Do real love exits????

Hello ppl,





Around 8 months back, i fel in luv with my friend. But, she dumped me as she was engaged. She even broke my friendship as she didn't wanted to encoursge the feelings i have for her. She was very rite and perfect in her stand. BUt, don't know why?? still i loved her and spent all nights crying to sleep in ur name. I couldn't concentrate on my work properly and things went terribly bad at my work.





So, i started myself to forget her slowly aswellas love . Nowadays i thinks of her very little and am wondering sometimes if i have lost my feelings for her. Always i was passionate abt love and wanted to be in unconditional love.





Am i loosing my love??? Can't love be one sided and nevr ending?? IS my love jsut as normal as it is???





Can'r we ever find the love which is very true and unconditional for ever...

Do real love exits????
Abso(freakin')lutely! There is most assuredly true and unconditional love. And you hit the nail on the head when you used the word "unconditional" as there were conditions on your love for your lost friend.





There is also intense passion that when mixed with feelings of inadequacy and need will make one feel that the world will end when the relationship is broken.





Perhaps the clearest example of true and unconditional love is seen when a parent offers a child up for adoption because she doesn't have the means to offer that child a means to survive.





A similar feeling can exist within a lover's relationship where one partner would be willing to do anything for the benefit of the other, including leaving. But now, that's a glimpse of the tragic side. Just imagine how it feels when those sacrifices don't exist. Bliss, my friend. Pure bliss.
Reply:that's pathetic... just because one girl broke your heart means that u totally gave up on love? it's going to happen, people are going to come and go and you are going to have your heart broken a few times... it's inevitable...
Reply:no thing called as love , both the parties are in a deal to satisfy each others need ,





there cant be more mystery in such kind of question





go figure
Reply:No you are obviously not. I am on the same boat. I think I stopped caring and than I ask a question about him on yahoo answers :(
Reply:HELLO!!


HOW OLD ARE YOU AND WHICH WORLD DO YOU LIVE IN?


if your looking for never ending, unconditional, suicidal love then u need to smell the air and wake up!


IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN, i aint sayin there is nothin like love but certainly not the love your discribing!


we r in the 21st century, everythin is material nowdays and love is more on a, ' uscratch my back and i'll scratch yours' basis!


its sad but its true.


the love our grandfathers and grandmothers experienced (wat you have explained)is nothing we r ever gonna get close to!


but pull yourself together, and get a grip on yourself, just coz u got put off by one gal dont mean u get all broken and crushed, one thing iv learnt in my life is there are A LOT! of oppurtunities out there this is a big big world and all i can say id EMBRACE IT!!


GOOD LUCK!

gumps