Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Is this really love or just young love?

im 16 ive been with my bf for 3 months but ive known him longer, i reallly do love him more than anything else in the world, apart from family who i love equal..but in different ways obv. hes supported me through a pregnancy and also loosing the baby very early and he worries about me so much. i miss him when im not with him and hes the first and last thing i think about when i go to sleep.





i know this is the same with him, he is truely in love with me, its amazing and really good, we talk about our future and having our own children and everything, i just want to know, as every person over the age of 25 so sinicle "young love..itll never last" is this true, right now i love him so much i could spend the rest of my life with him and i know ill be happy. i wasnt physical attraction to start with that drew me to him atall! so thats not it.


i love him with all my heart and he treats me well. is this love, that just changes over time to a differnent form love or am i just a stupid girl

Is this really love or just young love?
Three months is WAY too short of a time period to determine if you love somebody. The only way to really know you love somebody is the test of time. You need to wait and see if you still feel the same way about this person in a year, year and a half. The first three months are supposed to be good. People who are saying your relationship is young love are not saying you don't love him, but when you're only three months into the relationship you are sort of "blinded" so to say to the other person's flaws. When you see somebody's flaws and you love them anyway...THAT's love.
Reply:I met my husband when I was 13, we had our on and off again phase until 18 and then split for two years but we've been back together since 20 and I am 26 now. we are happily married with three beautiful children, so yes we got teased about the whole puppy love thing but we had the last laugh. The love changes and matures over the years but puppy love grown love I think has only minor differences. The biggest difference is when you are young and there are no bills, kids, etc. we seemed more infatuated with each other and there was no breathing room but as we've got older we've learned to give each other space. We had a tough road but love prevails.
Reply:3 months is NOT long enough for true love. Love is more than a feeling. Nothing wrong with young love, but its not the same. Give it time. If the flame is still there after a year, yep, true love.
Reply:That is really cute and im sure you both truly love each other but it doesnt necessarily mean you will always feel that way. Because people change and want different things as they get older so my advice would be just enjoy what you have with him but dont go makin babies or commitments you cant break just yet! If its meant to be and your with him forever then you have HEAPS of time to do all that, but for now just love each other and enjoy being young and having fun
Reply:i really do believe in true love and things like that!


but 3 months are too early to choose if this is forever or not. keep goin. it's nice you're so happy.


but see what's up in 2 years :]


i wish u all the best from the bottom of my heart.
Reply:Anything is possible. It doesn't usually happen though. If you really love each other then I hope you stay together though so good luck. You should know in a couple years if it's going to last or not.


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