There is this boy... Bry, and I fell in love with him almost instantly. We were together for 2 months and then he confessed to me that he had feelings for me and his best friend Macy. Macy has loved him for awhile, and now those two are together, I'm Macy and Bry's best friend, and I can't stand seeing them together. I feel like I would wait around forever for this boy and I have told him exactly how I felt about him, and he says he still loves me. Did he love me, can you tell from this info? Should I wait for him (he claims that he and Macy won't last past the end of the school year in May.) and take him back when he wants me? He claims he still loves me, and apologizes to me that he hurt me, but I LOVE him sooo incredibly much. I want him, but yet there are other men that like me. Bry told me to date and see where it goes, but I can't move on or date other people with out thinking that the person I am kissing is Bry. Should I wait around forever for my dream man, and take him back???
I love him... Should I be paitient? I love him so much. He still has my heart. He's dating my best friend.HELP
Girl are you serious? For one, if he really cared for you, he would not have started dating someone that you call your best friend. If she was your friend, she would not have started dating someone that you were with and still have feelings for. If I were you, I would take the advice he gave you (which is telling you that he does not want you for a relationship, just something to fall back on) and date other people and just leave him the hell alone and her too. Do not put yourself in the position to be hurt, take control of your feelings, have pride and some respect for yourself. What makes you think a real man would want someone who is going to be their dummy, and wait for them to finish messing around with some other girl? He is making a fool of you, and it is time you get a back bone and swallow that so called love you have for him.
I really do not think what you have is love any ways, I think you are just infatuated with him and its gotten stronger because now he has become a challenge since you can not have him when you want him. Girl it is so many other fine *** men out here and who could be better that what he is, that will love every step you take. Do not wait around for someone to approve you loving them and them loving you. He is not sorry for hurting you, he is just plan sorry!
Reply:sweetie, don't wait around for this guy. if he really loved you, he wouldn't be with the other girl, he would be with you. he also told you to go out and date other guys! if he cared that much, he would freak at just the thought of you being with anohter guy. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, I really do care, that's why I'm telling you this. you should go ahead and make yourself go out with other guys, and I promise you will meet some who will treat you better than this guy has. he basically told you that he's with his best friend now, and thinks it might not last past the end of the school year, you go ahead and date other guys, and when he's through with his best friend, he expects you to be waiting and drop everything and go running to him when he's ready for you. he's basically saying, wait your turn! don't give him the satisfaction! you move on. you'll be glad you did in the long run.
Best Wishes and you do deserve better.
Reply:Honey I know it is hard but you have to realize it doesn't matter how much you love him. You can't make anyone love you. He wants to be with Macy and there is nothing you can do to change it. Don't let him treat you like a silly puppy that runs to him anytime he whistles. Have some class and dignity. I do not mean to hurt you. The sooner you remove yourself from this situation, the sooner you will find somebody who loves you just for you. It will happen, I promise. Find new friends and new things to do so you can meet new people. Your heart will heal soon and couple months from now you will be like "Bry who?"
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Reply:wow, just let him sleep with your best freind and then take him back? Dont let him pull that BS. Go find someone else, chances are it wont last that long (sorry) then in time you can see if you are still even the same people.
Reply:Think about it. Are you gonna marry this guy? Are you going to kill a friendship for a one week fling? If he sincerely loves you, then why is he dating your best friend? I know you do't like to be in denial, but think about it. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't be sitting in a corner making out with your BFF. Now, if you were to date other men and see where it went, you would be basically using them to get over Bry. Is leading them on (and in the end hurting them) making you any different than Bry, who is probably just trying to keep his options open? It'll be hard to decide, but it's not something some random stranger on Yahoo!Answers can answer for you. You need to be able to think and decide. You can follow your heart blindly, but thik about where it will lead you.
Reply:You better tell him because you never know how he may react...better to have a chance then not, dreams are merely oppurtunities, cant come true till you take action
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