Do you think your partner loves you more than you love them, or do you love them more than they love you?

I know a crack pot who when his wife says, I love you, he said, "I love you more"... UCK... keep in mind this is the same crack pot that I seen flirt like a FIEND and oggle women for hours at at time! Every time I hear the two of them I want to yack!





I KNOW she loves him more than he could ever love her because he is a souless creep! My cousin told me that her girlfriend told her to always look for men who love you more, because you know that you have them... not necessarily in a negative way, but in an upper hand kind of way.





I am still wondering what I want. Even though I find that guy and his wife to be insane, it would be nice to feel that, but without the fake contest of who loves who more... I would like to have a guy love me more though, because I am too needy when I love more...





What do you think?

Do you think your partner loves you more than you love them, or do you love them more than they love you?
Some people have to love their partner more than the other because that other person isn't really able to love another in the right way. This happens all the time. I had a relationship where I was way more involved emotionally than the guy and later found that it really didn't matter to him if I was around or not. I still think about him all the time but haven't heard from him in months. I sometimes can't believe how unequal our love was, but I never regret loving somebody. I would just always look out to make sure you don't get hurt by the situation. If you cannot trust the person, that is something else.
Reply:Well , My husband tells me all the time he loves me more. I generally say I love you , then he rebutes with the love you more , then I rebute with the I love you best.


I really feel he loves me more but I love him the best. I too am needy and he has to love more where I look out for him the best. Buying him things he needs, cooking him good meals, making sure he has clean clothes. Stuff that keeps him going so he can love me more. LOL.
Reply:I never look at my relationship with my wife like that. As long as i love and loves me in return, that's all that matters. All the other stuff, i throw out the window.
Reply:*tears* I am unloved and unwanted so I have no fricken clue *blows nose*
Reply:Being needy for love doesn't guarantee more love in return.


Sounds like you need to take time to get to know yourself more and what makes you a special person. Love yourself more than anyone could love you (not in a selfish way) and you will feel secure in a relationship because your partner will love you for yourself. Remember the Whitney Houston song lyrics: "learning to love yourself is the greatest gift of all." Until you love yourself, you can't give love and can't receive it in a way that will make you feel secure. Security comes from within. Looking to others for it will get you nowhere.
Reply:it is not about who loves who more but what you will do for that some one special whether it is just phoning them %26amp; tell them that you love them or just being silly %26amp; funny when you are together
Reply:I think my fiance must love me more. He puts up with a lot from me. Probably more than I would put up with from him. But I love him plenty, too. I wouldn't marry him if I didn't think he was the man for me. Maybe he just has a bigger capacity for love than I do.





Make sure you don't end up with some one who loves you that you don't love. That's what concerns me about your cousin's philosophy.

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