LOVE...dont just say yes, give an explantion...thanks?

It’s been 41/2 months since; she told me she’s in love with me, thinks about me all the time. I said your lying/joking and she said she’s serious, she even told me told me she loves me several times after, and when I tell her I love her she says I love you too. When she says it she seems very serious, especially when my friends ask her. She’s a little liar but she I don’t think should play around like this, because her feelings are very much involved. We are not together but she treats our friendship similarly to a relationship. I know the way she acts when she’s in love, and that’s the exact way she treats me(when she’s not being moody, but at times even that’s confusing) a few times when a love song played, she looked at me(that’s a sign).

LOVE...dont just say yes, give an explantion...thanks?
whoaa. umm sometimes, i can say with experience, girls think its love...but its really not. They just get a little caught up in the moment. And saying "i love u" doesnt prove much.Do u really like her? It kinda doesnt sound like it. It all depends on if u like her the same way..





hope i helped- jas
Reply:She may be teasing all of you. She knows you'll end up feeling this. You may be on a leash. If you leave her be, I guarantee she'll come running back. She seems insecure and in dyer need for reassurance. Saying I love You is a strong statement. It shouldn't be used lightly, especially if you really like this chick. Tell her what's up and tell her up front. If you question this, I can only imagine how hard it is for you wondering if she really does love you. I hope you feel better!
Reply:Okay, wow that's a long question, but yes I got through it.


Sounds to me like she is a player.


Then again sounds alittle like she doesn't really want to settle down, just wants to like anybody she wants.


Here's the thing, I wouldn't get to comfortable with her, and get to close, cuz from the rate she's going she might dump you or hurt your feelings in some way.


How do i know this?


It's happened to me before.


I felt the same way you did, and a guy like me, showed more feelings towards me, but when it came to settling down, i don't want to play games, wanna get serious, he simply said no, I don't want to, and other things.


Hun, to save you from heartbreak, I wouldn't get to serious with her till she only likes you.


Till then, you might want to just be slow about getting into things with her.


Hope that helps.