Do you believe in puppy love appose to just regular love? How do distinguish the two?
I am 22 years old and I thought I was in love with this guy. We had a relationship for about 2 years and have been broken up for several months now! I am starting to think that I was never really in love with him or maybe it was just puppy love I was feeling! If it was "real love" wouldn’t I still be with him? Wouldn’t I still love him?
Puppy Love...?
I think that it was your first real love experience. Maybe you are so unsure of your feelings because you two closed your relationship unexpectantly. Puppy love is like when you have a big crush on someone. When you have real love you will know. You will never be able to get that person out of your mind all you will be able to think about is them. True love is a treasure.
Reply:i tink it all depends on how they treat you! if he paid u loadsa attention then u start to beleive u love him! i tink u know when you love sum1,u jus feel it! .x.
Reply:you are in love with this guy
u know why u still think about him
it wasnt puppy love
the relationship didnt work out
i bet u r thinking of the what if???? questions
the answer is u still have feelings for him
Reply:Maybe it wasn't love at all...maybe it was lust. The two can be confusing.
Reply:yes its puppy love
Reply:“in love” verses “pure love”
Pure: unfiltered, unconditional, comes with acceptance, caring, and non-judgmental. It comes to you from the giver without strings. Never wanting or needing anything in return. It is not a love that is craved, or lusted for. It is gentle, soft, always there. When this love exist between two people, they can be apart for days, months, or even years and be as connected as they had never been apart.
It’s warm, calm, happy, joyful, with feelings of inner peace.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
Reply:Puppy love is the infatuation that you may have for someone but is not an unconditional type of love. You could have truly been in love with this guy. But sometimes Loving someone doesn't mean being in love. You can love and care for a persons well being and even have a physical attraction, but it doesn't necessarily mean that person was meant to be your life partner.
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