Lust or Love.?

I've been in love one time so far in my life and it was aight.


But there's another guy now and he loves me although he's grown and i love him too very much in fact but everyone says im stuck on stupid nad its lust but i think it's love well really i know its love i got out with a guy named robert and im in llove with his cousin ive known forever and when me and robert talk on the phone we talk like 5 minutes compared to me and his cousin 3 hours at a time when i see him leave dyersburg and go back where ever he be stayin it hurts i cry all's i do is think about him i listen to the akon cd over and over again cause just about every song on there is for me and him but tell me what you think do you think its lust or love please answer my ? my boyfriend is never on my mind his cousin is.when i go to sleep i cry my self to sleep looking at his pictures the only thing is he's grown but o-well if i love someone im gonna go for it so whats ur opinion lust or love ?................????//

Lust or Love.?
I see you have been asking allot of questions this week, must be bad emotional time for you.





I believe that love and feelings are NOT uncontrollable though we mostly nudge it in directions with our actions and thoughts. Most probably this whole thing with the cousin started with one bad thought.





You need to try and distant yourself from your feelings when you try to figure out what is going on else you will never get to a conclusion. Ask yourself a few questions(answer truthfully)





a. Are you attracted to the idea of him (The idea of somebody new and exiting resquing you from a dull relationship)


b. Are your emotions a cause of thinking about him or are your thoughts the cause of your emotions.


c. What do you fear most in your relationship and what do you fear most in this secret admiaration.


d. Can you revive your passion in your relationship?





Just let your thoughts wonder if you answer your own questions you should have a good idea what to do.





Hope you get to understand yourself in time.
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