Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me

Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me? I've had bad relationships before, i've always been dumped, and all those times I was really in love, or so I thought, and I just got used up, my last ex did the same to me, I cried for her, and I swore I would never cry for someone else. I've me this perfect girl, and I was really in love with her, it's really strange, I barely felt that butterfly feeling for her, now when I say "love you" to her, I mean it, but I feel empty, is it just me? When I start kissing her, I kiss her like no tomorrow and after I feel much closer to her, really love her, but when I'm not with her, like right now, I doubt myself, did my heart just become cold hearted, did I love so much that now my heart doesn't really love like before? I mean I'm truly faithful to her, I have no eyes for another, but what is the deal with me?? plz, help!! Sometime I love her alot, It feels bad!!?? :-(

Why is love so complicated? I'm with the perfect girl, but what I feel is entirely different, can you help me
Does your girl give you a beer bath? If no, she ain't perfect!
Reply:I wonder why as well.. i started with this guy and it was really sweet. But when i am not with him i am like a single person and enjoy as much..





I assume this is a form of independency reaction. U know urself that u really love her and i am sure that u are mature enough.. no need to tell everything and anything. Just use the heart to love and cherish her with u are with him





Good luck
Reply:i think its the response you have to being hurt all those times
Reply:Dear Josue_1987:





Try NOT to over-analyze it!


(That's in the "girly-girl" job description!)





Here's the deal.





Our brains are NOT fully developed


until we reach the age of 25 yrs. + !!


(This is a PROVEN Neurological FACT!)


Usually, We lack the capacity for proper


decision making skills until then.





LOVE? Most have NO CLUE what


this powerful word really means!


Most continually "RAPE" the Divinity


of this word! It's gotta be the most


ABUSED word in our language!





What is it to immature little boys %26amp;


girls? Lust %26amp; mere Infatuation!





Our Emotions are NOT firmly established


until After we gain MUCHO Experience.


Time affords us the opportunity to


become the best person we can be.


(%26amp; to THINK Properly!)





"Work" on yourself *Josue_1987!


Get to REALLY KNOW *YOU!





Procure a higher Ed. Degree~


%26amp; have a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!


This will sustain a profitable life 4 U!


Date MANY %26amp; Gain More Experience!





LOVE %26amp; Women will FIND YOU!


(%26amp; you will NOT be CRYING~ either, bro!)





Good Luck!


Happy Trails!