Do you want love like this?

I Want Love.


I want it to be inconvenient; I want to sacrifice my life for it. I want the kind of love that hurts, love that I have to work for. I want love that tests me.


I want the love that is hard to find, and hard to keep and never easy. I want the love where you get hurt and the love that makes me cry. I want to hold on no matter what happens. But most of all, I want the love that's worth it.





i found this on my friend's page.


is it something a love should be?

Do you want love like this?
Love sucks when you worry and cry all the time. Trust me, I go through it alot. However, if everything goes right, all that worrying and crying was all worth it, and you end up with the true love you were looking for. Of course love hurts. It's inevitable that you're going to get into fights in relationships and mixed feelings, but if it's true love, it's all worth it.
Reply:Wouldn't you rather have a puppy instead?
Reply:well i think that some of it is worth it and the other things come with love no matter what they come with life no matter what anyone does i think this is a little wierd to say that you want it and stuff but i guess everyone has their own want
Reply:I suppose what she is saying is a real love but I have only ended up on the hurt and crying end of it so I am divorced single and living with cats! Hey they never make me cry!!!!
Reply:NO!


Love should not hurt and make you cry that is an abusive relationship.


I've been in one and I can tell you I am not in it anymore because I'm sick of lies, crying, and that other bull. A real love is compromise and understanding and patience, and trust. Without that you got nothing.
Reply:Yes love is like that. It almost always happens when you least expect it and you have to work hard to keep it. You can't just chose any random person and decide it's love. When these feelings happen with you, then you know it's true love.
Reply:yup, thats the one everyone wants!
Reply:Most sounds like really bad lyrics to a really bad 80's heavy metal band's one-hit ballad.


Why would anyone think love should hurt? Why would anyone want to struggle all the time or get hurt or cry? And what's with the "no matter what happens"? That sounds rather pathetic. So if your love beats the crap out of you, hurts you, makes you cry, cheats and lies, you say "no matter what"?? is that worth it?


My opinion of love is this:


“Love is patient; love is kind


and envies no one.


Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;


never selfish, not quick to take offense.


There is nothing love cannot face;


there is no limit to its faith,


its hope, and endurance.


In a word, there are three things


that last forever: faith, hope, and love;


but the greatest of them all is love.”
Reply:No, love is gentle and caring, not neurotic and demanding. I was loved once, and loved deeply, I'll never forget it, I'll never replace it, or get over it. I didn't understand what I had.





Adult Love is joy, and caring, FEELING LOVED!


No doubts, maybe some fears from the past, but overall two humans that meet and bring out the best in each other, NOT the worst. I would give almost anything to have my love back again.
Reply:Sounds like the movies. Love on the big screen and love in real life are different. Of course they will have huge obstacles to go by, but thats deliberate.
Reply:You make love too complicated; it really isnt that big of a deal.
Reply:Well honestly that is how love should be!! I know cuz I had it and I screwed up and lost it!! And now I would do nething to get it back!! If u feel so deeply about someone and u know if u lost them ur whole world would change so much and u would cry everyday then u have found love in the greatest form!! Dont let it go! No matter wutt! Hold tight and all the bad will come to nuttin compared to all the good!
Reply:That's pretty much what love is. All the hype about the "perfect relationship" is for the birds... Love is patient not easy. Nice quote!
Reply:duh...
Reply:Love is many things, and a lie....


"it is not good for man to be alone."


made as social creatures we all seem to long for a mate, its different for everyone, i found this poem a while back.... it has a lot of distinct features in it that love seems to be to me. anyways, you cannot explain what isn't real.. but luckily emotions are... you can fall in love with anyone, but its just as easy to fall out of love.. its something you have to work at, its compromise





I try so hard to tell you


But how can I make you see?


You are my one and only


You have fulfilled my every dream


My words seem to always be too distant


They cannot be as strong as I feel


The love I feel is so true


I sometimes question, ’Can it be real?’





My heart was empty before I met you


My life was not really there


Nothing mattered to me


I never really cared





But I met you my angel


And you gave me a new life


You took everything that was wrong


And then you made everything all right





I thank God every night for you


He has answered my every prayer


If ever I doubt a miracle


All I have to do is look


And you are there





I know ’I Love You,’ is all I can say


Is it enough though, to make you believe?


That you give me everything I need to live


You are the air that I breathe





Our future is all I think of


Holding each other so close


Being with you only, forever


The one to me who means the most





My dreams consist of only you


So sweet I do not want to awake


Images of me and you together


In a far away Tenn





I know only that I need you


Forever your Angel I will be


Our lives spent only loving each other


Heaven our home for eternity
Reply:Let's you and me find out.
Reply:that and so much more!!
Reply:Its an incomplete picture. Its got some parts of true love, but not all of them, or even most of them. It really speaks to the laziness of mainstream american culture when it comes to relationship, and being willing to give when it hurts, but although thats essential thats neither the majority nor the totality of love.
Reply:call me...
Reply:yes. that's when you know that its true love.
Reply:i went thru that kind of love and he didn't want to commit
Reply:You want to sacrifice your life for love? How sad is that?