Is love when u see that person and u cry and nothing else matters u just want to be in their arms always.....

i want to know how you really know you love someone i'm 99% sure i do every time i see this person i cry its hard at school, we have been through so much together and i love him more than anyone in this world i would die if it was the only way he could live, i'm crying right now thinking about it and i need to know if it is lust or love i think its love 99% positive i get that sinking feeling whenever i see him and it feels like everyone else stops moving i try to avoid looking at his face sometimes it makes me cry he is the most wonderful person i could ever know, and i think he knows i love him he has wanted to be with me but his friends dont like me so he chose his friends over me, he has a huge secret that only a few people know uncluding me and i know for a fact that once other people know he wont have anyone except for me i told him once that he could live a thousand life times and search everywhere and not find a girl who loves him more than i do is this really love or lust?

Is love when u see that person and u cry and nothing else matters u just want to be in their arms always.....
How old are you?
Reply:A bit wordy there, but lust refers to sexual desire, love is something else entirely. It sounds to me like you don't love him, but you love being in love. You are way too dependent this person, it sounds like.
Reply:sounds like u got the love-bug bad
Reply:lust is sexual.... you dont cry if it's just lust.... You my dear, are in love.
Reply:it is love
Reply:It may not be love, but you sure got a solid case of infatuation.
Reply:It's infatuation...
Reply:He chose his friends over you? Sounds like he does'nt love you as much as you love him. I think you should try make yourself stronger. Don't cry so much, be more confident, and just be a good friend for now since that's all he wants. If it's meant to be, it will happen.


NOW DRY UP THOSE TEARS SWEETIE.


oh, and whats the secret you know?
Reply:honey, you've been reading too many romance novels. no this is not love, it's falling in love with the idea of love....love is when you get past all the newness and the fights and the money problems and he gets sick and you bring the vomit pan to him and you move where his new job is and you iron his shirt because you want him to look good and he does it so poorly. What you are feeling is classic teenage fantasy. ps. don't cry over ANYONE who would choose their friends over you...if you don't rate now, you never will.
Reply:i didnt read it its too long