I love this guy, and have for 2 or so years, but stopped in the summer... and stopped around Halloween, and?

fell in love w/ another guy (these are both my 2 best guy friends, and I'd trust them with my life... and they've been very very very good friends w/ me for 2 years), and now I love them both... they both knew I loved them when I did... and now the 1st one I mentioned knows... who do I love... I love people for their heart- not appearance or popularity or anything stupid like that... I know I love the 1st one I mentioned the most... but the 2nd one... I know I loved him at least at X-mas (nothing like sleeping 2gether, making out, kissing, or even hugging has been done.. if that helps) and I think I still do... I never got over him.... oh ya, and they both like me along w/ a few other girls... like 3 each... but I am the only one they have a chance w/... and they know that.... I am confused... help me please! AND READ ALL OF THIS!!!!!!

I love this guy, and have for 2 or so years, but stopped in the summer... and stopped around Halloween, and?
Teen-age boys AND girls fall in love "with love," VERY easily, but not with more than one at a time. It's natural for a boy to want to have "bragging rights" over a girl, especially if he wants to show off to his friends what a "stud" he is, (true or not.)





Speak to your parents and lay your cards on the table; chances are, you're far too young to be making a life-time Decision on who you want to live with forever and have children with and Bigamy is definitely NOT an Option here.





You sound like a very nice young lady; STAY that way. Most boys look at girls as "potential conquests." DON'T be one. If either of these boys might be your "final choice," then he'll WAIT for you. If not, nothing lost. Love-making is something that MARRIED couples do. Surely you don't want to just be someone's "free stuff," do you?
Reply:You sound really young....and theres your answer your confused. you can't love two guys at once. LOVE is a big word.
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Reply:just pick one, or you could pretend not to like either of them at all for a while and then slowly begin to build on one of them... hope that helps, i know how you feel