I have been talking to a girl over the internet for some time now and i know without a doubt i love her. I am not a stalker or some geeky nerd, im always out and about at the clubs. Ive had plenty of girlfriends, but since talking to this girl its like i dont even want anyone else. Ill be all drunk at a club, get a girls phone number, but i never call it, cause i cant even look at another girl without thinking about her. Through my entire military career, starting college and starting my own buisness we have been talking, her and my buisness are the only reason i even have the internet. How do i tell her i love her, i think she loves me but i dont want to assume. She is my motivation for everything i do. Ill come home drunk and not even sleep, work on my college work cause i do it for her, hoping that my pay off will be to be with her one day. I really do love her but how do i say it? ive always been that guy who laughed at the "loser who told a girl he loved them" now its me...
Internet love...? Is there such a thing? I have never been in love before, but i know i love her...?
Well aren't you the chatty Cathy. There's no such thing, sorry.
Reply:Yes not only is there such a thing,it is much more common than many will admit.
It is THE way lots of people are meeting,and those who say bad things about it or are non believers just have never experienced it,nonetheless that does not make it wrong or unreal.
You definitely sound in love...and that is a true gift,cherish it,and follow your heart :)
Reply:Have you ever talked on the phone or only through IM %26amp; email? Slow down, ask her out on a "real" date. Then go from there. Save the "I love you's" for the 5th or 6th date, at least! There is no rush. BTW I met my husband on Y! Personals over 6 years ago. Been happily married for over 4. Yes, I loved him before I met him. But I didn't tell him that! He probably would've run far %26amp; fast. Even though now, I know he loved me then too. But, I dated a guy in my early 20's who started calling my Mrs.(his last name) on the 1st date %26amp; didn't stop even after I told him it freaked me out. I dumped him real fast! Don't rush it. If it's meant to be, it will be %26amp; don't forget to bring her flowers on the 1st date, we like that. Good luck!
Reply:I dont go for someone JUST for their looks....to me it is ALL about the person %26amp; how I am treated...how they make me feel...how I make them feel....on that note...I noticed, not ONE time did u say how she looked or anything like that...I would say you have fallen in love with the person that she is..or the one she betrays to be online...I would just come out %26amp; tell her...you never know...maybe she is in love with you also %26amp; afraid to tell you as well....Just lay it out on the table %26amp; let her know....GOOD LUCK...I hope everything works out for you...
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