Cookies Love?

So i am seeing my boyfriend this weekend. I want to tell him i love him. Over the phone i gave the hint. I started talking about cookies for an hour. I used analogies like i hate raison cookies, like chocolatte chips, and love sugar. And then i explained all bout cookies in an analogic way and after 30 minites i think he understood what i was saying. So he asked if he was a chocolatte chip or sugar cookie and i further explained. Ya, so right now i think he gets that i love him but im just not sure how he feels about it. He asked me today to further explain the cookie thing and he said that he wants me to tell him what i want to tell him and he wants to hear it. SO that seems as though he was saying that he wants me to say i love him but it is always a possibilty that he doesnt realize what im getting at and i cant be sure. Two weeks ago i had my friend ask if he loves me (yes immature) and he said he didnt know wat love was yet. Anyway he says, Jesus i likee you alot. he loves me?

Cookies Love?
ZOMG that was a lot of random information.





Basically, if you told him you love sugar, and he wants to be sugar - he wants you to say that he loves you.





This is so immature but when I wanted this guy to tell me he loved me I'd do the old game of "Elephant Poo" - to make it look like "I love you," in the end he looked at me and just said:


"Alright, lets do it for real: I love you"
Reply:Jesus??? first off y wud u date a guy named jesus??? anyone who is named jesus is named that bcuz their parents thought he wud be the next coming of Christ bcuz they are fools...dump him before u fall in love with a satanist
Reply:When people use analogies or indirect communication with me, I just never get it. I am not sure I got where you were going with the cookie analogy either. It is possible he didn't get it. I was involved with a young man from Romania, he would talk in analogies and indirectly and let me tell you, that isn't much fun when you have two different native languages...you sit there wondering if maybe you have a language barrier or something happening.





Be direct. Personally, it doesn't sound to me like he is ready to hear that you love him but that is a risk you have to take. There is nothing wrong with owning up to your feelings and expressing yourself, just know there can be disappointment if he doesn't share the feelings yet. Everyone falls in love at different speeds. My preference is that I relish in hearing a man say it first...although I have often said it first myself.
Reply:what do you mean when you say"he didn't know wat love was" i think you should figured it out !!
Reply:I think if he did he wouldn't be afraid to express it much less say it. I don't think he does.
Reply:Just tell him! One sure sign that you are in love is that you are not afraid to tell the person that you are in love with, and by this whole cookie analogy, seems like you are scared to say it. Just go for it, yes there may be a possibility that he may not feel the same intensity for you or that he might but he may not be ready to say it, but you have to take the chance, that's the only way you are going to find out and that's the only way your relationship can progress. Good Luck!
Reply:Not sure.. But regardless, you are setting yourself up for one of two possibilities. Be prepared that he might not feel the same way, and if thats the case are you going to be okay with it.. I've always waited to hear it myself. Good luck.
Reply:Are you nuts?
Reply:be happy:)
Reply:He wants to hear it, so tell him! Maybe he was just embarrassed because it was your friend who asked him you know? Go for it sweetie!
Reply:i can't tell you if he loves you, but it does seem like he wants you to tell him you love him. unless of course he's got entirely the wrong end of the stick! in which case you'll just be telling the truth anyways, so it can't go that wrong. however, i'd guess that he gets it, so i think you should tell him.
Reply:Don't say "I love you" in analogies. Just say it, if that's how you feel. Good luck.