I believe that you can fall in love at any age. I am 14 and I have been in love 3 times. Once when I was 12, again when I was 13, and now I am in love with my current boyfriend. The thing is, people tell me all the time that its not love I only think its love, and that its impossible to fall in love at 12,13,and 14 years old. I was just wondering what other people think about this, and if anyone else is going through the same thing.
Love at any age??
I don't think you can really fall in love with a person when you are a preteen and in your early teens. You are going through a lot in your life and your hormones are going crazy. If it was real love then you'd still be with the person you "fell in love with" when you were twelve. You can "care", "like", or have a "crush" on a person-but I don't think a person really knows what love is until they are old enough to understand it and are an adult or can support themselves. The media sometimes encourages kids to be "in love" at a young age and that's wrong. I don't want to be rude or anything but MOST of the guys (NOT all) I have met just want to date a girl to get in her pants. That's wrong and abusing the trust and feelings of somebody. A huge no no!
So yeah, that's just my opinion on this. You're entitled to yours as much as I am entitled to mine. :)
All the best!
Reply:Absolutely. I mean I am 13 right now and I have had many girlfriends. It will happen. Love is like when a baby learns to walk you try and you might fail so you keep tring. so if he isn't the right one look and find out what other guys are like but don't do it while you have one boyfriend.
Reply:According to me there is nothing like 1st love or 2nd or 3rd, love is just love %26amp; true love. yes u have crushes at this age but u cant call them love the actuall meaning of love can only be known after the age of 18 or after that when u become more responsilbe in life.GOOD LUCK in life.tc.bye.
Reply:Liza babe it does not mean that you cannot fall in true love at the age of 14. Only that at this time you need to be a bit more careful because of guys who would waant to misuse you and also take precaution of getting into infatuation.
Reply:no opinion...
Reply:I think your idea of love is different so early on in your teen years. Lust and crushing can feel so intense.... As we mature, we're more capable of being deep in love... I think you'll be your best judge when you're in your 20's... you'll be able to look back and judge these feelings now and compare them to feelings of true love
Reply:Dont worry about what others say. Trust yourself and what you feel in your heart. Love can be defined in many ways--but the truth is that it has lost its meaning when we try and say it in words. When you think of love as an emotion and you feel it inside, thats what love is.
Dont feel bad about what other people say, people talk, they always do--sometimes its good sometimes its bad--but dont fee like they are right. Listen to others opinions but dont let them consume you.
Sure your young, but that does not mean you cant feel love. Love is there weather you are 12 or 90, love is love.
Remember that nothing is impossible.
Reply:I feel the same way about my firend. Well.... I guess he's not my friend anymore, he's more now. He looked at me and actually told me that he loves me, and I feel the same way about him. At our age we already understand..
Reply:any age of course! i know a 5 year old whose had sex, and a 90 year old whos dating! thats love at any age!
Reply:I was in your situation baby. Just don't get into sex yet.
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