Can you love someone, stop loving them and split up and then get back together and start loving them again?

I was engaged to my partner of 4yrs but after 6 difficult months we broke up. I fell out of love with her and think i stopped loving her. After 2 month apart we are back together, she said she always loved me but fell out of love with me . I've said i love her again but this time its a different feeling . Can you fall back in love with someone? Has anyone else been through this?

Can you love someone, stop loving them and split up and then get back together and start loving them again?
Sure you can, it happens all the time. There are many different reasons for this happening because love is such a strange emotion. I have no idea about your whole story, but if you may have been too young to be considering marriage and were unable to deal with the whole situation (cold feet idea). You may have just been too immature, you wanted to play the field for awhile, you just got tired of the routine or their were things about each other that drove you up a wall and finally culminated in the loss of love and the breakup. I think the key reason for this sort of thing is lack of proper communication. Without having a regular pipeline back and forth with one another, neither knows exactly how the other feels about things. This can lead to frustration, unresolved anger and loss of love. I suggest, this time, you try to have a really good dialog between yourselves. That might help build a love for a lifetime. Good luck and I hope this helps a bit.
Reply:love is love you know when your in love because you feel different me and my partner were together 4yrs we broke up for one year and know were madly in love we have been back to gether two years and we are getting married this xmas so just believe your heart
Reply:feck, her, if she ;left once he'll do it again, bury her under the patio and move on.
Reply:if you are mutually honest %26amp; the trust is there, yes.





The best that you can do is change your lives. Emigrate. get out of boring routines. Throw away your TV %26amp; spend time doing things that you both enjoy. The magic will soon come back.





Alternatively, you could always try dogging?
Reply:I reckon deep down the chemistry was there, it takes life's experiences to deepen the love, that's why good relationships evolve nobody stays static sometimes unpleasant experiences strengthen the relationship if we allow ourselves to learn by them in a positive way.
Reply:sure u can. Sometiems peopel just need some time apart so thet they would solve all the difficulties between them. time makes people think about the past and do some changes. Getting back together is good , specially if it means that u've both gove through changes and ur life is going to be better.
Reply:sure you can. what happened before was just a bad patch! forget it and build the bridges
Reply:Everything is possible.
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Reply:Yes and the best of luck
Reply:yes it can happen
Reply:It is possible,you just have to be sincere to each other.
Reply:yeah i suppose u cn. especially being with a person 4 many years it is possible, wats wrong is that u r doubting urself 2 much just relax n think of all the good times and all the things u have done together u will b fine x
Reply:Yes I think so and itseven better second time round, go for it!
Reply:yes of course you can its called life and if its meant to be it will be

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