He says he loves me, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?

im 15, kevin is 16. hes a TOTAL player. hes also amazingly drop dead gorgeous.


he said this:


i love you so much that the word love has become in love with its self. i think you are the most beautifulest girl in the world and if any guy cant except that then they dont no the meaning of love. when i look at you my heart goes crazy and if any other guy does not feel the same then they are real messed up in the head. i will never stop loving what i see in your eyes.


i love you so much that me hearing about other guys makes my heart ake but i no when you want a real man you will come running to me.





were not together, but i love him. i cant get enough of this guy!


everytime i start forgetting him and getting ineterested in some new guy i see him and all my new feelings erase!


after comparing him 2 every guy ive ever met or been with, theres no comparison.


if he loves me sooo much, shouldnt he make an effort 2 contact me? and its NOT because hes busy or cant do it.

He says he loves me, and i love him, but he keeps disappointing me.....?
sweetie, he is 16 - still a kid, at that age all most guys are after is a bit of fun, you can't expect to put all your trust in him and not be disappointed. concentrate on having fun relationships for the time being until you are a little older, you are the same age as my little sister, if she came and told me this i would tell her to go and enjoy being young and worry about love when she is a woman in her 20s (not that love has an age limit, but you get my drift) if he loved you as he says, he would do anything to be with you and make more of an effort to contact you as you said.
Reply:i think U should go after him and he will fall into ur arms
Reply:Move and find another cat worth your time.
Reply:ok well first off, in your first sentence you said hes a total player. so is he sexually active? are u active with him, have u been,,,,do u want to be%26gt; if he is like this you dont want to be with him. it will be better for you to try and forget about him. i know its harder said than done but you have to. can u imagine how many other girls he says this same line to ? they are probably in the same position as you and thats what he wants. he feels like hes in control and thats what he wants. so you need to move on and get him outta your life so he doesnt have that control over u. you are only 15 soooooo young, you have so much life ahead of you and soooo much time to find a great guy who willl sweep you away and give u the times u deserve
Reply:At your age, this is just a passing fling - you shouldn't try and take it seriously. As you say, HE'S A PLAYER!!!! A tiger is a tiger - you can't change a tiger into a lion!





Have fun and take it easy. If you can't, best to let him go, because he's not going to be serious with you!


You are both immature emotionally, and are not ready for real relationships. It's not you, it's not him, it's more your ages, experience and maturity.
Reply:seems like you want to get played...don't be a notch on his belt...i bet he says that to every girl out there and then cross them off his check list that he carries in his back pocket
Reply:r U A blond?? you're 15....JUST THINK HE'S NOT


CONTACTING YOU.....He's 16, PRETTY SHAKY GROUND


if YOU ARE A BLOND, WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE


SMARTER THAN OTHERS, PLEASE FIND A NEW FRIEND.


they MAKE BETTER HUSBANDS FOR THE FUTURE
Reply:I hate to say it but what yu said is true... If he was actually in love with you he would want to talk to you and stay in contact with you. I knew someone like this too, and as soon as I found someone who really did love me and I got married then the guy got really jealous and turned extremely psycho and stalkerish. Just be careful that you don't get hurt, in any way shape or form. Go with what is truly in your heart and think it through before commiting to anything...
Reply:he has eith gotten over you, or he's just scared, y r u not tgether email me at elmospimp28@yahoo.com wit more details !
Reply:sounds like he is feeding you lines to get some from you. I mean, if he said all of that and meant it, he would be contacting you more.





When I first fell in love, I had to talk to my man everyday. I couldn't start my day without talking to him and I couldn't go to bed at night without talking to him.





How do you not contact someone you love so much? Keep him as a friend for now. Actions speak louder than words. Make him prove his love to you.
Reply:He's a player. Run don't walk as far away from this guy as you can. Not to hurt your feelings, but how many other girls do you think he has said this to. No matter how old he gets, he will be a player and be a cheater. Your only 15, so you have the hope of meeting some guy that will blow your socks off, and make this guy look like gumbo.
Reply:look-wise there's no comparison but that's only skin deep, who makes you feel awesome when you're with and not with him? that'd be the guy you should date and soon, about the new feelings erasing, breathe, and reconstitute those feelings with someone else, this guys a bad catch...throw him back! (and have some fun with someone nice, most players don't even begin to grow out of the good-look-player-phase until they are in their late 20s or even later!!!!!)
Reply:first of all the two of you are too young to know anything about love you are just babies when you get older like around 21 and up then you would know a little bit as you get older you will understand what the two of you call yourselves doing is called PUPPY LOVE beginers
Reply:Every 16-year old who's dating is a player, because that's all they have to offer. No full-time job or income to provide for you.
Reply:well, gee! he sounds like a WINNER...
Reply:as you said yourself.. The guy is a PLAYER.





He's PLAYING you.. like a fiddle.





Keep hanging on %26amp; he'll keep you hanging. I'm sure he loves that he does not even have to be with you to keep you interested.





Get over this loser %26amp; get a guy who is REALLY interested.





ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! Or ALL TALK %26amp; NO ACTION. Sounds like your guy. Remember this!
Reply:At 15 %26amp; 16 is is extreamly unlikely to be real love, especially if it's your first relationship.


If he did love you he would want to be with you and not run around doing everything else.





Apart from the odd handful of people in the world, no-one ends with the guy they liked at 15.
Reply:dude, your right about this guy bein a player, and you cant let him know how crazy you are for him. That stuff he tells you sounds like hes just feeding you lines, no matter how romantic it is, if he were so crazy about you then you would know and he wouldnt have to tell you. I ****** up when i was fourteen and had a thing with an eighteen year old, but he never told me this stuff, because he knows im smarter than to belive every word he said. I feel like i know he liked me anyway, when we hooked up (i had a boyfriend so we couldnt be official- i know, ****** right?) he never ever tried to do anything but kiss me(and he had many chances to do much more). A thing that will drive this guy crazy is if you never give him your full attention, cuz hes so used to girls falling over him, its called hard to get. take my advice or not, but it worked 4 me, and make sure you keep telling yourself that you cant trust him, until he proves to you that you can.
Reply:maybe hes shy
Reply:Not sound like a jerk, but don't do anything with him besides being friends, no matter what, you even said he is a total player, that should defentaly make the desicion for you, unless you really trust him, if your not together than he shouldn't make an effort to contact you cause that would be kinda creepy, unless it was on a friend level , but you don't have to listen to me because it is your life and u make your personal desicions