Sunday, July 11, 2010

Love and friendship and shyness?

Im friends with a girl i really love..but the problem is shes very shy.and i love her but she doesnt know.and its just like wer friends.no holdin hands no hugs no kiss..im 19 and shes 18.how do i get her out of the shy stuf.i really want her more than anything.being shy is gud but not so much.she doesnt like it if i try to hold or touch her hand.what excuse can i use to be able to hold hands and more slowly..is reading her palm a good excuse to hold her hand without her feeling im holdin for no reason.im just readin palm.and may be shel get more into me.shes a really nice cute and honnest and beautifull girl but shes not been friends with guys beside me and a few childhood friends.she thinks im a friend.but i cant tel my heart what to do.im deeply in love with her.i just hope she accepts.shes never had a boyfriend.i want to be with her and spend my life with her.how do i fix the shyness and make this into a relationship before it ruins her life and my love.i was thinkin if i get more physical slowly it would cause love and intimacy and make us closer and may be then i say i love u n may be its fixed.u tel me what to do.

Love and friendship and shyness?
You can't change a person, so don't think you can do something about her shyness. If anything you can only work around it. Don't do palm readings but do increase the level of contact you have. bump into her, brush up against her, more high fives. These will all bring her in closer to you in a positive way.


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