Get revenge? If he took advantage of you, told you he loved you after breaking off a 2 year relationship. then after making "love" to you he told you he didnt really love you? He used the love he knew I had for him to hurt me and use me. he not only used my body, but he used my soul, because I gave him all the love I had. While we were making love I told him I would love him until I die, and that I could never love another. He told me he loved me also. Then after he was "done" he told me he had to leave, and told me he didnt love me. How horribly shocking is that? He used me in a terrible way. If this happened to you, and you had the power to get him in really big trouble (for something bad he did to someone in the past) would you do it? It could get him in really big trouble, maybe arrested. Would you give it to the pig where he deserves it?
If someone used your love just to use your body would you?
I probably would.
Unfortunately, it wouldn't make matters better. Jerks like that get what's coming to them in time. Love is also forgiveness. Don't stay mad too long. It'll eat you up and fester into the next relationship you have.
Reply:"I would love him until I die"
"I could never love another"
"should i get him arrested"
"would you give it to the pig.."
Please..Grow up.
Reply:what goes around comes around... he'll get his in the end.. and you won't have anything coming back to you for giving it to him...
Reply:Wellll, it depends on what he did, to whom he did it to and if it's a felony and you (or the victim)have actual physical proof like pictures and DNA and don't mind testifying in court and all of that and more, which would include possibly draggging your (or the others)whole life and past into the courtroom also, then go for it. But I would not sek revenge on a personal level bc it will come back to get you 7 fold. God says "vengeance is mine"...allow Him
--Otherwise like one has already said, what goes around,comes around..and it will eventually...it's called kharma.
The most important thing is this..you learned a hard and valuable lesson and that is this....a man will do almost anything, say almost anything and wait almost indefinately to put his penis in a vigina.
Forget him but don't forget the lesson/experience and move on and meet someone else nice soon ot be friends with and to do things with to get your mind and all back into better emotional shape...maybe go to church for awhile..
this almost always helps someone in your situation bc there is much support there in that sort of enviornment and community...
Reply:He hurt you really bad man! but do you really want to waste anymore time getting revenge. I would just get the hell away from him and never look back or even to think that i had a relationship with him. You can do better and you seem like a better person then that. Dont waste your time!
Reply:Stick it to him, girl!
Reply:If you messed up, loved the wrong guy, and were deceived, lied to, and had a chance to really hurt the guy, I believe you should allow the chance to go by. To reverse the grip that this rotten person did to you, would erase any healing you had accomplished. To got back and 'get him' would have a big effect on your overall desire to find love again. It will be hard enough, considering all the pain and sadness brought down on your honest efforts. Tis poison, and you should flee it, don't go back. Live and learn, and dispel the evil feelings he gave you, he's a sick puppy. Take the best you can get from love, and don't do it again, now that you've paid such a high price for the knowledge, use it to find a love that brings you sunshine and flowers.
Reply:HELL YES!!!! Trust me u will feel 100% happier and satisfied afterwards. He doesnt deserve any better...
Reply:Yes! Destroy him!
Reply:No, I wouldnt. We cant control how people treat us, but we can control how we react. What he did was really rotten... but dont let it eat you up inside. If you really must have revenge put some fish in his mailbox.
Reply:I would really but sorry POISON him.IT IS WORTH A LIFETIME GOING TO JAIL FOR THIS.
Reply:Forget revenge after all you could have said no.
Reply:I'd be hurt, but I'd move on. Trying to get revenge simply shows him that he won. If you act like it doesn't affect you, he might wonder if you ever really had feelings for him.
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