Is he really in love with me?

I've been with my boyfriend for less than a month and he's told me he's in love with me, he said it was love at first sight.now, i do trust him but can i actually believe that in less than a week he fell in love with me? doesn't loving someone take time? i don't love him yet - but i do like him a lot. what should i do? is he just lying or saying the truth. He tells me i make him feel like he's in heaven whenever I'm around him and that I've changed him. He's a great guy and i really like him but i just want to know whether he really can be telling the truth? we have a friend in common which we are both extremely close to, and he's told me than my boyfriend really does love me too and he told him that even just hugging and holding me is enough. It's just confusing! what do you people think? any help, advice?

Is he really in love with me?
Hello. Sounds real to me. It's usually pretty hard to get a guy to say that even if he means it lol. If you feel safe with him then i guess it is real. What you really need to think is "Do i think he is telling the truth" You are the one who knows him the most, you should try and figure it out yourself.
Reply:He probably thinks he loves you; cos everybody's interpretation of love is different !!!


Question is... do you love him ?? I don't think so; but you obviously care. He needs to hold back a bit ;cos i have a sneaky suspicion he'll frighten you off...
Reply:usually, guys are very confused. however, if hes the first one saying it, and this early, he may really be feeling it. if you dont love him back, dont say it yet. i promise, when you do, it will hit you like you've never felt anything before. you'll know. dont say you love him until you are ready, not just because you feel pressured into it. if you're under 15, i dont think he really is in love, he could honestly just be obsessed. maybe you could try talking to a few of his ex's and see if hes ever told him that he loves them....and if he did, then i doubt he really does love you. but its not normal for a guy to say it first, before a month also. that just seems strange to me. if it makes you feel uncomfortable, i would talk to him about it...and just let him know that you dont want anyone to get hurt, so just take things a little bit slower. dont give him any hints to make him think you love him, because that could end up hurting him badly in the long run, and im almost positive thats not what you want. but, good luck, and remember, dont do anything you might regret in the future. if you have to stop and think, you certainly aren't there yet.
Reply:We never know, but I guess the matter is if you are happy to stay with him and wanted he to 'love' you.


Things happen too quick maybe not a big sign but you have to spend lot of effort to maintain.





Good luck to you.
Reply:gotta enjoy ur time wit him and find out for urself no other way
Reply:Ummm... He might really like you that much or he is trying to make you cave into sex... Try saying i love you back and test him he might ask you the next day if you want to have sex then ask him do you really love me





Hope that helps