Questions On Love...?

I was just curious about everyone's opinion on what love is, how people act when they are in love, and how many people out there feel that they are in a truly loving relationship.





Personally, I feel that love is not a feeling, it is a decision. I believe that love is a constant act of service to your partner, looking to help them before you help yourself. I believe that trust and love can not be seperated. I also believe that when a couple is truly in love can make it through everything, even if it is very very hard.





What do you all think? And what makes you feel that "loving feeling" you have for your boyfriend, girlfriend, fiance, or spouse?





You get to talk about yourself in this one!

Questions On Love...?
the difference in love and lust.......'''''' LUST u cant get enough of the person...... Love u can not give enough to that one person. it is an agreement of being with each other in love and trust and want to give Ur love to them and to receive the same.
Reply:Well I'm in the 7th grade, so I don't know much, but I'll give this a try!





Well I think love is definatly a commitment and that if you truly love with someone, you should trust them with your secrets and always be patient...





Well that's all I want to say!
Reply:,yep I agree with you too. Love is born thru experiences you have with someone,,for me...my marriage was arranged but I ended up loving my husband for all the care and attention he gives me,,he kinda grew under my skin. Though I never had that feeling of oooohhhHHH i just went out this guy and cant get him over my head.


I'm soo inlove with him for the things and the effort he puts into our marriage.
Reply:Very nice question.





I believe love is a feeling. I never wanted to get married, I fell in love. It hit me like a brick wall!!! I believe that the partnership/marriage/relationship requires constant work, sometimes more than other times. I agree with you that a couple in love can handle anything thrown at them. I could NOT love someone I could not trust, love and trust go hand in hand.





I cannot describe that "loving feeling" I have for my fiance, I keep trying to put it in words for questions like this but there aren't words strong enough or important enough for how I feel about him.





Thanks for the question
Reply:Jane, worded very nicely.





I agree with you!
Reply:There's the old saying from the movie, "Love is never having to say you're sorry" - but I think love is KNOWING WHEN to say you're sorry.





I think a big part of love is putting the other person first. If both do that it'll be a good world!
Reply:I think you're partly right here. Love is much more than an emotion - but I certainly don't think its a decision. Now - the things that lead to love - very much are.





Love is just "one of those things" you can't quite put your finger on. Love is that thing that makes your mind wander to that special someone when you alone with your thoughts. Its that little thing that makes you think of someone else before yourself.





When you truly love someone - you give of yourself. And its great when they give too. Because - if you truly love a person- they become a part of you. And they will always be there. True - the relationship may end, you may lose them - but that person will always be with you.





Now for the kicker - what makes me feel that "loving feeling" I have for my significant other? Its her - just her. I'm smiling typing this. Because she is what I'm thinking of. Simply seeing her, or hearing her voice, or reading an email from her makes my day so much better.