Love or be loved?

Recently called off a 6 yr relationship with my "TRINITY".Reason being she wanting to experience "thing" and me being her 1st boyfriend,before we commit to marriage.Is it a good thing 2 let her go and find wat she needed and was lacking?Should we remain friends?Should i stay away? We both met new people. and we both r sort of in a relationship currently.We still love each other.and talk of getting back together some day and settling down and getting married.Yet she nt ready to commit.nt right now though. Does time apart heel a relationship?Im getting everything I ever wanted out of a relationship, with my new girlfriend. She is an amazing person,bt im still in love with my ex.Is it wrong to love two people at the same time.Should i go all the way with this new love. Or should i be patient and wait for my true love to come back to me?

Love or be loved?
who makes you happier? who completes you more? then choose that girl.
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Reply:well just like me..i have new bf but i still love my x-bf untill now for we haven't any break up though just that he wasnt talk to me for couple months coz he is bussy with his surgery, so i dicided to go and look for other guy for me not to be bored in life but i still love him and if he come back to me then im not sure if still stick with my new, although its quite unfair but i know in my heart that i will be more happy if im going to choose my true love. So its a matter of fighting the challenges in life.... Chooose whom you are be more happy. Goodluck for the two of us.
Reply:i think u should choose one.


The one you love most, the one who love you, the one that you think is your true love, the one that keep assuring you that she is ready to be with you forever.





But the most important is choose one.





one thing is...6 years is very long time to spend together.. just review it, did u feel happiness? can you leave and forgot trinity and love your new girfriend? or you just think that your second girlfriend is like Trinity..
Reply:Ask yourself who do you like more?You say you like the new lady in your life.Well give her the benefit of the doubt.You gust have to learn to let go.I understand it is going to be hard but learn to love.
Reply:You are being unfair to current GF, make up your mind so she doesnt get hurt....
Reply:thats a bit fuc ked up....u should not have entered a new relationship while being in love with ur previous..i say if she aint with u now...and shes happy with her current bf..u havent got a hope in hell of getting her back
Reply:She is not too true or she would not have left you!
Reply:Wow, man thats pretty complicated there. Although its hard to judge from outside the relationship, I would have to say go with the new girlfriend. Your feelings for your ex could just be related to the large portion of time you have spent with her. Its natural to care for someone you have known that long. I think that you have a more unbiased opinion on your new girlfriend and because you have been dating for a shorter period of time and because you seem to be happy with her then perhaps it is the right thing to do to stay with her.
Reply:i think she is weird. just to experience the "things" as a reason of break up.ask her if she is willing to let go this 6 yr relationship... if she say yes then let her go and if she say no then i think you can choose her.

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