Love is worth fighting for right??

ok so I am in love with this guy and he loves me. He even told me that he was in love with me but....he has a girlfriend and he loves her too. He told me that he is in love with me and his girlfriend. I really want him really badly. Like really badly. How can I win him over? I know that sounds mean but...love is worth fight for right??

Love is worth fighting for right??
Love is worth fighting for, for sure.. but it has to be a two-way street.. He has to love only you and want to fight for you too..


So who are you going to fight him for and how..??? This girlfriend,,, how you going to fight her??.. How?? When hearts have to be broken to gain what you what... is it really worth fighting for?? When you have to resort to doing dirty-work to get your man, does it make it right? I don't think so. How can love be worth it when we inflict pain and suffering to others. If he loves you as he says, Let him choose you, then you will know that he truly loves you. When you have not done a thing to wrongfully seduce him, when you have not lifted a finger, and used no magic on him, or curses on her, and without seduction of any kind, bribery, or purchases of anything, he came to you.


I would rather have a man that chose me and loved me and no other, than a man I had to twist his arm to choose me. How could I trust that he would stay faithful if he did not choose me ?? How could I trust he would remain with me..?? or that he really really loved me.. I would always wonder.. I bet you will do. Love is too precious to play games..wait and have patience.. you are worth it and your love is worth it too.


Good Luck.
Reply:This guy may think he's in love with you, but obviously not enough to leave his girlfriend. He's just stringing you along. You need to let him go and get on with your life. You deserve better. If he was as in love with you as you are with him then he would have left his girlfriend already.
Reply:if he is still with his other girlfriend then he doesn't really love you
Reply:He has a freaking girlfriend! If he truly truly loves you he'd definitely leave his girlfriend to be with who he thinks is his true love. He probably wants to be a player or something and im sure he loves the extra attention your giving him
Reply:Find someone else.
Reply:That all depends how serious he's with his girlfriend. You can love more than one person but, you can and should be only with one. Is this guy true to you or his girlfriend cause sometimes he may want his g/f and u cause what you don't have his g/f has and what his g/f don't have you do. You know what I mean. Think it over.
Reply:Look, she got him first so.....you should look for another mate.


Theres more fish in the sea.


Or....you could......kill......the other......giNEVERMIND
Reply:love is worth any fight...if he really loved u he would pick u...tell him to the face that you want him to make a choice...u or her.
Reply:It might be, but not in your case. You need to leave them alone. You don't love him, you love yourself. If you loved him, you would want him to be happy. He's already happy in his relationship. If he wants two women, he's a player and you need to stay away from him. He will do the same thing to you if you date him.





Find a single guy who isn't a player. Don't be a homewrecker. Good night!
Reply:maybe hes IN love with you and ye just loves his gf. like he loves him mom or somethinjg
Reply:Chalk it up and erase him from your life, it's not love if you have to fight.....
Reply:you poor poor child. we all gotta go through it though! you sound young so chances are your not really in love but if you feel that strongly about this boy then go for it. however i must warn you that you probably wont have him for long.
Reply:Depends on the situation, in your case you need to back off and if he really loves you he will make himself single and come to you. Don't try to break them up its bad karma. Just tell him You have a girlfriend so I am not going to mess with you, don't give any ultimatums. Lose all contact for a while if he doesn't break up with his woman than that's that he likes her more or loves her to much and doesn't want to hurt her. How would you feel if a guy was doing this to you, being dishonest, if he does it to her he can do it to you. wait it out don't be scandalous
Reply:and what makes you think, that if you do "win" him.....hes not gonna fall in "love" with someone else....uuuuugh...some girls are stupid....
Reply:love is definately worth it....if you feel it deep down fight for it....even if it doesn't work out you will feel better knowing you did what you could with no regrets
Reply:Its worth the fight... but not when you have to fight with another woman. Read this article.... you will think differently about your man then.... it has an example of a situation just like yours.
Reply:no


he is playnig both of you


you a fool if you think otherwise


and you lack self esteem if your are willing to settle for 2nd place to the other girl


that or your desperate and thus willing to settle for such and arrangement
Reply:I think it is worth fighting for.





Its always complicated, its always a challenge.





If you think he or she is worth it and you feel like there is a real chance there.
Reply:love is totally worth fighting for. and if you want him bad enough you can get him. hopes this helps. GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH,
Reply:NOPE,,ITS NOT.YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO FIGHT FOR YOUR LOVE. AND YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO SHARE YOUR MAN.
Reply:not really cuz he's ego will get bigger and he might be differnt than u think he is
Reply:In all honesty I think u should leave him alone cuz im sure hes tellin u he loves u but doesnt think twice about u when hes wit his girl so u should just go ahead and find somebody else thas gonna love u and only u and doesnt have a girl
Reply:Not if he already is in love, and has a girlfriend.


There are names for the both of you, and they


aren't nice.
Reply:split them apart and take him for the win!!
Reply:In that case no.





He is probably BSing you to be able to have both of you. Even if that is not the case it's BAD NEWS. Trust me on this. Walk away. Plus I seriously doubt either of you really know what true love is. How could you possibly love a guy that is with someone else? If he's with someone else then he's not giving you all of himself so therefore you probably don't even really know him well enough to truly love him. What you're feeling is LUST.





Trust me. Don't take my advice and I'll bet you a million one day you'll wish you did.
Reply:OH MY GOD!! how naive could you possible be?! he doesn't love none of you girls, he's a player and you are just falling into his trap. He knows he can have you both, so I am sure he will not leave his girlfriend for you. Wake Up Girl!! you can do better than that!
Reply:i thinnk he is usiing both of u and if he cant decide then to leave him i know its hard but i bet there is someone else out there
Reply:Did you sleep with him ?
Reply:the guy has to figure out who he loves more... you love each other right? if he loves you morethanhis gf... fight for it girl!!! there's nothing wrong with fighting for your happiness...
Reply:yes
Reply:when you fight for love you fight for the right reasons you wouldn't want someone to do the same to you. its karma(what goes around comes back around : (