most Special Thing In Life.
Reply:You have some great ideas. Love is the act of.
Reply:well i agree that would be if i believed in love i just think its a bunch of ****
Reply:it just happens natural


a natural feeling i guess





i mean it depends no??
Reply:Love is hard to define what may mean love to you may not be love to some body there is what people call,text book love that is love that we usually see in movies and novels ,but when it come to the real issues of life u may found this things cant be trusted because what I may feel or think about you you might not be feeling the same way for me .I believe love is about sharing and faith and trust .even though the bible ask us not to trust man ,I think we some time have to.
Reply:In my opinion, LOVE is classified into number of Divisions.


They are





1. A LOVE between Parents towards their Children:


This type of LOVE can be found in each and every parent.


They give what ever their child asked.


And finally, this LOVE remains till their Death.





2. A LOVE between Two Friends :


This type of LOVe can be found when YOU are in school, college, office etc..... One help other in many ways. It cannot be expressed in terms of words.


Few examples are:


i) one express his happiness or sadness to other....


ii) one asks help only when he is DEAREST and Nearest one...





3. A LOVE between a BOY and a GIRL:


This type LOVE can be mostly found when you are in teenage.


This is a toughest one which I doesn't wanna talk......
Reply:I guess I don't know what love really is since I have 30 ex-girlfriends, 6 ex-fiances, and 1 ex-wife. I think I'm better off being single!!!