To love or to be loved??

would you go for a person who loves you(and he shows it)but you don't love him,only like him.Or would you go for one who you are in love with but you are not sure what he feels for you.Even when you try to ask him what he feels for you,there is no clear answer.He wants to spend time with you,make love to you,but does not tell you how he feels.So what should it be,to love or be loved??

To love or to be loved??
LOOK ill give you this advice my granny gave me i hope this helps you. WAIT on the LORd he has the perfict one 4 you. ANd when your ready G0d will bring you by your perfict mate. Wait on the LORD, 4 his best. YOU will be a happy camper, if you do. G0d bless you girl. star
Reply:Both...don't settle for any less. It doesn't have to be "to love or to be loved." It can be to love AND to be loved.
Reply:I would definitely go for the one who loves me, because at least I'm secured of him feeling something for me, and though I don't love him, I could learn it later on. I don't wanna go for the one whom I love and not sure if that guy has feelings for me. Play safe... ha ha...
Reply:Every reason in mind says you should go for the man who loves you, but no one follows the mind when the heart is calling.


Especially with love, what you do has absolutely nothing to do with what you should do.
Reply:it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.(quoted)
Reply:i for one choose death!
Reply:I would go for someone who loves me cause if i went for someone I love and they didnt feel the same I would feel a little sad
Reply:Well sweety i could tell you this because i am experiencing it rigt now i am with a person i truely love although i know he dont have as much love for me. He once did though and that was what made me fall inlove with him while my love towards him kept growing his love towards me was decreasing i dont have a clue what went wrong but hey i still love him my mind says it wrong but my heart is all i got with him inside.
Reply:To be loved for sure is better than guessing if you are loved. Moral of the story? Why go for uncertainties? when you have a sure thing?
Reply:i would rather be loved at least then i know
Reply:the right thing to tell you is be loved cause its so much safer and in the long run better. But if you love someone u cannt really let someone else love you and u end up hurting him so if u r up to it...love
Reply:in a perfect world you'd both love each other. I suppose i'd choose to be loved, but only if i was attracted to the guy in some way. otherwise i'd rather look for someone better.
Reply:I prefer to be with the person i love and i would love to have him falling in love with me too.. however, it's easier to be with the person who loves you and learn to love him in return.
Reply:I would love the one who loves me than be with the I love and I'm not sure about his love for me.
Reply:According to me if you are in a situation that makes you to take any one, that is to be loved or to love i think the best way to go is to be loved , but this way is some what harsh but it is practical.Listen if you love blindly then it is ok. but you have not done so by asking such a question.so this means that you are in a symptomation process which will led you in a further confusion later so go for the loved one or go for the love but be sure that you are in it for 100% Best of luck....Present fear is less than horrible imaginations.
Reply:it's hard to have one without the other.
Reply:love someone than you will be loved
Reply:JUst BE urseLf to Love them, n Be uRself to lET them lOve U. THen, MAke ur hEart to Choose onE oF theM. (^-^)v

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