Love or guilt?

My boyfriend loves me so much yet I'm starting to wonder if I love him. I'm starting to wonder if I need him for emotional support or want him.





I'm wondering if I do love him but I'm just feeling pressure and overwhelmed by him because he loves me SO much.





We're on a break but the break is just making me even more confused. He's so understanding though and that makes me feel like an even worse person compared to him. Could my love be hidden under the guilt I'm feeling for not caring as much?





He is such a great guy... Even if it turns out that I do just need him and have been relying on him instead of an equal respect and support.. is there anyway to turn this around to make it love?





I could see such a wonderful life with him if only I wasn't feeling so confused.





Has anyone had experiences with these kinds of feelings. Any advice would be appreciated.

Love or guilt?
Its called cold feet. Make up your mind, or heart or whatever and go with your decision. One way or the other. He sounds like a very good guy. I'd be careful about kicking a guy like that to the curb. That would be a loss.
Reply:You need to do everything possible to eliminate the confusion. Noone else knows whether they love someone until they've given them the fourteenth over (if not that many years). Rarely does it work as a one time everytime.
Reply:girl im going through the same thing right now
Reply:IF THE TIME IS NOT RIGHT THEN IT IS NOT RIGHT. MAYBE YOU TWO JUST NEED TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO EACH OTHER JUST TO SEE HOW HE REALLY FEELS ABOUT YOU. IT SEEMS AS IF YOU ARE AFRAID TO LET GO OF YOUR TRUE FEELINGS TO HIM BECAUSE YOU ARE AFRAID OF WHAT MAY HAPPEN IN THE LONG. TIME WILL TELL, WHEN IT IS TIME TO GO OR NOT...

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