What is love?does it really exist?and why some people never experience it?

i am interested in love,do you believe there is shared love?i am 18 and so far i have never felt that i am loved by someone,is it normal? i have only two boyfriends and i broke up with them cause i wasnt in love.i always fell in love with people who dont like me and even disdain me:{{ i am sick of love,friendship etc. i think such things just dont exist.i am totally disappointed of everything connected with the word LOVE.i am collecting people opinions about love,so if you have experienced some dissapointment like me or just want to share something on this topic PLEASE WRITE ME i really want to know different peoples opinion.thank you for paying attention

What is love?does it really exist?and why some people never experience it?
let me tell u something:


Love is like hearing music from another room, u don't know who plays it but u really like it! sure now u want to know who plays this lovely music, so u go approaching approaching near the room, the more u get close to the room's door the more u like it! sure its not enough for u to stay at the door so u knocked the door and the music got nicer, then u entered the door, really felt the music and locked the door to stay inside the room for ever!


IF U REALIZED THAT THE ROOM IS UR LOVER'S HEART AND THE MUSIC IS HER/HIS LOVE, THEN U R IN LOVE!





u have never experienced love cuz u r affraid of it! don'y worry I have experienced love for 8 times now and 7 failed, sure I got hurt and cried alot but u must have patience and u must find ur lover wisely and to have patience cuz EASY COME EASY GO!


don't worry ur gonna be fine trust ppl and try to don't be affraid of love its really nice!


Good Luck
Reply:yes love does exist --- i think some people are so scared of being hurt they never truly open up to other people and that is the only way you are going to experience love --- by making yourself vulnerable and allowing someone else to share your life ---- yes you are going to get hurt BUT the good times will more than make up for that ---- best wishes
Reply:What is love?





Baby don't hurt me! Don't hurt me! no more!





(head shake)
Reply:Let me suggest this 80's song called: What is love? the singer is Howard Jones. Perhaps you can find it in youtube.


It's a good song and might answer some of your questions.


Yes, I've expererienced some dissapontments before but somehow I manage to get over them. Don't panic..you're not the only one on earth asking this question.


More than once I also asked myself..."what is love?"
Reply:when u have love (from ur inner heart) it feels so warm n good n u feel everything right.. but when it doesnt work out.. it sucks!! n u'll never want to know love anymore.. but love is to understand,,support,,n be their for them.. but u don't expect them to do that to u.. it exist..but u just don't have it yet.. don't worry.. the rite person will come to u.. n he'll be the only one =)
Reply:I felt the exact same way that you do. I thought that every guy was just out to hurt me. Love? Ha! yeah right! But, I believe that it is at that moment when you stop looking for love that it smacks you in the face. The man who loves me, and whom I love just the same in return came from the most unlikely crowd. My opinion on love is probably like the rest. It is rare. But, I also believe that everyone has a chance to feel it in some way or another. Maybe it wont be the love of a man, or the love of a friend. Maybe its the love of your mother or father, or the love of your cat, or maybe a mentor, but it is out there. I also think that you can only be loved and it is only love if it is mutual. No love can exist without two parties.
Reply:i believe in love. ive fallen in love with a guy, im 15. its unrequited. it hurts, i hate how ive grown up too fast. but for a blissful month or two, he loved me back.








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Reply:There is a great book by C.S. Lewis called The Four Loves. It's quite cheap or you can probably find it in your library.