To me, i truly don't believe in LOVE,to me i treat all the girls im with how dey are deserved to be treated. i pamper them and i do w/e that makes them happy. I maintain the relationship. And i do become infatuated, but im still confused of what love really is. To me i just don't love anybody besides my family and relatives and friends. I jsut can't seem to "fall in love". I sometimes feel like im in love but i kno its not because i asked myself "can i live without her?" than i tell myself "yes", so it isn't love. Love to me is when u can ask dat question and answer NO. Tell me why do i feel like i can't ever find love.
Help With Love please..........?
The answer to your question is simple. You just haven't met the right girl yet!! Some people are lucky enough to fall in love with the first girl or boy they have a relationship with. Others may take a life time to find their true love. But trust me, it will happen. When you do find someone you love you will definitely know about it and you won't doubt you love them for a second. Don't rush into relationships looking for love though. Get to know the girl first and take your time. It will happen.
Reply:love is when you start doing something for someone who may not be able to reciprocate it, and you don't care...
Reply:i think u are't lucky
Reply:If you ask yourself if you can live without a girl you have feelings for and you answer ""No"" you're in it way too far...you have become dependent of her,and thats never good!So your ""yes"' is a fine answer.Loving someone to me means caring for that person,wanting to spend your time with him/her and enjoying that.If he ore she is not arround,still thinking of him/her,feeling connected.Something like that....
Reply:I wouldn't nessecarily define that as love...I love my family very much as well and I can live without them...I love the girl I am with now and I can live without her...I'd say love is finding someone that you can say you can live with someone whos company you enjoy and want to be around and having a huge smile on your face when you think of them when they are not around and happy with the thoughts that you carry with you of them....someone that you can be yourself around and you feel comfortable around them but as long as you truly don't believe in love then you are never going to experience it the way you want to....to me it almost sounds as if you are holding back from that feeling because a part of you wants to or needs to....maybe by choice or subconsciously
Reply:you have not yet found the right person. as long as you are alive and well ,you still have time to find love. once you fall in love, every thing changes and looks different in your life, you'll know it and you will not even have time to ask such questions. and the treatment you will give her will be far different.love comes from the heart..wait and one day you will be there
Reply:I agree with you completely...I don't believe in love! I think people marry coz they feel they can be compatible for long. Infatuation is so there but that's all there is to it!...Infatuation, lust and compatibility!
Reply:all i can say to you is that keep looking and you will be lurcky one day and find love
Reply:I believe that you may be afraid to love, because you have seen, known, or heard of people falling in love and it didn't work and it broke their hearts, so I think that you may be to afraid to give your heart away because you don't want to get hurt. It may also be that you are happy with just pleasing the females that you are with that all you think about is just pleasing them and being a friend to them that you don't think about falling in love or giving your heart away you just think about pleasing them and being there for you. I think if that is what makes you happy in life then don't stop. What I mean by that is, you don't have to love someone for a lover to be happy in life, you can do what you are doing and be happy doing it. I hope you don't take this personal or get mad. I am just sending you this, because this is how I feel. Have a good day.
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