Love prob..?

i hav this friend.Girish Sony.who loves me allot.i dont love him.i said yess only for him.to make him happy.1st i said no.n that time he was broke.but now i said yess.n he is really serious about me.but i'm not.


and also i love this guy who have his own girlfriend.to whom he really loves.


but i love him.i cant tell him.bcoz he thinks i'm his friend.


and i dont wanna lose this frndship.otherwise he wont talk to me i i'll tell him this.his name is Abhinav Arora.


i'm in really trouble.i cant love girish.n i cant forget abhinav.


but i dont wanna spoile their boths life.


i want to see both of them happy.


plz gimmi a solution.so that i could copeup with this problem.


plz help me...plz

Love prob..?
with girish, do everything that will make him change his mind about you. this will make him think that you are not perfect for him and would probably break up with you first.





as for abhinav, wait for him to break up with his girlfriend first. and then make your move. and be truthful to yourself and him this time and yet try not to upset anyone (including yourself).





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frankly, you made the wrong decision in the first place and created this situation for you right now. really... do not tell anyone that you like him just so you would not upset him. no matter what, a person will get upset when the person they like doesn't like them back. some people get over it and move on and some may not. if he could not move on, find some other way to solve it. THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY OUT!!!





And don't justify yourself by saying you said yes to girish to make him happy. you lied. lying to someone that you like him back is cheating. neither is this a sacrifice.





seriously, please give yourself some respect!!! any female is worthy of having her own wish/dream/wants.





(i was just wondering, did it not occur to you that either of these guys may see this question? you know, even if those guys had told you they do not have a yahoo id or they do not come to this website, it is possible they are lying or their friends may see this.. is that your plan? hoping that they will see this question and one thing would lead to another..? i'm just wondering.)
Reply:dont go for that guy that has GF. you will not have any chance. and you have the chance with mr. sony why not go with him. as he like you and give him some time you may start to like him.


if you go with the guy that has gf you will be hurt and maybe he will be hurt and you all will be hurt but if you go with the other guy that likes you, only you maybe hurt and maybe not much, just give him some time, and you may fall in love with him. good luck.
Reply:i think that evrything will be ok.





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Reply:Be honest with all of your friends and let them know that you're leaving everyone alone because you have to get your self together.
Reply:well, first of all if you don't like that guy girish, then you should just tell him that you don't like him. it's worse if you keep holding on to him if you don't even feel anything for him, it's not fairr to him. and for tat guy you like, abhinav. you should just stay by him as a friend until him and his girlfriend break up. and don't tell him that you like him yet cause you might really lose him unless if he likes you back. so just stay his good friend until that happens so all you can do now is wait and stay by him when he needs someone. good luck! :D
Reply:eh?


dont make yourself crazy trying to please other people


think of yourself, you dont want to be unhappy do you?
Reply:YOU CAN'T BE WITH SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU WOULD HURT HIS FEELINGS BY SAYING NO. IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN THAT RELATIONSHIP, JUST END IT. IT HURTS YOU AND IT HURTS HIM TOO, COS HE'S NOT STUPID, AND PROBABLY PERFECTLY KNOWS THAT YOU DON'T LOVE HI THE WAY HE DOES.


FOR THE GUY YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH BUT HAS A GIRLFRIEND- DON'T DO ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY KNOWING THAT HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS FOR YOU! YOU WILL ONLY HURT YOURSELF MORE, EVEN HUMILIATE YOURSELF. EVERYBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY AND TO LOOK FOR HAPPINESS. SO LEAVE THOSE BEHIND YOU AND MOVE ON. THERE'S SOMEONE OUT THERE THAT IS WAITING FOR YOU ONLY!

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