Love stay or go !?

i have been seeing this man for 4 months and i have been marred befor and so has he .I feel i love him and he did tell me he loved me but we broke up and he told me he dose not want to get close and he will never say he loves me again ! He will not say if he did love me or not now and he dose not like my one guy friend


he thinks my friend wants more from me . I do love this man and


he did tell me we would not be more than friends but we still talk ,email and tex ever day and we are still sleeping to gether and in the late hours we will call me to just be with him. I dont know what to do ! He told me he dose not know if he could love again.

Love stay or go !?
I feel this man is very scared to get into a close relationship right now, he says he will never say he loves u again, maybe this is his way of protecting him self from getting hurt again.





Other men can be very threatened and jealous if a woman has a close guy friend(they have to think more of it!) You are still in contact with each other, maybe just keep it that way for a while, time will tell but don't push him into saying he loves you, it's got to come from his heart otherwise your relationship will never last.





Just be paitent with him, if you really love him, he will know and in time he may very well fall in love with you. Just be friends and see what happens, sleeping together, that can complicate things, involves emotions, I nearly went there with ex partner but we decided it was just best to stay friends, I am still friends with him now after 6 months, we don't keep in contact all of the time, but I know he is out there when I need a friend to talk to.





I do hope this has helped you.
Reply:Love is when u really really have a feeling for someone and u would do anything for them, i think if u feellike this u should love!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Loose him quick. You are giving up the goods with no commitment. Unless you enjoy just getting laid with no love attached, you are wasting your time. He has told you what you need to know. Now move on or stop complaining and enjoy what you have.
Reply:It sounds like he is using you for comfort you have to decide if you are okay with being just a friend with benefits or if you want more.Like a serious long term relationship. What is love, I tihnk it's when 2 people really want to be together despite everything and they can get over all odds and doubts, it is difficult, i wonder if anyone as ever really been in love.