He says he loves me, and i believe him, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?

im 15, kevin is 16. hes a TOTAL player. hes also amazingly drop dead gorgeous.


he said this:


i love you so much that the word love has become in love with its self. i think you are the most beautifulest girl in the world and if any guy cant except that then they dont no the meaning of love. when i look at you my heart goes crazy and if any other guy does not feel the same then they are real messed up in the head. i will never stop loving what i see in your eyes.


i love you so much that me hearing about other guys makes my heart ake but i no when you want a real man you will come running to me.





were not together, but i love him. i cant get enough of this guy!


everytime i start forgetting him and getting ineterested in some new guy i see him and all my new feelings erase!


after comparing him 2 every guy ive ever met or been with, theres no comparison.


if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me? and its NOT because hes busy or cant do it.

He says he loves me, and i believe him, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?
there absolutely no question about it, you and he, are in love with the same guy !!!! Not only are you being a total "sucker" but make sure there's no target or kick me sign on your back!


Not only does his poetic manner stink, but it makes no sense, but i'm not surprised, with an ego that size, where could there be room to retain any knowledge.


Can't you tell, he's giving you lines and that your only one of many girls, he's saying the same lines too? He can't contact you because he's busy with other's and your not #1. He's jerking the strings he knows he has you on. That why he shows up now and then when it suits him.


We're the ones who see through this guy, so why are you telling us "its Not because he's busy or can't do it". Your asking us for answers that you already know! If his actions, don't match his behaviour, then it doesn't matter who he is, or how good looking he is, your being played like a cheap guitar. Is it worth the looks, to be treated like some idiot. Get rid of him. Find yourself a real man.
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Reply:something is wrong here,i,m not sure what.i don,t believe he loves anyone.sounds like a line to me,lots of lines really.he would contact you if it was true.
Reply:It doesn't sound like you love him. It seems as though you "love" him only on a superficial level, that you "love" only his body.





It also doesn't sound like he loves you. You said yourself that he's a player, so why would you believe when he tells you that you're the one he wants? If he wanted to be with you, he'd BE with you.





"Love" is a two-way street; why does HE have to make the first move? You said "if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me," the same goes for you. If you love him so much and find him so irresistable, then why haven't you made an effort to form a relationship with him?





What exactly DO you love about him, besides his "drop dead gorgeous" body?
Reply:dude you keep bringing up the looks. enough already! he might be good looking and saying all these nice things, but wouldn't you think if he was so in love that he could not wait to be around you and call you and meet with you. he says one thing and does another, i'd be careful if i were you
Reply:first off, if you have never dated him or are not with him now then you dont love him. You simply think you do. I have been dating my fiance for over 2 years and i didnt know i loved her for a while. I didnt even kiss her for two months after we started dating. So i know you cant love him. If hes a player like you say then he will probably play you. Players dont change for anyone. You will know that you love somebody after you have dated them for OVER 6 months at least, had those moments that you will never forget, had that dinner that made you BOTH cry. THAT is when you love somebody! so if he is who you say he is then be very careful! I have seen many people get thier hearts broken cause they say they love somebody only to get shitted in the long run.