My boyfriend loves me... but I don't love him?

Last night my boyfriend whispered in my ear "I know I am in love with you I'm just not saying it yet". I pretended I didn't hear and said "What was that hunnie?" he replied with "I said you're cute!" We have been together just over a month. I am not ready to be saying this yet... I do love him as a person, I really do, I just don't know if I'm IN LOVE with him yet... I don't want to confuse "lust" for "love" (Big difference). Is this unfair to him? I know he's going to come out and say it soon and I don't know if I should say I love him back since I love him as a person or if I should just say I'll tell him I'm in love when I'm ready. Can someone help me out? Does this mean he's more "into" the relationship than I am? Any help is so appreciated! Thanks!


~Maia

My boyfriend loves me... but I don't love him?
honestly, love is when you want to be with him every second of the day. just that real love. if you dont love him, dont make him go threw that ****. dont stall something that's inevitable.


it will just hurt more for him.


1 month and you dont love him?


you seem like a decent person. either you love him or you dont.


and maybe you already know or you will know someday.


love can be something beautiful and precious,


but it also can be the most unbearable pain.


do what you feel is right.
Reply:This is a hard question to answer for someone else.





This would be because you have to feel this one out for yourself. When/if he comes out and tells you he is in love with you, you need to be honest about what you are feeling. Don't spare his feelings because in the long run, if you don't spare them now, he will at least know your true feelings and not accuse you of leading him down the garden path.
Reply:well us guys do tend to fall in love quicker then the women but if your boyfriend tells you this just answer him like this. honey i think its great that you love me but right now i am not IN LOVE with you yet because its to early in our relationship.


good luck maia
Reply:its seems tat ur boyfriend is really in love with you and he loves you more, coz he got a romantic touch by wishpering in your ears tat he loves you. i guess u must be really luck to have him. u even said tat u love him as a person then why cant you give a move for it, after all its hard to find a guy who loves u more than u love him , so you can very well go into for a realtionship. if u still think tat u r not ready for it, then make him realsie abt wat u r going through.. if he understood you still then he loves you coz he had understood wat u have been going through.. hope u dont hurt him by saying tat u r not ready... coz... never lose a person who loves more than u love him...


Good Luckk...
Reply:Just say, "thank you, that means a lot to me" or "you're hot".





If he persists, tell him how you feel. It's perfectly natural (at the one month stage) for one person to be more into a relationship than the other, as long as you even out in time. However, if you don't see the relationship lasting, don't lead him on.