Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Do you ever love 2 person at the same time?

have you ever fall in love with two person at the same time? especially when you have somebody that really care for you but when suddenly one person appears to your life, you are forgotten that you cant love anymore. This is what my situation now. I have a boyfriend that really love and care for me a lot. We have been together almost 2 years, i think i love him a lot.. he give everything he has for me. i know he loves me and i love him too. But when other person appears in my life, i suddenly forgot my boyfriend. i didnt realized i fall in love with a stranger that just appear , i dont even know who the hell is him. i hate this kind of feeling, but he likes me too, he told me and i think so.. but i don't know!!! im so confused about my feeling, i feel like being played by myself, put myself in a danger situation. I can loose both if im not deciding. But i love both,i dont want to loose them, because i love them. Tell me what should i do?

Do you ever love 2 person at the same time?
You have to choose...
Reply:Although it is difficult for you, you must make a chose as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will harm both of them. I have a friend from millionairematch.com that she once had the same question as you, but at last, she did a choice. She told me it is a duty to others, however. Now, she is living a happy life. I wish you have a good future.
Reply:you know that hapends a lot and people go for the new one and forget the old one. if u realy are 2 years together the other guy must be perfect for u to fall in for him but if i were u i would try to stick with the boyfriend and not look araund as if u dont have one just now that there is someone that cares about u and try to care about him. :)
Reply:strangers alwasy have that appeal...they seem shiny and perfect because u have a limited time with them.and they can always be on thier best behaviour. Your boyfriend doesnt have that advantage..because he is with u more...and u have seen his faults and "bad side" by now. If u leave this man fora stranger....once u get the stranger...he will no longer be shiny and perfect and u will be seeking another man..and t his pattern can continue for years until u understand that in order to have a real relationship that u have to know how to deal with strangers. to answer your question..no u cant love two men at once...make a choice.
Reply:Although most people don't like to admit it, I believe that we can love two people at once. Just look at how mothers can love several children; or how we love both parents - I think other love is the same. The trouble is that romantic love can also be muddled with lust - and it's a powerful emotion.





I'm so sorry that you're going through this; it's very hard to manage I know.





However, we can only have one life partner, because to succeed a relationship needs more than love - it needs loyalty, devotion, nurturing, generosity, patience - so that we make a secure home for our children and a place of refuge for ourselves.





The new fellow is unproven and if he succeeds in luring you away, he'll never have the trust in and respect for you that your current love has. He might even be attracted to you because you're someone else's partner - some men are very motivated by the challenge and once that's gone, the fire goes with it.





I suggest you stay hard and fast to your proven love. Most women spend all of their lives seeking someone who is good and devoted as well. You have this - you have gold. The odds of obtaining the same a second time in life is almost nought.


Imagine what life would be without this good man; what if you lost his regard?





Hug your secret memories to yourself; at least you have them - but reject the new contender, absolutely - no ifs or buts. Never be alone with him; never talk to him online.





Please stay with the man who loves you.





My Gran always said, "Marry the man who loves you, not the man you love."





I wish you peace.


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