I love him so much. How can I make it so that he sees only me?

I am almost 15 and now I realize that people are going to say "You're too young to be in love" but I really love him. I've loved him since I saw him. The thing is- I told him how I feel a few months ago and he said he doesn't "want to sacrifice our friendship for a relationship". I get what he means but... I still love him. He's okay with me loving him I think... if I say "I love you" he says okay but like in a nice way. I don't think he likes me or anything. I think it might be because I'm overweight. Not like anorexic or anything- I'm 5'6 and a half and in the 170-200 range. I'm a textbook case- pretty smile, bright blue eyes, and nice dirty blonde hair, but the rest is... well, fat. Is that why? He's 15 and in the same grade as me but at a different school. We keep in touch. I just wish he would say those three words or at least give me a hint as to whether or not he even likes/loves me. I think about him constantly. How can I make it so that he sees only me?

I love him so much. How can I make it so that he sees only me?
Love is a very loaded emotion. Girls feel it way too much, and some guys don't understand that and end up being total jerks about it. if you're in love with him like you say, just be his friend, be there for him, but don't stalk him, and once he sees what a devoted and great friend you are, i bet he comes around. when you're in a loving relationship, its about more than being together. its having a best friend, a partner in crime, a second half, an undeniable connection, and always having someone there, no matter how bad it gets. i know its hard now, and in the end, he may not be 'the one', but if you love him like you say, just be there for him. if its meant to be, he will see it in time.





i hope this helps, and good luck!!
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Reply:i know personally that love sucks just give him time and his love for you will grow even more i promise. and even if you have a little xtra on the sides who cares? love is about personality not looks. Report It

Reply:You can't make people love you, and the more you pursue him and tell him you love him, the faster you'll end up driving him away. In order to attract other people and have a relationship that's healthy and satisfying you need to focus on loving yourself first. You get back what you put out. If you have low self esteem you'll eventually wind up with a guy that treats you like crap. Take all that energy that you're now putting into getting him to love you and focus on how you can improve yourself.


Good luck!

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