my classmate.He married to other(beautiful) girl last 4 years back due to our missunderstanding(have 2yrs child) but I loved him so much%26amp;he too. But we can't live %26amp; love openly. He helped me in my every difficulties. I never expsoed him to my relatives, friends due to society's fear. everything was going smooth but my parents did my marraige in relation He also loves me too much but what I feel strongly 'To love someone %26amp; marry to else is not justified to me . Womem loves only ones in a life. Before marriage I have given indirect clues to my parents, %26amp; husband (last day)eventhough they did the marriage.myself %26amp;'V''s mobile contact was continues.Fortunately 'V' guides me to live separately since I told my husband everything in first Night itself. . Within a month our separation process has started. Both family has disturbed. "V says he may marry with me if opputurnity comes %26amp; promised me anytype of help. Now I am confused. I not bothered legal matters. Am I right ?what I should do ?
LOVE TRIANGLE : Hello Dears, please ans. carefully %26amp; seriously. I am 28 yrs earning girl loves to 'V'
I feel like I need to attend English class after reading that question
Reply:a spoiled life
Reply:Hi!
I am not going to teach you , but this is very wrong to love a person who is married, and also very bad when you are also married to another guy, ok, if you are attracted to anybody and he also loves you why didn't he took first step. Now you both are the victims of spoiling 5 lives , both of you need to settle your families seprately, because he wants some times but for what purpose? thats wrong? you need to take a step ahead to save thes 5 lives.
Reply:you're not making much since............. I mean cents............I mean sense
See, now you got me doing it!
Reply:Yes u r absolutely wrong if he truely loved u then he would have not married with other girl. Even after ur marriage y r u staying far from ur husband did V do that ? he had already got a 2yr baby then y r u troubling ur self and ur family for ur selfishness y r u troubling ur husband so sad of him ya. Pls grow up, open ur eyes and lead a happy life with ur husband. U r so lucky that u have got so good husband bcoz even after knowing about u he is still with u without divorcing u. so think of it
Reply:Do not upset any marriage. A marriage is to stand forever. Especially when you say that V has a child. You have perforce to turn away. Look to your own marriage and make it successful. Society and Life does not give anyone a second chance in the institution of marriage for just a feeling of the heart. You say it is called LOVE. Marriages are meant to last forever till death do the spouses part.
Reply:Cmon yaar what took uall sooooooo long to recognise that u like each other.
I mean if he had really loved u he would never had married another girl.
and what makes u feel so my dear.
face the reality the days are gone he has responsibility and even u have the college days are gone.
pl. don't leave ur loving and caring husband just coz someone says he likes u.
I think so u r lucky that u got a husband like him eventhough he knows he still loves you.
pl. dont do that thing stay with ur destiny.
don't curse it.
Reply:Both parties shall not have a living spouse while marrying, Section 5 Hindu Marriage Act 1955. If you or he is already in wedlock, then there can't be a lawful marriage and you cannot become a legally wedded wife.
there is no concept of divorce in Hinduism. Hindu marriages are performed between their souls (not bodies) in heaven (not upon earth) in presence of 330 million gods and goddesses. Indian Government enacted Hindu Marriage Act in 1955 and created a chance for divorce to be granted by secular courts. Despite such legislations and courts' divorce judgments/decrees, their spiritual wedlock remains intact being eternal, everlasting and unbreakable even in future rebirths. Despite marriage with others after divorce, wife continues Ardhangini (half body) of her former husband and he continues her Pati Parmeshwar.
However Indian laws are very liberal about sexual acts.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities (intercourse / coitus) are not barred / prohibited and are no offence in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Even her sex partner also cannot be punished, if was unaware of her wedlock or had sex with consent or connivance of her husband. However the police cannot arrest or prosecute him. After divorce also her husband is bound to maintain or pay till she remarries, even if she is permanently / continuously enjoying sex with all other/s. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock and without her husband’s consent or connivance. Courts are bound to believe that all children born during the wedlock (or within 280 days of court's divorce judgment/ decree) are her husband’s legitimate ones. He is bound to maintain or pay them expenses, till sons are 18+ and daughters are married. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws.
Reply:PLEASE SOLVE THIS QUESTION YOU DO IT. NOBODY RIGHT ANSWER IT !
Reply:ha this is the story of kabhie alvida na kehna (somewhat)
you may see that for preference but my friend all story has a jumbled ending as the writer has to finish the story
but yours is a real life by going bak to your first love you are putting your family your husbands family aswell as your lovers present family in problem and by not going with him you are only not putting yourself in problem
so you have to choose what you should do i prefer you to stay
with your present husband as an advisor.
but as a lover i may suggest you to go with your lover
but in today's world arrange marriages are much happier than love marriages
for further guidence just mail me at pratham_pwr@yahoo.co.in
Reply:You can go ahead and experiment with it if yo ufeel that it's not gonna harm anyone else (your parents, your current in-laws, your husband, V's wife, his kid, his parents). The chances of things working out fine would be far less in that case.
If you and V win the game it would be just your win and everyone else would be in pain. But if you lose, all of you lose...
:-)
Reply:A real, pure fool you are, you have mentioned that V said he may marry you, but i ask you what if he doesn't marry you and end up having sex with you. He may cheat on you. Better stay with your husband who has already taken your responsibility. First love is ok but when you two didn't got married then you don't have the right to spoil his married life as well as yours. So, let him go and make your married life with your husband a happy one.
Reply:pray. im sorry you are in love someone that you cant have and is causing u happiness. pray to God for strength of mind. peace
Reply:my silli girl , you ware being made fool by his
b'coz if really would loved you he had not got marrige with other
dear plz. open your eye, and try to enjoy your past time which you have spent on him don't think more just think that past is past god bless you
Reply:sorry madam
first open ur eyes ...u loved someone who didn't care to marry ... and now he is spoiling ur marriage .. eventually both of u are going to break each others marriage right ... forget abt society if ur marriage doesn't work with ur bf then wat ...
u better think abt all the matters properly and how confident is ur bf in marrying u again .. he seems to be scared of many things ..have a nice day ..
bye
Reply:look i would like to give you good advice.i think that you should
tell v to go to his family and you should go to your family.because he has his wife and a kid,who needs him mare than you.think good for others n god will do good for you.
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