Am in love with my best friend girl.?

Hello everyone, pls kindly help me out with this dire state i got myself into. i have a very good friend who trust and love me so much,and i love and trust him so much also, but my problem started when he reconciled with his ex-girl, this girl prefers my company than is boyfriend, she walked up to me some day and told me she is in love with me. that she can not resist me. at first i was scared and thought it was a setup, later she insisted. cried all night, and even call me on phone in an ungodly hour, I fell for her and make love to her,ever since then we have been together secretly. the truth is that we so much love ourselves,but i cant say if this love is real or not. she loves me more than the way she loves my friend. and am scared because i know some day my good friend will get to find out about this and it will end our long term friendship.





Pls all i need is a candid advice from all walks of life. i dont want to get trapped in this web, do i continue or do i quite?

Am in love with my best friend girl.?
if she reconciled with him, that means that she prefers him - not you. She made her choice - or she is just playing games with you.





Now that she has made her choice, you should leave her alone and find someone else. Don't allow her to seduce you if she wants a secret relationship.





People have been killed by their friend for getting mixed up like you are. Don't let it go further.
Reply:This is a true fix you find yourself in, with no good ending. You have to decide which you value the most: Your long-term friendship with your friend, or your shorter-term and seemingly shallow relationship with his "girl-friend". Please be aware that if you go with your friend you will (and should) tell him about your problem with the girl, without having to go into detail, and that you value his friendship over hers. If, on the other hand, you decide to go with the shallow, back-stabbing, duplicious girl, then expect two things to happen: first you lose your old friend, second the girl finds some one else she likes better and you find yourself out in the cold without your friend.
Reply:hi, I think you may have two good friends, one in a weird romantic situation and one being thankfully unaware. leave it at tat dont escalate. stay cool and ride it out, see what they do first . Be flattered than she is involving you in her love life.


try to be a peicemaker.