In Love at 13?

well yeah i'm gonna be 14 in september and i fell in love and i love him but my parents don't want me to see him because he is 14 years older than me but yeah i've almost known him for a year and i love him but if my parents find out i still talk to him i'm gonna end up in juvy and he'll end up in jail..this isn't right he hasn't done anything to me isn't not fair and my parents judge him tell me he isn't good enough 4 me but i love him and i really want to spend the rest of my life with him i really can't wait till i'm 18 i'm going to be able to see him i really miss him because he moved 3 hours away from me and i call him when i get the chance but idk what to do..and just yesterday he asked me to be his gurlfriend and i asked him.. will u wait 4 me till i'm 18 and he said yes and i have 4 more years till i see him i really can't wait but idk what to do i really love that he is patient,loving,caring,respectful i love him i'm very happy to have found him

In Love at 13?
You can't really love someone until you love yourself. You are very young and really need to get to know yourself better. 13 or 14 is the age you start to learn about love but it's not healthy or safe to be in love when you're 13 or 14. Try to do well in school and pick up some activities. Go to college in a few years and reach your potential. Good luck sweetie.
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Sorry, but that is impossible. Much as I hate to say it, you're being taken advantage of by an adult who knows better. There are many reasons why there are laws to protect young girls, but all of them have to do with you being preyed upon by adults. Those laws call such behavior "statutory rape" because you are not old enough or wise enough to handle these situations on your own.





If he continues to contact you, please let your parents know immediately and ask them to call the police and report him. You are putting yourself in serious danger by continuing any relationship with him.





You matter, so take especial care of yourself!
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