This is kind of awkward, since its tough to fully explain, but i will do my best.
I and this girl were in love. Not the usual love you can commonly find. This is love that was pure. Christian love some might call it.
I tried to keep it as powerful and pure as ever. We didn't even share a kiss. We were in love, as love can get in high school. I was a senior, she was a freshman; we were only one year apart in age.
However, this past summer, while we were separated for a month, she replied, "I changed alot" to my love letter.
She breaks up with me in August, and then asks me to wait till the end of the year so she can decide whether to date me again. She says its a possible no.
Should i just leave her, and not stay friends? She did break up with me after all...
Did Love die?
I respect you, I'm a Christian, too. But being one doesn't mean no kissing, it means no of all the other stuff. She might have felt like you were distant or too slow, or that maybe you never cared for her truly like she did for you.
By not showing affection, you might have let the love die, and it seems like she knows that at this point, it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. If you want her, fight for her! Don't settle! And, give her a real kiss, mmk?
Worst case scenario: She found someone else who loves her, too.
Best case scenario: She wanted you to realize that although she loves you, she needs a LITTLE more....
Either way, if she means so much to you, can you live with yourself if you DON'T try?!
Reply:You can still be friends. But if you don't love her anymore, then leave her.. But, in my opinion its better to stay friends.
Reply:Never stay with someone if they have to think about whether or not they want to date you. Her feelings obviosly changed,so find someone new who completely adores you.
Reply:I think that what she did was awful and you shouldn't wait on a girl like that... because just from what you've said, she has changed. She not that pure Christian young girl in love... what a shame... you were doing things by the book and God will bless you with a woman who can fully appreciate that. But tell her to take possible out and just go with a no because she doesn't deserve you! Pray... and let her go...
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