Love a guy of 26?

hey I'm a 17 years old and I love a man of 26...I told him already and in fact it was him who loved me first,he's the uncle of 1 of my best friends and that friend loves me too,but I don't love him,I told him that,but I don't want to hurt him when I go out with his uncle...everyone says that the one of 26 too old is 4 me,but it doesn't matter 4 actually,but there's a problem;he likes girls if u know what I mean...I know that I'm not the only one 4 him :(he's a player,but I love him so much!My parents don't know that I love a guy of 26!and I don't want to say it,but he lives far away from me...What should I do?

Love a guy of 26?
Wow Hon, who damaged your self esteem so much that you would give yourself to a player! The guys a ratbag - he will only ever hurt you. Don't do this to yourself.
Reply:its fine but long distance relations dont work i dont think...


im atempting 1 at the mo
Reply:Y? If you know the guy is a player and you are not the only girl for him do you still want to date him??


Y are you setting yourself up to get hurt?


Personally if he is a player, then i can only imagine that there is just one thing he wants from a much younger girl!





Rather stay away and dont get your heart broken. We have all as teenage girls had a crush on an older guy, thats normal, but really ask yourself what his motives are before doing anything!





Dont you think you are good enough to be the only being loved by your guy?
Reply:Okay, a 26 year old man, who you already described as a 'player', dating a 17 year old child only wants one thing and that is sex. He may even say he loves you, but that's the line that inexperienced girls fall for. Unless he is vastly emotionally and mentally immature, there is absolutely nothing that you could offer him other than that. 26 year old males do not care about your high school drama, teen angst or the problems you are having with your parents. They've been there and done that.





If he's actually trying to pursue a relationship with you, beyond sex I would be weary. You'll see this even more so as you get older, but men who are older than the women they date sometimes date the young ones because of their innocence. It's easier then to manipulate, control and even abuse someone who is much younger. When you get into the bar scene and/or go to college, you might find yourself under many advances of a 40 year old creep who is either looking for cheap sex or someone who control and get pregnant.





What should you do? Date someone your own age or simply don't date until you know what you want and who you want to be with. It's almost guarenteed that you are going to get hurt by this guy. I did know a girl in high school who dated a guy in his late twenties and ended up okay, but this is the exception rather than the rule.
Reply:I don't think he's right for you. To him your just a kid (who might do something with him).


I'M NOT SAYING THAT TO BE MEAN, I'm not, I'm saying that because I know.





I'm 25 and I roll my eye's at 19 %26amp; 20 year olds, they're so naive.


Plus he lives far away.


No girl, please find someone else.
Reply:thats wrong.....he's wrong and your wrong.





you need mental help.





when you are 26 what will you think of your co workers/friends dating that young...you'll think their sick and need to be in jail.
Reply:Forget about him it will never work, i went out with a 25 yr old when i was 16 and i thought he was the love of my life, my family hated him said he was a control freak, it will all fizzle out in the end and you will realise you actually had nothing in common with this man, enjoy your life and go out with people your own age and have fun dont be gettin into serious relationships at your age. i learned the hard way. dont upset your family they know best.





also why would you want to be with someone that clearly doesnt have any respect for you if hes a player and sleeping with loads of girls??? have respect for yourself!
Reply:Nine years. Hmmm. Could be a problem considering your age. Sex is certainly out unless you want to see him go to prison for a long time. Just write this one off as a crush and move on. It's the only way to keep your sanity.
Reply:You're seriously asking what u should do??? RUN FAR AWAY FROM THE PLAYA! Why would you wanna be with someone who has you on a checklist???You know that you deserve someone better than that, you wn't allow someone your age to play you so why let someones uncle do that.

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