Falling in "Love?" Do you fall in love?

I been dating this girl for about 1 year and 5motnhs. Its been going very slowly btw =/ Anway i really like her, cant stop thinking of her, but i choose not to fall in love with her. Cuz





If we break up or split apart:


* I dont want to feel being heart broken


* Being depress


* Feeling like half of you is torn apart =/


* This one person that is so special in your life is now gone..?





So, no matter how many times i think of her, i choose not to fall in love with her. Cuz once i fall in love am afraid that it might end! Oh she tells me that she loves me? Only in Mail, n Text. I say it too just cuz she says it?!?! But i could love her but i...cant =/





Anway, do you guys fall in love with someone? If you did and it didnt work how did you delt with it. Are you the kind of person that just basically falls in love with every person you meet?

Falling in "Love?" Do you fall in love?
well if you have those feeling for each other you shuldnt worry about if you brake up or something. You can never choose not to fall in love with someone if the feeling is there then its there. Cherish your moments with her and don't think is not going to work out. Because if you think that way then there might be something thats making you think this way. Fallow your heart...not your head. Yea we do..no..you can not fall in love with every person you meet thats just stupid.. you can only like people you meet.
Reply:its quite easy tell your gf how you feel about the situation becuase maybe she has the same problem you never know and anways love is another experience that you can learn from i say take the chance you never know what could happen you might marry her and yet yall might split up but from everything you do you learn remeber that
Reply:You can't decide the time and when to fall in love with someone, it just happens. And it seems like you are in love with him, but you are afraid to say it or admit because you don't want to get hurt. There's a gap between you two and if you guys can't get past the fact that you guys both love each other, then it will not last. Have a talk with her...
Reply:Well...I think that love is something you can not control. If you love someone ...you just do. It's not a choice. TRUE...You may have your guard up..have you been hurt in the past? Maybe you have to heal the past before you move on. What ever it is, If it's really love I THINK you will know and not have to guess about it. Maybe you REALLY do like this girl. She is so cool and funny and all of that, you already feel like you don't wanna loose her (not necessarily as a lover, but as a companion) take a few days to be with your self. go for a hike or whatever it is you like to do. meditate on it...If after a few days you don't feel "in love" don't force it. when ever love strikes you DONT RUN. Love is something that always has to be WORKED at to work. You don't just fall in love and live happily ever after. Sometimes you will fight. sometimes you will struggle. SOMETIMES you may even HATE each other. It is consistent work. Ask couples who have been married 25+ years... They will all tell you. Good Luck and I hope you find your hearts desire no matter what. Put your guard down. we all have had broken hearts and life will go on!!!
Reply:I cant say I'm a love expert but I do know that love is unexpected and it happens wither you want it to or not, thats the beauty of it!! U say ur afraid to fall in love cuz u dont want to be heartbroken everyone I think is afraid of that but sometimes we have to take the chance and go for it I mean we have only one life to live do u want to live it afraid to take a chance? anyway I'm not a person to fall in love easily, but there used to be this guy I liked very much and I thought he liked me back (mixed signals) we used to talk and we were pretty good friends than I moved away and I tried to keep in contact but he wouldnt return my emails and it broke me really! at first I was mad than it slowly turned to sadness and than I found out he had a GF which made it worse but I eventually got through it and now I'm in love with a guy who is more than amazing. Moral of the story, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel... hope that helped u in anyway ^_^
Reply:i dont fall in lvoe with every person i meant... but it sounds like you have some major trust issues going on... you put urself in a box so know one can hurt you but oyu end up hurting becuz u didnt let that person in... fall in love it sounds like its about time .... if it ends it ends... and then you deal however you can... you just take it day by day if you do get hurt... but if you guyz have been together this long... mostly likely you will keep going strong and fallen in lvoe will only strengthn it if its not too late.... go on and fall its not too late..
Reply:Take the chance and fall in love with her. If you don't love because you are worried that person will break your heart, then you will most likely never experience love. Love is giving someone your heart, and when you give it to them, they can choose whether or not to break it.





If it's truly worth it, your heart may break a few times, but she'll always fix it up.

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