Is this true love to you?

I am in love with a boy im not suppouse to be in love with.. his name is D. I liked him since his sister told me about him. He is so awsome. But we had a fight.. He called me a *****. I hated that. He made me cry for 2 hours. I was pissed. I think about him every night. I cry about him every night. I loved him. I normaly dont believe in love a first sight but i do now. yall must think im crazy a 12 year old girls fallin in love with a 14 year old gangsta who barly talked to you.. But this is true. he is in my dreams everynight. He is in my thoughts evry day. I wish to see him as soon as possible all the time. I wish for our bodies one day be together. If you do not call this love wat is? please let me kno! I keep thinkin about the day you said "I would like to go out with you". And I keep thinkin wen we took our first walk together. But then I think about that nught u were walking with one of you friends and you said "forget her" cause my friends were sayin "you need to talk to her". then I also will never in my life forget this wat my friends said they herd you said you called me a *****. Those things realy tear me up inside. I had many offers for guys to be my boyfriend since that day but I always said "NO" Because I have not got over D. the things I have herd latly i am not mad. I herd a cople days before the 4th of July my sis and friends was walkin down the road and He started chasin after them. ( he thought my twin was me) her friends were callin her by my name. Soon She stopped and said i will not step a nother foot till u call me by my real name. D just had a puzzled look on his face and turned around and walked away. When my sister told me this I just got the biggest grin on my face. It made me feel like he still liked me. I belive this is true love. NOT teen love or puppy love but true.

Is this true love to you?
Baby girl, you need to get a grip. I know you think about this guy all the time, but at 12 it is puppy love or just a major crush. Do you really want to be with a guy that makes you cry for hours and calls you names ? I remember feeling all torn up inside about a girl I really liked but she kept giving me mixed signals. One day she would flirt with me and the next day with another guy and it would piss me off. And she got off on that cus it was a power thing to her. To try and keep me on a string and he is doing the same thing to you. If he really liked you he would say so and treat you good. Not treat you like last weeks garbage. Gangsta or not. I realize he has a rep tp keep up with his boys, but so did we and one thing for sure. When you have a lady of your own you treat her right and don't let your boys or anyone hurt her. So think about it and make a list of the pros and cons of this guy. Is he worth the hurt you feel ? Will he ever treat you right or are you just a toy to him ? Being 12 is hard enough...don't make it harder on yourself. Good Luck
Reply:i think that its lust and not love i feel like u are going through what i did when i was your age i know how u feel its like an obsession u just like the bad boy in him but you need to think of it like this hes a bad boy thats bad for u cause all hes going to do is hurt you once a man calls u a ***** and u let him get away with it he will do it again and maybe do worst but if u really want o be with him ill tell u how u do it u ignore him and start ignoring his *** for that and soon come hell come back to u the silent treatment always works cause u show him that he aint **** ...oops i mean he aint nothing to u good luck with what u choose.
Reply:you are still young. . do you know what love means ? since you write here for answer .. then you dont love yet .. wait for the right time when you aer able to define love for yourself
Reply:you're 12-really


no it's not love
Reply:I guess you might have broke into tears while writing in this query....................


I feel he's sorry for his behaviour towards you. This distance will bring pain to both of you. Plz call him on phone....


You love him....keep it simple,love him for whatever he is.


You two will be together soon. Take care sis.


My best wishes!!!

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